Vetted: Loan was denied! Calli's Daughter needs surgery! Mold Posioning since struggling with mold removal for two years (link)
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"I REALLY CAN'T STRESS ENOUGH HOW URGENTLY WE NEED TO GET THIS SURGERY FOR MY DAUGHTER!!!!
kofi screenshot above
Update OCt 10 and 11 :
THE MOLD IS KILLING MY KID!!!! – @chingaderita on Tumblr / THIS IS URGENT!!! – @chingaderita on Tumblr
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We got enough to cover the laundromat and some food. Thank you so so much!!!!
THIS IS URGENT!!!
"I REALLY CAN'T STRESS ENOUGH HOW URGENTLY WE NEED TO GET THIS SURGERY FOR MY DAUGHTER!!!!
NEED TO GET MY 11YO TREATMENT AND GET RID OF THE MOLD OR HE IS AT RISK OF ASTHMA!!!
I know this post already has a lot of notes but we're nowhere near"
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Kofi pictures
"I'm very ashamed to keep asking but my youngest daughter woke up with pain, we took her to get checked by 2 different pediatricians with what little money we had, she needs surgery as soon as possible but that's another $1,100-$1,300.
I am so sorry but she is in a lot of pain."
$34/$1,300 surgery URGENT
$130/$300 court fees I think (getting a will in order and preparations to take care of kids if die)
$0/$1,300 mold repairs
4h ago
Nothing so far I have no idea what to do.
We got the loan denied, we're not progressing towards the goal for the medicine, they're still sick, coughing, their throats hurt so much they can't eat solids, we're running out of food again, we need to afford the laundromat and my daughter is at risk and needs that surgery ASAP.
Meanwhile it's still raining and the mold is growing, all the rooms stink of mold.
PLEASE!!!!!! We've been trying to fix this for almost 2 years
Mold pictures from back when had a phone
vetting: vouched for by @transgendz who is vetted by scam-buster kyra 45 (pictures below). transcript below cut
And nother campaign vouching, (ignore posssible misgendering as English not first language)
Other Donation goals
Below past documentation of blog posts and background info
still has debilitating tooth pain. put on hold due to flue emegency
New bed as mentioned above
need money to deep-clean house so safe for MIL return post-surgery (mold still here)
Repairs for toilet,
Transcript: vouched for by transgendz
transgendz is vetted by scam-buster kyra 45
I can vouch for Calli @chingaderita! Ive known the family for several years now and they’ve consistently shown proof, was vetted by Kyra on my request when they first messaged, I’m quite sure, the search function on blogs is just awful and I’m having a hard time finding such an old post. But I talk to Calli often, we’ve had conversations in English and Spanish, and everything they say tracks with the proof provided. I just thought I’d say something bc I know you’ve been helping them too. Thank you for all you do.
About Calli
Calli, is a nonbinary parent dealing with chronic illness, chronic pain, unemployment and severe depression taking care of children, in-laws, and rescue cats . Calli is a kind person constantly boosting other people’s campaigns despite their families situation and limited time at compute cafes Calli in posts has discussed: has tumors, problems with gallbladder and liver, chronic joint pain. And a horrible pain in jaw that
We really need meds soon, has not been able to afford them in weeks, and we don’t want another hospitalization
“My gallbladder and liver need constant medication to not get further fucked up, I have a bunch of untreated tumor/growths I hope my healthcare will deal with at some point, I have chronic pain which affects my hips, back and left leg and sometimes my leg dislocates at random, just this August I’ve had two periods in less than 28 days, this is a common occurrence almost every month, and I’ve been dealing with teeth pain so intense it causes headaches, hurts my jaw, neck and now I have pain inside my right ear I suspect it’s related to my teeth pain.”
Summary of problems overall
*They have been helping boost many campaigns, gaza and otherwise (and have asked me to boost these three while their internet is unreliable):
(1) AHMED’S [campaign] IS VERY FORGOTTEN, PLEASE, KEEP SHARING!!! – @/chingaderita on Tumblr 2)Donate to Trapped Family in Gaza Appeals for Help to Survive, organized by Abdallah Alanqar
(3) Hani €5,688/€25,000 – @/chingaderita on Tumblr
“We really REALLY need help with the court fees and paperwork [get done before aAugust.], we just want to ensure our kids will be safe from my family in case I die, due to my deteriorating health.”
now Personal health problems
Sep 7 tooth pain, Couldn’t rest with this damn tooth pain pain pain soainIsbsk,ndl .zlz
Maybe I should have added this to the main body of the post but I’m on my second period in less than 30 days, cause my liver and gallbladder trying to kill me isn’t enough I have many tumors growing in different parts of my body.
Latest post aug 24
Thank you I did pay my healthcare!!! I was hoping with the extra I could get my meds but we ended up using it for food and taking my MiL to the hospital because of gastrointestinal pain, she had to stay under supervision for a whole night and is scheduled for more tests on Tuesday. We’re pushing her healthcare services to schedule her for a gastroenterologist as soon as possible, she has been unable to eat which has been a terrible combination with her diabetes. Can we ask for help affording her ensure bottles so she can at least eat that? We’ll need to do something about the humidity and mold soon, we get trapped in the rooms often, last night it took us over an hour to be able to reopen a door even with both my partner and me pushing. We need to get adult diapers btw. Please, anything helps!!!!
You know, it’s real nice that we got help to pay the vet bills and help my kid keep his cat safe and healthy but wow. It is obvious we do not matter at all. The moment our cat needed help we got the goals, both times But I’ve been trying to get my meds for weeks or months at a time and nothing. It’s real hard not to fucking cry
I know it’s hard for everyone but please, keep sharing, anything ANYTHING helps. We’ve been getting a bit of food and paying little by little what we owe at the corner store but the upcoming card payment is $190 and my meds are $130 and then let’s not forget my healthcare renewal. I also bring bad news, we’re starting with water shortages just like last year, we’ve gone from having 4 days of water a week to 1-2 if we’re lucky. Our only toilet is busted and there are 9 people here who use it. My kid still needs attention for a UTI he’s had for a couple of months now. And my partner has 3 ingrown nails and 2 big cuts on his feet he’s kept unattended for weeks. I’d hate to up the goal but we need every help we can get!!
more documentation from 2023. and
Went back on my blog to find proof of the fire where my in-laws lost everything, this other one with pictures and proof that I’ve been sick and struggling to get my medication since August 2023. Just felt like having things organized and maybe make another blog to keep all proof I can save since we lost a lot of information and pictures/videos when we sold our phones and lost the computer. Not to mention my blog is way older but I have no idea how to enter my archive :3
Pictures of mold damage and other problems from earlier post before lost phone in links
first link (link 29) OCTOBER 19TH –
second link OCTOBER 21ST
fire documentation: why in-laws living with them
“Went back on my blog to find proof of the fire where my in-laws lost everything, this other one with pictures and proof that I’ve been sick and struggling to get my medication since August 2023.”
I’ve been having the worst tooth pain of my life since a week and I also almost passed out in the shower today, so tuffnut better run before I put my pain onto him
I feel like I can't get a break. Everytime one thing goes wrong, 50 other things go wrong too. I've got a new family doctor, I guess that's good. But I only met them once, so I'm nervous because they're someone who's so deeply unfamiliar to me. But beyond just that, I'm also really stressed out about my teeth and everything. And about my stomach pains. I have so many problems. I also keep having sore throats or dry throats. It's frustrating. Really, really frustrating.
Some of it is almost certainly hypochondria, but I can't stop feeling teeth pains now. They're all on the right side of my mouth, but I can't tell if they're signs of cavities or if they're signs I've hurt my teeth via clenching or if I'm having wisdom teeth growing in again or what. I can't tell what's going on with my teeth. I really can't tell, because it's not like I have a dentist on call to reassure me or explain to me what's going on, honestly. I hate the teeth pains, but the mystery of it all is what makes me feel ten times worse than anything else.
The teeth that are sore seem to be in the molar region. I almost just felt a fear run down my spine that I was having a tooth grow loose and I really don't want that. I know that sounds ridiculous, but I'm really easily worked up about this stuff. Especially because one of teeth really does feel sore. I think I'm convincing myself I have a cavity with each passing moment, and I don't like that at all.
If I do have a cavity, I don't know how I'll cope with that. Last time I had one was when I was around ten years old. And at that time, I dealt with it really freaking poorly. They had to pull one or more of my teeth out. I agreed to take anaesthesia, because the idea of being awake while getting dental work of that extreme nature done really scared me. What I never counted on was how the anaesthetic tasted, however. So I woke up from being under. All my problems had been fixed.
But that taste… godawful. It tasted like powered strawberry or something, and it made me feel sick. I wanted to go home immediately because I felt absolutely miserable. But they wouldn't let me go home. So I had a massive meltdown, and I was inconsolable with rage. My mom tried to calm me down, and I lashed out. I kicked and punched and led a full assault.
My teeth are sore still. Up in the top right molar area, I think. And yet I still don't know if it's a cavity or if it's all in my own head. No matter what I do here, I feel like I can't win. But it's all stressful for me regardless. I keep getting in my own head, and I just feel miserable because of all this stuff.
I'm scared of having dental work done again. Especially since this old anaesthetic memory lives in my head. It's an old source of trauma, and I don't feel ready to face the fears head on and go down for another anaesthetic based dental operation. But I'm slowly getting myself prepped for the absolute worst case scenarios. I can't even think of a best case scenario here. I want to think of one, but I just can't. I just can't. It's really frustrating, and I'm getting myself all sweaty and hot and bothered again. I hate it.
I've been so worked up about this dental work thing that I haven't mentioned my consistent sore throats and dry throats and everything. For like the past few days now, I'd had a dry throat and a sore throat on a semi-frequent basis. I think it began on…I want to say last tuesday? I don't fully remember. But since it began, I've had a sore throat either every day or every other day. And frankly, I'm getting sick of feeling pains in my throat. The pains aren't enough to stop me talking, they're just enough to make me feel uncomfortable with my voice. And in a weird way, that almost feels just as bad to me.
I'm sure there's more paragraphs I could be writing now. But it's about an hour before bedtime for me when I'm writing this. I mainly wrote this because I felt I hadn't written anything sufficiently in detail to discuss my two newest issues. Because these two things are my two newest and biggest issues lately. The stomach pains are still there to a point, I won't lie. But this has helped eclipse a lot of stuff for me. I really, really don't like it. I just wish I knew where all these problems were coming from, and I wish i just knew how to deal with it.
Our walls are rattling again. The neighbours are shaking it or something again. So that's frustrating. But I'll try not to take away from this post. Because yeah, I have so many problems. And these teeth pains and sore throat issues are the newest things to be bugging me on a consistent basis.
Yes i love "sunrise parabellum" and "something beautiful is going to happen", and yes "a violent and irrepressible miracle" is one of my favorite quotes ever, but "this is intollerably bad" is the disco elysium quote i use the most.
shitty 4:00 am poem about tooth pain bc im blind in my right eye
my tooth hurts
it happens in spurts
i dont know when it will stop
i want to touch it but i'd better not
oh when will this pain go away
i am in agony i say!
