It is crazy to me how many cis dudes are like โMy S/O got pregnant and got an abortion without my input/permission and this is a worse portrayal than being cheated on and I am absolutely justified in treating her like garbage after I impregnated her without her permission.โ especially when the S/O is just a casual girlfriend and/or has bluntly told him they donโt want kids. I am of the firm belief you do not get to decide what someone does with your sperm after you deposit it in their body, you cannot force them to keep a pregnancy or to abort a pregnancy and having the intent to do so makes you a fucking supervillain. You can inform them youโll be there financially and would like to coparent if theyโre open to it OR you can tell them you have no intention of being a father and will not be in the childโs life but you do not get to control the decision.
The fact your girl did not tell you she was pregnant and had an abortion means she thought you were both clear on not wanting a kid at this time OR she knew you would be a massive fucking asshole about the whole thing. These guys treat it like a personal insult and a wound that someone theyโve been casually fucking for 4 months does not want to go through 9 months of pregnancy and have their baby.
