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why hello there women
now that I know itās just an autistic experience to finish socialising with someone or a group and to worry about how you were coming across Iāve sort of decided to spend no time worrying about it at all š¤·āāļø like okay this is expected but if other people arenāt wasting a lot of time analysing that then Iām not going to either
have you ever suddenly + involuntarily lost consciousness
yes (fainted)
yes (head trauma)
yes (substance-induced)
yes (lack of oxygen)
yes (blood loss)
yes (multiple)
no
friends, lovers, etc, should be people who are secure enough in their own ideas and beliefs that they can ādisagree wellā with you and others. I think this is actually one of the most fundamental qualities any kind of close relationship requires. it shows respect for you and your ideas, but crucially also that the person has respect for themselves and their own views. this is not to say arguments and tense situations should never happen if a relationship is āpositiveā, pretty much the opposite⦠if those situations canāt be weathered, if you or they feel the need to tiptoe around each other for fear of tension, then the relationship lacks this crucial quality Iām trying to describe. love and respect for them and for you should underpin how disagreements are dealt with, so you have to let those you care about be their own people and they should ensure this for you as well (-:
I write this partially by the way because there is a lot of fear within my generation about these kinds of things, people are afraid to follow their own judgement, to allow themselves to be contrary and think differently, and to similarly police this in others. this is unhealthy
just did my hour of reading hmm maybe I will go get a hot drink and a snack (-: relax a bit before bed yay
by Petr Kosykh
The way I basically have nothing to say on here anymore. And everything I do have to say makes me sound deranged.
the amount of 20th century lesbians I know of including mascs because they were somehow involved in mercedes de acostaās wider circle lol how did she get absolutely everywhere
wish Iād studied plant sciences or something because amazingly there always seems to be jobs in that somewhere and also I think itād be difficult to be depressed if your lifeās work was about trees and plants. constantly immersed in the life-cycle of things you know )):
Swinging at the hornets nest here (the āsex work is workā crowd wonāt like this one lol) but there was a post going around about like āif you work in hospitality and you think you see a sex worker, no you didnāt. Keep your mouth shut and let them make their moneyā is honestly sending me. As many of you know, one of my jobs is working front desk at a hotel and like no ladsā¦we canāt ālook the other wayā at times. Yes, we know when the working girls check in (many are regulars who are open about it, plus after working their long enough you Knowā¢ļø when a woman is because you can clock the signs) and of course we canāt stop them but there are times when you literally have to say something. Here are a couple of instances that have happened on my shifts alone:
-I was checking in two girls and knew something was off and asked to see both their IDās. Only one had a passport and her 18th birthday was literally a week ago. The other one handed me her high school student card. We had to call the police when their pimp came in and started making threats bc we refused to check them in.
-a sex worker checked in the night before and a housekeeper went into the room the next morning and found the woman in a bloody mess. There were chunks of human tissue scattered throughout the room (the housekeeper quit after that. Honestly, housekeepers are literally on the front lines of the bullshit but thatās another story)
-something about a ācoupleā was offfffffff at check in. The woman was standing with her hands behind her back, had her eyes glued to the floor, and wouldnāt answer questions despite her name being on the reservation. The man was answering for her. When I asked to see her ID, he hands it to me, and when I handed it to her, her arms were covered in bruises. We didnāt let them check in
-there are two properties and one of them has an agreement with a womenās shelter. Iāve checked in women into one property only to see them come in months later to the other property under the womens sheltersā reservation with bruises and broken limbs (many of whom are indigenous women).
So yeah bottom line: with the World Cup soon approaching, all of us -front desk, maintenance, housekeeping, the kitchen staff, sales, you name it all departments- have had to do extensive modules on clocking the signs of human trafficking. You canāt just look the other way because it can mean missing the underaged girl or preventing horrific violence. Yes we have our regulars and yes sometimes it is what it is but no you canāt just look the other way and let them āsecure the bagā because I guarantee thereās a pimp in the lobby/parking lot whoās the one getting the bag at her expense.
all this whilst trafficking survivors are literally trying to beg online for hotel workers to be able to read the signs of when women are being trafficked. some people are soooo evil
giving unread book back to the library makes me feel like i should be shot
The fact that some people say things like this while other people think itās totally fine to starve children is something that really should be talked about more.
period i am against that for sure
I hope that paris mwenda woman is okay. I havenāt really kept up but itās just more evidence that you can not mention anything about trans stuff at all, be completely āsticking in your laneā and talking only about issues you know about personally and directly, and yet youāre still branded a bigot for it. it was obviously part of the aim to just stop women talking about issues that directly affect us like š¤·āāļø
another use case for AI that will no doubt be (and probably is being currently by the looks of it) revolutionised by it so it finally doesnāt suck is voice dictation. even just a year ago on things youād have to say ācommaā to get it to write a comma etc, whereas now there are ones that just understand the rules of punctuation and put it in for you. Iām of mixed feelings about this bc part of me is like, what if this makes peopleās grasp of punctuation awful? I donāt really worry about myself bc Iāve always had a good grasp of punctuation, but overall what would the effect be? but then as someone who is episodically physically disabled and it has an impact on typing, I have to consider this a necessary evil for the good it will bring to people who are struggling