Discover Top Posts Tagged with #v polyamory

Day 5

Todas is 2×1

Kuina needs to keep her partners alive.

#alice in borderland #chishiya shuntaro #ima wa no kuni no alice #kuina hikari #ann rizuna #kuina x chishiya #kuiann #kuishiya #ann x kuina #kuina x chishiya and ann #NOT chishiya x ann #V POLYAMORY #aib rarepair week #kuichiann

Ben’s new beanie was a gift from Gia. A part of her, since she didn’t come with in person.

Kenji took that beanie off when Ben was injured. Basically took Gia away from Ben.

He didn’t have a beanie in the hyperloop. It was just them.

Kenji didn’t throw the beanie away; put it in his jacket. As in: “I’m at your side right now, so Gia’s just gonna step aside for a bit.”

Personally that’s a sign for me they’re/they’ll be in a V polyamory. Taking turns with seeing/dating Ben, without anyone having to break up, why choose trope, everyone’s happy.

mini flags #34 f2u with or without credit!

i love being polyamorous. i love my partner. i love bonding with their partner over our shared love for them. i love the experience of both romance and friendship between two people i care about very much. i love polyamory.

#lyser talks #nil.txt #i especially love that i met my partners partner before i had met my partner #and that they didn't respond negatively to me also dating their partner eventually #i'm very happy to have them both #if either of you see this somehow. hi <3 #polyamory #v polyamory #< to be specific

Is it normal for me to be dating two people who aren't dating each other?

Is it a "normal poly thing" for me as a female to have a gf and a bf but the two of them don't have a relationship? What are some tips to making this work and comfortable for everyone?

Yes, that is called “V-shaped” polyamory and is one of the more common polyamorous arrangements. It’s actually pretty rare for there to be three or more people where all parties are dating. Even though media depictions, news stories, fanfiction, etc. tend to focus on triads or polycules where everyone is in a relationship with everyone, that’s not as common.

Tips for making it work are going to be the same as in all other healthy polyamorous relationships. Open, honest communication. Everyone taking responsibility for identifying and articulating their own needs and feelings. Since this is a very common polyamorous relationship configuration, most of the advice you’ll find in my FAQ resources will be helpful.

Also, the idea of a “normal poly thing” is useless. Even if you three were the only people in the world doing this, that wouldn’t really matter. And plenty of things that are “normal” or common in polyamorous relationships are not healthy and happy. Normalcy is not a measure of anything meaningful. You don’t need to find out if something is “normal” before trying it out. If it’s healthy and happy for you, it’s fine.

Your girlfriend and boyfriend are what’s called “metamours,” linked not by their own relationship but because they’re dating the same person. It’s wise not to complain to one of your partners about the other one, or involve them in relationship issues. If you want to introduce them, keep things low-key and low-pressure. Let their relationship be what it’s going to be, don’t try to push for more intimacy than is naturally present. I wrote about introducing metamours to each other here.

#metamour #polyamory #v shaped #v polyamory #advice #polyamory advice

Is there a flag for being in a relationship with two people and they all are with eachother but there is also a third person which one person loves back?

Yup!

V: A polyamorous relationship involving three people, in which one person is romantically or sexually involved with two partners who are not romantically or sexually involved with each other.

Ex: A is dating B and C, but B and C are not dating each other.

#triad #v polyamory #polyamory #lgbt #lgbtq #lgbtqia #mogai #pride flag #pride flags #Anonymous

Is it possible, or common for straight women to be in V-shaped arrangements with multiple straight men? (

So it seems really uncommon to have a polyamorous relationship with two or more males with one woman. Am I just looking in the wrong places (just in terms of seeing how others handle this dynamic, not looking as in seeking). I am not really interested in other women. But i feel like it’s not realistic to want a relationship with two straight men who would want to both be with me, more than sexually. Do you have any thoughts on this?

Up until very recently, that was exactly the situation I was in - I identified as a straight woman and dated mostly straight men. For most of my dating life I have been in “V-shaped” relationships that looked like: me, a straight woman, dating Scorpio, a straight man, and Leo, a straight man, and maybe also Orion, a straight man. (Sometimes the men I dated were not straight; I don’t want to erase anyone’s identities, but mostly, they have been.) Often the men I dated got along well, but they were not romantically or sexually involved with each other. And typically they were dating other women as well.

This is, in my experience, actually a very common polyamorous configuration! Straight men are socialized in such a way that they are a population very well represented in polyam circles. If what you’re hoping for is a triad, where both straight men are involved romantically or sexually with each other, well, that’s not usually how straight men work - but it sounds like you’re looking for the opportunity to have multiple straight male partners who are okay with you having other male partners. That is very, very possible!

Try checking out my page on finding polyamorous people to date - be clear about what you’re looking for, set up a dating profile with that goal, get out there and meet some polyam dudes, and you’ll find your V! And to answer your first question, yes, it’s pretty common, and you may just be looking in the wrong places. Keep poking around Tumblr, YouTube, and the rest of the internet and you’ll find plenty of stuff being written by, and about, people in that exact situation!

#v polyamory #v-shape #polyamory #straight poly #polyamory advice #polyamorous representation