#yami posting

[the-fictive-haven]

Headmate 1: I wanna watch this show

Headmate 2: I want to start learning sign language

Headmate 3: Well I want to learn new art mediums

Headmate 4: NO, practicing our digital art!

Headmate 5: We should really be finding a job

Headmate 6: Hey remember those phone calls you need to make

Me: ...

Stays in bed all day because ADHD said no

[the-fictive-haven]

So. A little PSA because we keep seeing this shit.

Headmates are not fucking property.

They are not your silly little adoptable OCs. They are individual beings and deserve to be treated with respect.

You cannot just give away headmates like they're a possession you don't want. You cannot sell headmates. You cannot make headmates for other systems. No matter WHAT the intentions are, you do. Not. Treat headmates like objects. Genuinely what the fuck.

(this post does not apply to assisting other plurals' headmates in finding and exploring their identities, assisting another in creating a headmate of their own, or consensual system hopping. That's a different matter.)

We will block anyone we see doing this.

[the-fictive-haven]

Shoutout to literally anyone else with any kind of chronic pain because this shit sucks (<- curled up in bed with a bad headache for the 2735th day in a row (/hyp))

[the-fictive-haven]

Being plural is such a wonderful thing, in our experience.

You'll meet people from so many different backgrounds, with so many different experiences and outlooks on life. So many unique personalities. So many bright new ideas and viewpoints.

You're never alone. You always have someone to talk to. You always have someone to lean on, someone to help, someone to hold your hand through the scary moments and keep nightmares away.

I used to be afraid of our system growing and tried my best to suppress it. I'm glad I eventually learned otherwise. New headmates appearing is an exciting and celebrated thing for us, now that we've accepted they won't stop coming.

I. LOVE. MY. SYSTEM!!

[the-fictive-haven]

The second we go outside in the summer

[the-fictive-haven]

Not saying I have personal beef with the sun but sometimes I wish I could just square up

[the-fictive-haven]

Sometimes the impostor syndrome will be creeping up on me

...

and then I get jumpscared by hearing Surge say "bitch put the fucking glasses back on" out of nowhere, erasing all of my doubts immediately.

[the-fictive-haven]

I need to do something I need to do something I need to do something I need to do something-

Scrolls Tumblr frantically with mounting anxiety