one more thing about heated rivalry that gets me everytime: the complete lack of shame when it comes to desires and sex in terms of degradation. Shane is pretty submissive, which in our society is often unfortunately equated with degradation or emasculation. However, there never is the feeling of him being less manly or less in charge of what is happening. He just enthusiatically enjoys his sexuality in that way, never questions it or feels the need to change it in order to exercise some perceived need to gain power. It's so refreshing to watch him being so unapologetic about his desires and never having to explain himself or being mocked.

















