Last night, I watch a coming out video. By I mean coming out, its mean 'come out from the shell that you create and start being honest with yourself' kinda a coming out that I meant.
What I dislike about the video's is, the way people ask he/she who trying to come out a question like 'what you're so afraid of?'.
Mostly this kind of question came out from people who is straight. They most likely will think that its not a being of a deal.
Well, for someone like them, it is a big deal. Its about the life they chose to be, the way people will treated them once they know and the other people perspectives when you just trying being yourself.
Admit towards other people that you're gay, lesbian or any kind of part in LGBTQ community is kinda like you saying towards other people that you actually have sex or in love with their greatest enemy.
Even though your country accept the same sex marriage, it doesn't mean the people that you ask that question will feel fine and just freely coming out towards their family. Its not like that. It's so much complicated that it seem.
To you it might be not a big kinda deal. But to us (yes, I'm included) its important. To us, its like we being born once again. You never know how many people out there trying to be not themselves because they feel disgusting of what they have become.
Its true. Not our choice. Its kinda happen and we don't have any solution. But still, we proud to be ourselves and that's why when our kind trying to come out from their shell (not closet), we give the courage to do that.
So towards you guys who kinda like questioning why and what scared us to come out, change the way you say it. Why not, when we nervous to tell the truth about who we are, tell us that you will support no matter what. That you'll always beside that person when he/she at the hardest moment.
Gives us courage to be open. Not asking why we cry or breakdown when that moment came.
If you didn't mind about other people exposed and feel proud of they being naked. Than why not about us who trying to be the real us.