Ex-Libfem

16 yr radfem ~ bi ~ little too obsessed with pink 

[honplimenter]

Does this qualify as a shared delusional disorder?

[afabforafab]

[cherry-dykes]

tras: terfs are so evil and i want to fucking kill and r*pe everyone of them. i don’t know why they keep commenting under my posts :(((

their tags

#terf safe #terfs do touch #pro terf

[opisaterf]

TERFS DONT INTERACT #come at me terfs

[webshrine-deactivated20210222]

If porn was so empowering revenge porn wouldn’t be a thing and men wouldn’t be making fake porn of female politicians or women they hate in general. 

[webshrine-deactivated20210222]

If porn was so empowering men wouldn’t be trying so hard to locate and expose porn actresses. 

[papalseagull-deactivated2020082]

If porn was so empowering there wouldn’t be so many ex-porn actresses talking about how they were regularly drugged, raped, or worse while on “set”

[thebelgianconspiracy-deactivate]

if porn was so empowering, porn actresses wouldn’t frequently be victims of human trafficking. 

[feminism-is-not-radical-deactiv]

If porn was so empowering rich women would go into porn - woc, disabled women, women with student debt and poor women wouldn’t be the primary targets of ‘recruiters’

[radredrecluse]

yeah seriously. we don’t even need to list the ways men misuse porn for their own sick means like, porn itself is already sick. fundamentally wrong and defined by all the most malicious kinds of abuse.

[antiporn-activist]

If porn was empowering they wouldn’t have to trick or coerce people into making it.

[radfeminist-suggestions]

if porn was so empowering men wouldn’t let women do it

[cherry-dykes]

tras say shit like “terfs are fucking pieces of shit and they don’t deserve anything i hope they die. i want to kick every single terf straight in their ugly nose and break it.” and everyone is like yup this is a sane human being nothing to worry about here

but terfs say “yeah biological sex is real and there are differences between male and female bodies.” and everyone says we are horrible and evil and how dare we be so hateful

[evilterf]

May I ask why you are a TERF? you seem to want women to be respected and equal in society, I get that and I'm all for it, but why do you exclude transwomen from the protection of feminism? I'm not critiquing, I'm just genuinely curious.

I just want feminism to focus on women. Like, the entire point of the whole movement. Women being oppressed for their biology. When lately liberal feminists ONLY focus on trans women and push natural born women to the back burner and tell us to shut the fuck up about our periods, our vaginas, our boobs, our pregnancies, and ANYTHING else that makes us a woman and because of that makes us oppressed. Liberal feminism isn’t about women. Radical feminism is about women. Women are oppressed because we have vaginas and periods and boobs and pregnancies and NOT because we like doing our nails and makeup.

[pipebomb-malewife-deactivated20]

Lmao you’re reducing women down to their physical aspects sksksks not very cash money of you

[evilterf]

Women are oppressed for our physical aspects. 🤷‍♀️

Do you think we get paid less, abused, killed, and everything else because… some of us like makeup?

Cause news flash, they don’t ask little babies how they identify before they mutilate them.

[pipebomb-malewife-deactivated20]

Sounds like you value womanhood on physical aspects, so like, what happens when a woman is intersex?

[evilterf]

Intersex women are quite rare and it doesn’t change the fact that the vast majority of women aren’t.

[radicaldrifting]

@bumble-bitch-sanders when a woman is intersex they often do “corrective” surgery on her parts at an extremely young age that she never gets to consent to; and that often cause severe health problems later in life. Again, they don’t ask babies how they identify before they mutilate them, and intersex people are a minuscule portion of the population anyway - and of those who have spoken on this I have barely heard of any who aren’t pissed at trans activists for using them as talking points. They are also very aware their intersex disorders are either specific to XX or XY; not some “third sex.” Leave intersex people the fuck alone

[deputy-shayy]

Stop fucking bringing intersex people into these arguments. They’re an exception to the rule, and the rule needs to be established for there to be an exception.

[month-0f-august]

Said it before and I’ll say it again: rejecting femininity and holding onto your womanhood will always be more radical than rejecting femininity and claiming that makes you a new gender.

[month-0f-august]

In light of the famous feminine men now identifying as nonbinary rather than just existing as feminine men: rejecting masculinity and holding on to your manhood will always be more radical than claiming that being feminine means you can’t be a man.

[render94]

Ah, le donne... sempre impareggiabili!!!

Ah, women ... always unmatched !!!

[mythigal1966]

And now, for a very dignified classical music recital...

[diggers-colorful-world-deactiva]

And they did all that in heels.  Let’s see Yo-Yo Ma and his buddies do that....

[mugwomps]

I bet rehearsals were fun

[millennial-review-deactivated20]

[smallwelshmonastery-deactivated]

Are we though

[tockthewatchdog-deactivated2020]

i love the idea that being societally pressured to change your name to your husbands due to thousands of years of history of being owned by him like chattel is more privileged than changing your name to anything you want by choice to express your identity. Dumb silly white cis women being owned as property dont you know how privileged you are.

[suchisthelifeofasexygirlonline5]

I’d cry 😢

[boy-obsesed-barbie]

[wethrowaway111111world-deactiva]

[thefruitthatgodforgot]

Funny how sex is an irresistible human urge when a man rapes a woman but when someone gets pregnant and wants an abortion they should have been smarter and thought twice before having sex if they didn’t want a child

[gaypitbull]

why are literally all cishet aces Like That

[gaypitbull]

lgbt person: I could literally be killed for being lgbt

Cishet ace idiot with a Sherlock icon: okay but one time this kid at school told me I was weird

[terfpeach]

PEACH IS QUEEN TERF!!!!11

She really is tho 

[yikes-dot-exe]

TW: discussion of slurs and related trauma

Friendly reminder to not call people queer. It’s offensive as hell. If that person calls themselves queer, great, but don’t assume you can go around calling and gay/lesbian/bi person queer. I grew up hearing it used as a slur and for me, and many others, hear it as such. Same similar with slurs faggot. It can be triggering if that’s the context you learned it in. Please don’t call people slurs if you’re not 100% sure they don’t have traumatic experiences related to those slurs.

[anneemay]

I love this song

[bricklebeary]

South Korean beauty standards take shit to the next. Fucking. Level. Women are evaluated in totality based on every minor physical detail and whether it matches the ideal to the point where their decision to go under the knife for procedures the likes of blepharoplasty (surgery on their eyelids) is a main determinant of whether they get a job. For them, shit like this is an expectation. Fuck that garbage, burn it up ladies.

[yourkpopidolsucks]

In Korea you are literally REQUIRED to have a headshot with your application. Your physical appearance is a major vetting point in the interview. Applicants have literally been told to bleach their skin for jobs. Seoul is the plastic surgery capital of the world.

This is HUGE for them. Support them. Even if you love makeup, their beauty culture is TOXIC. Support this movement

[brittany-murphy]

[radmoon-deactivated20170319]

File under why I am a radfem

[feminist-female-blog]

the fact that this shit has so many notes is sad

[rebel-female]

This is what they see women as

[yassss-black-diaspora]

Also why they think wearing heels and putting on lipstick makes them more woman than us

[toppdyke]

This linebacker wearing a mop wig will never be any kind of woman.

[radladytron]

This shit is so frustrating. I don’t wear “amazing outfits” or “perfect makeup” either. I wear what’s comfortable and practical for my field. Yet, I still have high confidence. Why? Because I simply choose not to give a shit about my appearance, and instead focus more on my brain, working hard, and learning.

[femalepersistence]

Women without amazing outfits and perfect makeup don’t have anywhere else to draw confidence from.

[feministbyanyothername-deactiva]

ugh

Attaching your self-worth to clothes and makeup is detrimental, you won’t ever feel comfortable in your natural state. It makes you also constantly shilling out money to exploitative companies

This also reinforces beauty culture and that all women have to be beautiful and for consumption instead of just being okay in their own bodies. It’s objectification!

[sylviaplathstypewriter-deactiva]

so i guess women who can’t afford those outfits and makeup will never be confident? i guess MEN are never confident? 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 yeah fucking right

[kittiesatemypronouns]

It’s funny, up to a certain point I’d only seen Laverne Cox in carefully posed photographs and I thought he passed pretty well, but boy oh boy, after I saw him move and talk, I realized I was so wrong.

His being so obviously male and presuming to tell women where self-confidence comes from is so offensive. It would be offensive from any other male, but the fact that this one thinks his costume qualifies him to speak for women is just the worst.

[embrace-the-matriarchy]

There’s an episode of OitNB where he explains vaginas to women. Like we don’t fucking know how our bodies work. It’s so gross.

[vuvaliniterf]

Laverne Cox is a self-hating black drag queen. Notice how he keeps getting paler as time goes on.

[jaded-not-tragic-mulatta]

Mr. Cox can shut the fuck up forever.

[dykehaven-blog]

This is so misogynistic. Women aren’t strong because we act out the man-created porny sex stereotypes that men want us to act out.

Women are strong by our very nature, through our bodies that create life, cell by cell. Confidence comes from the knowledge that we persist, that we resist, that we are each worth a thousand men, because we take care of this planet where men only destroy. 

Confidence comes from the knowledge that we are allowed to be our authentic selves and that we don’t have to do what men tell us. Confidence comes from going outside without make-up and just wearing sweats, messy hair and feeling human, taking up space, speaking our loud, feeling the earth beneath our curling toes and feeling our true, free selves.

[vyllainy]

Cis women shut the fuck up challenge

[the-drama-kid]

Literally as a cis woman I couldn’t agree more though lmao

[vyllainy]

This applies to you especially

[bushcrafts]

This is what female and male socialization looks like

[godh8er-deactivated20220626]

i- the embarrassment

[eboniidoll]