Little Brain Burps @tenderbrenda - Tumblr Blog

There are always consequences. Take you, for instance. Someone, a long time ago, made a little decision, then another, then a big one, then one of absolutely no importance. And then by and by, you were born. On that day, you were the consequence of a harmless choice made by someone in a moment where you didn't even exist. And that choice defined your whole life. You are consequence, Perry. And tonight, you are consequential. THE FALL OF THE HOUSE OF USHER (2023) Created by Mike Flanagan

softest-punk

A thing no one talks about re: ADHD is that you can't... gain experience, the way other people do.

I don't mean you can't get good at things through repeated practice. You can do that, I have done that, but I don't trust it.

I was driving this morning and thinking about how I have never developed the blasé contempt for it most people seem to despite never having caused an accident in 20 years because my sense of time is such that I might as well have been driving for a week. I'm a good, safe driver, but I do not have a heap of confidence in my driving despite having regularly done it for two decades because my sense of time is such that those two decades may as well not have happened.

I finished editing a novel today. When I publish it, it will be the 64th novel I have published in the last 10 years, not counting ghostwritten work. You'd think after a decade and 63 novels I'd be confident that I was capable of writing, editing, and publishing a novel—even be confident about the timeline for this—but no. No, I feel like I'm doing it for the first time, every time, and I was surprised to have finished the editing at all, let alone on time. Because those other 63 novels were published in a past I have a vague at best concept of. I have a record that says it happened but I do not feel it.

I cannot trust my future behaviour because for me there is functionally no past. I know it occurred, I have records, but I don't feel it the way people without this kind of memory issue do. I feel inexperienced at everything I've ever done and I cannot accurately estimate my skill level at anything, particularly not on the fly.

I don't have a solution to this I just find it an incredibly frustrating phenomenon.

fmsoys

Countdown to The Punisher: One Last Kill [12/25]

The Punisher | 1.13 Memento Mori

manuciruja

awww the like button turns into a rainbow when you press it! that's so cute...hey staff what's with all the trans women you keep nuking?

manuciruja

i think we should be ridiculing them more for this. you don't get to try and go all "queer website" when your staff likes to go on nuking sprees targeting the trans fem users

#pride month #lbgtqia #lgbtq #lgbt pride

libraford

Local man, 47, fueled by spite, takes on double the workload to prove the rest of the team isnt pulling their weight, wonders why he only got half his tasks done.

transmantraut

MY JAW IS ON THE FLOOR

wayneradiotv

this is the new crown jewel of breaking bad edits

theweirdwideweb

Dudes healthcare is so fake. My ADHD meds are $940 without insurance. But they gave me a website of "coupons" which straight up looks like a scam website, and I got it today for $60! Just a coupon from a random website and it was $900 cheaper. America, I am confusion!! America explain!!

theweirdwideweb

For all my uninsured judys out there it's for Walgreens only: walgreens.rxsense.com

theweirdwideweb

handsmotif

as a pharmacy technician i can share with you some websites that give you those "coupons" for your meds!

goodrx is the most well known one, but if i'm trying to find the cheapest price for a patient i compare it to scriptcycle, and use whichever is offering the best price. you just type in the medication (PLEASE make sure you're getting the right drug, dosage, and quantity) and your zip code and they will spit out some offers for you

some pharmacies may have their own discount card to compare to as well!

if you are getting a name brand medication, you can also look at the manufacturer's website to see if they offer any evouchers for you to use too

good luck out there 👍

bitchesgetriches

How to Pay Hospital Bills When You’re Flat Broke

rayneydayss

another one is singlecare.com, brought my duloxetine from $240 a month to $20

and there are coupons for hrt on there as well :) different options for different pharmacies

hereissomething

dollarfor.org saved my broke ass, it can save urs too

#for posterity #good info

libraford

When I tell you that I took one of the most powerful photos of my life yesterday at the statehouse...

#for posterity #lgbtqia #beautiful

bryanjamess

1. Murphy’s Law

Anything that can go wrong, will go wrong.

2. Kidlin’s Law

If you can write a problem down clearly, you’re already halfway to solving it.

3. Falkland’s Law

When there’s no need to make a decision, don’t force one.

4. Wilson’s Law

Prioritize learning and knowledge, and money will eventually follow.

5. Gilbert’s Law

It’s your responsibility to find the best way to achieve the result you want.

ostdrossel

Sass and pride at the jelly trough on yet another dreary, rainy and cool May day. These are Rosebreasted Grosbeaks and Baltimore Orioles. They have the ability to lift the mood of a human ☺️

#birds #backyard birds #birds of north america

meyerlansky

just. please know. that giffing scenes like that is a fucking nightmare labor of love.

to wit:

bottom's the raw capture, middle's just flat curve correction to make the footage visible, top is the final coloring with /counts seven adjustment layers to add back in Literally Anything But Yellow

every giffer i know does it out of love for the game, but for the record it's not... easy. it's not just slapping the footage in a cap grabber and posting whatever it spits out. "professional" lighting and color grading has only gotten waaay murkier and flatter in the fifteen years i've been giffing on here, so uh. don't repost gifs, please!

infiniteeight8

I thought the bottom was a black bar. I didn't even realize that was footage.

Everyone say thank you to your neighbourhood GIF maker! Giffers are so important to the fannish ecosystem, but to so many people the amount of work involved invisible.

marinella-ela

photozoi

Site Supervisor

gingerhastoomanyobsessions

derinthescarletpescatarian

Real sound! No stupid music! You can hear it say moo!

lasrina

I went back and watched it again with sound on for the moo, and I wasn't sorry.

guineapiggies

Via loopyloola1

tenderbrenda

Perfect manicure

3liza

fyi

3liza

this post has been up for five hours and has two notes. i think tumblr shitcanned it because it has pictures of women wearing bras on it. very cool. no censorship message, just vanishing it

boxingcleverrr

AHHHHHH someone put all the info from the now-extremely-hard-to-read, 10+ year old bra post into one nice infograph! THAT POST WAS MY BOOB BIBLE. Yay Boob New Testament!

naomiknight-17

@aspect-rei

darcylindbergh

further FYI: it is EXTREMELY common for breasts to be different shapes and different sizes. if you find that your breasts are different to the point that it's hard to find a bra, if your cup sizes are extremely different, you may find that masectomy aids are helpful - ranging from variations on bras to partial forms or shapers!! a lot of insurances in the US will aid with cost if you ask your doc for a script, and a lot of docs are willing to write that script bc not only is breast support critical, the emotional impact is no joke. you don't have to have had a mastectomy to use these aids!! it's ok!!

here's one place that will let you see what is available but there are a number of sites -

https://www.mastectomyshop.com/