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Just my diary at this point.

[incorrectquoteshungergames]

Annie: What have you been doing?

Johanna: Mostly sitting around and complaining about things.

Annie: Yeah? How’s that working out for you?

Johanna: Can’t complain.

[thatbitch-withattitude]

It’s crazy that when men are bi people say they just gay and scared to say it but when women are bi people say they’re just straight and wanting attention. Like my guy why do you assume everyone wants your dick?

[pjeckleburg]

i hate the "we should only have queer actors playing queer characters" argument for several reasons. but what annoys me the most is that people who argue this straight up don't realize that it's illegal to ask someone about their sexuality in relation to a job interview. like an audition. i don't think breaking anti-discrimination laws to screen people's sexualities to determine their employment is the woke take you think it is.

[pjeckleburg]

and just. setting that aside. if you're saying "we should only have queer actors playing queer characters" you're saying that queer people must be publicly out to play a queer character. even if that actor and that character have the same sexuality. that actor has to disclose that to the whole world. again. i don't think demanding queer people to out themselves in order to engage with a queer acting role is doing anyone any good.

[pjeckleburg]

head in hands. it's acting. it's playing make believe. i don't care if the actress playing a lesbian character has kissed a woman before. i care if she's good at pretending she has.

[thatbitch-withattitude]

Also and this might sound crazy. But sometimes people don’t figure out their sexuality till later in life or they change labels.

Should we prosecute an actor that’s played a bisexual character but then later realised they were asexual?

What about the actors that have never questioned their sexuality before? Should we force them to do that now just so they can play a role?

[druckers]

i would fuck him [remembers im talking about a real person] um [remembers its normal to be attracted to people] i would fuck him

[thatbitch-withattitude]

Shane Hollander who wanted to just be seen as a hockey player, not as an Asian hockey player, or a gay hockey player. Just a Hockey player. Didn’t mean he wasn’t gay or Asian, it’s just those have nothing to do with him being a hockey player. But all everyone sees him as is a gay, Asian, neurodiverse, hockey player.

He is expected to be the role model, the groundbreaker, the picture perfect example.

[thatbitch-withattitude]

Oh okay high potential, that’s the way you’ll do that then

[thatbitch-withattitude]

I wish Alex ended up with bill ngl

[thatbitch-withattitude]

Imagine a world where Haley Dunphy pursued a career in photography, or fashion, or real estate…

[snackwizard]

a fools guide to not wanting to die anymore

by me, a fool who doesnt wanna die anymore 

never make a suicide joke again. yes this includes “i wanna die” as a figure of speech. swear off of it. actually make an effort to change how you think about things.

find something to compliment someone for at least 4 times a day. notice the little things about the world that make you happy, and use that to make other people happy.

talk to people. initiate conversation as often as you possibly can. keep your mind busy and you wont have to worry anymore

picture the bad intrusive thoughts in youe head as an edgy 13 year old and tell them to go be emo somewhere else

if someone makes you feel bad most of the time, stop talking to them. making yourself hang out with people who drain you is self harm. stop it.

[wildlyannoyingdoofus]

… 8|

That’s some pretty good advice. I don’t know what’s left of my humor after ‘guess I’ll just die’ jokes but it’s worth a shot.

[snackwizard]

Personally i went from “guess I’ll die” jokes to “IF I HAVE TO BE HERE FOR 5 MORE MINUTES I PROMISE YOU I WILL BUY JUST, AN ARRAY OF CLOTHES.” and other wild hyperbolic stuff. Just replace the death part with something ridiculous and off topic. Its very entertaining

[808lien]

This also works with calling myself things like stupid, worthless, trash, etc. Even if you do this jokingly to yourself, your brain still believes it, and keeps up the cycle. Seriously, I found that when I stopped saying these things about myself, even jokingly, it made a massive difference.

[maramahan]

Here’s a tip I picked up from a friend that’s helped me a lot — replace self deprecating jokes with ironically self aggrandizing jokes

Like every time I trip and fall, instead of saying “l’m just a disaster human” I say “I’m the epitome of grace and beauty”

Or like, when I draw a picture I’m not 100% happy with, instead of saying “my art is trash” I say something like “you know I think it’s time we replaced the Mona Lisa”

When you do that you get to make a joke, but you’re ALSO getting practice building yourself up, y’know?

And eventually it becomes a reflex and you get so used to it that you can say nice stuff about yourself even when you AREN’T joking

[jkl-fff]

[scottjate]

This is so important

[thatbitch-withattitude]

Massive conundrum. I want to try write a college professor AU but can not think of what the characters would all teach because I can not for the life of me think of all the different types of subjects and professors there are.

[thatbitch-withattitude]

I love it when tough characters are allowed a soft place to land. They can be all in charge and strong everywhere else but at home I want them to be able to stop and rest. I want them to have someone hug them and make them laugh. I want them to feel loved because of everything they are, not in spite of it. I want them to not be perfect but to still be okay

[thatbitch-withattitude]

Boutta say something crazy here... Hayden Pike isn't a terrible hockey player. And Scott Hunter isn't super old. Ilya Rozanov IS a shit-stirrer.

[skittyminecraft]

x

[arabella-ardor]

[faggotjonesss]

[prismatic-bell]

When I was working at Taco Bell I once picked up the headset with “hi, welcome to Wend– Jack– Burger– WHAT.”

The customer started laughing. She laughed even harder when I said “I’VE NEVER EVEN WORKED ANY OF THOSE PLACES.”

[thatbitch-withattitude]

One time I was at work and heard the phone ringing nearby while handing a customer their receipt.

While handing it to them I said “[Store Name], [Location]. This is [my name]!”

[thatbitch-withattitude]

Okay so imagine if a someone who was a lot better than me at writing wrote a fic where Shane and Ilya managed to have a conversation about their feelings from the start and actually date in secret for a decade instead of just rivals with benefits that are trying not to fall in love with each other?

Like Yuna and David could know, Svetlana could know and still be besties with Ilya without them having a sexual relationship, Rose could become a friend and know, Hayden and Jackie could be awesome couple friends.

Of course they’re still trying to keep it on the down low, but they also have a support system around them and are trying to find ways to celebrate anniversaries and shit like that together with their conflicting schedules and distance between them

[thatbitch-withattitude]

I don’t need the plot to be restated in dialogue! If it’s interesting then I will give it my full attention, I will rewatch, rewind, discuss, theorise. I will ENGAGE with the media.

[axetofall]

I mean yeah I carry a sadness that exhausts my will to live like a leach on my heart but I’m basically fine

[applepie4]

when i say 'boys will be boys' i mean shane and ilya rushing up the stairs to reach the apartment first, i mean ilya shaking his wet hair to annoy shane and kissing his helmet after he scores, i mean them choosing each other's team on the playstation, i mean ilya doing a handstand in the lake