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“you will never be too much for someone who can’t get enough of you.”
— Unknown
The sigil was drawn in salt and ash, the candles lit at the pentagram points, the incantation declaimed.
There was a shimmer - a demon appeared.
"Curious. What ritual is this?"
"I got it from ChatGPT. I included all protections in my prompt!"
"I see," the demon said and stepped out of the sigil.
"I-- I don't understand! I followed everything it said --"
"Your first mistake was entrusting your work to the hallucination machine." It reached down to pinch the mixture, give it a sniff. "Potassium chloride? What ash is this?"
"Um." The disciple nudged a bucket with their boot.
"Tastes like ... maple. And potatoes. Blech." It wiped its fingertips clean on their robes. It paused, rubbing its tongues against the roof of its mouth. "Damnation, what did you anoint the candles with? Is that ... PAM?"
The disciple whimpered. "It wasn't specified."
"Pfft. Of course not." It sighed, and extended its tri-fingered hand. "Let me see that incantation." Shakily, the parchment was extended, and snatched with irritation. " 'Bene! Ecce incantatio initiorum ...' What the seven hells is this? You didn't even trim the auto response."
"Well, I don't speak Latin..."
The demon snorted. The parchment sailed over its shoulder to a candle and hovered there, alight, then disappeared in a puff of ash and smoke. "Right. Legally I could take at least a limb for this, but hey, you like your limbs, right? Pretty attached to them, you'd say?" The disciple desperately nodded. "Great. So here's what we're gonna do: you're going to write me an essay --"
"What?!" The disciple gasped, paled. "Wait, no, maybe an arm would be okay..."
"-- shut up. You're going to hand-write a 2,000 word essay -- listen, no -- and you're going to write it on the perils of sourcing research from generative AI. You are going to source this in MLA format -- yes the fuck you are --" tired of the protestations, the demon's hand loosely threatened the human's throat, and quickly made its point, "and you will do this and turn it in in two weeks' time, with a proper summoning ritual. And -- and this part is very important, mind you -- you are going to tell all your little demon-summoner buddies that if this ever happens again I will simply eat your fucking souls and be done with it. Do you understand me?"
The disciple nodded again, with wetter pants.
"Good. Fine." The demon roughly patted the student on the head and retreated back to the ruined glyph where it stood expectant, hands on what must have been its hips. "Alright. Banish me and call me up properly in two weeks. Don't make me come looking for you."
"I -- uh -- well, that is to say, I don't... um."
The demon's shoulders dropped. "You don't know how to banish."
"I don't know how to banish, no."
The demon let loose a series of deep, frustrated grumbles that had some resemblance to speech, enunciated with emphatic gestures, and gave the vague impression of a dinner getting cold. "Get a pen."
"What? Oh, I --"
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"Good. Fine." The demon roughly patted the student on the head and retreated back to the ruined glyph where it stood expectant, hands on what must have been its hips.
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how concerned is your oc about their health? do they need to get almost everything checked out by a professional or are they the type to have their arm ripped off and go "I'm sure it's fine"?
this is an awesome question
my characters live in a vaguely fantasy earth. not modern times, the healthcare available vastly varies depending on who and where you are
aeon physically cannot get sick or hurt enough to have to seek professional help. it’s kind of shocking to him to see someone feeling unwell and when faced with caring for someone even mildly under the weather he will be at a loss
aster gets stressed easily but approaches the topic rationally. she knows what problems she can handle and when it’s necessary to look for help.
ivan hates sickness, he hates injury. he’ll freak out and stress over small wounds or mild sickness. which is ironic considering how and why he dies
tansy has an incredibly light-hearted approach to most things in life which extends to her health. and other people’s health. i mean she fakes being a medic for a hot second. she dismisses any problems without a second thought
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people who dont like drinking water confuse me. getting a sip of water is like a drug to me. i love a drink of water
You fell in love with a monster. Not a shapeshifter or a humanoid creature, but a massive, terrifying being with nothing remotely human about him. Then, behind your back, he turns human “to make you happy”….all you can think of is that you liked him better the way he was.
A Very, Very, Very Fine House
Review by S.E. Barcus
Our House
By John Longenbaugh
Produced by Battleground Productions
July 17, 2025
Breaking the fourth wall of traditional theater has seen quite a surge in our time. There are works of theater that are “immersive,” such as New York’s amazingly surreal rendition of Macbeth with Sleep No More, or London’s trippy warehouse of freakiness you can explore, in Alice’s Adventures Underground, or even plays in Seattle’s newly dedicated immersive theater space, LIT Immersive. And then there are “interactive” theater productions, where actors interact directly with audience members, from the Stage Manager in Thorton Wilder’s Our Town, to the more invisible, didactic theater of Augusto Boal, to Second City’s improv comedians in Chicago taking audience suggestions. And finally, there are works of art that are “site-specific,” made and intended entirely for a specific PLACE, such as Mary Jane Jacobs’ famous and deeply thought-provoking Places with a Past exhibit in Charleston, South Carolina.
However, it is a rare and special treat to get to experience a work of art that is all three of these things at once. Yet, behold -- there is a play that just opened in Olympia, WA, that is, indeed, all three of these things – immersive, interactive, and site-specific – all at once. John Longenbaugh, ‘longen-time’ Northwest playwright and theater critic extraordinaire (and now film producer, by gosh), has revived said play from last year’s successful run, Our House.
Yes, the play is immersive – for Act 1, you are on the porch with a group of characters on a front porch, you’re in the living room for Act 2 voyeuristically watching a couple on their date, and then to the backyard with a … vaguely reminiscent couple … for Act 3, while a wake is going on. (We’re even given a program for the wake, and everything -- which was a nice, immersive way to sneak us the play’s program without us feeling like we were watching some play, or something!)
Interactive? Check, as the Our House Stage Manager talks with us directly, just like the Stage Manager did in Wilder’s Our Town. Yes, this play is a not-so-subtle, and very sweet and impressive, “HOMEage” to that famous American classic, which the playwright explicitly spells out for us in the program notes.
Finally, the performance of the play is, indeed, site-specific. Bona fide. And at the playwright’s actual house. Which is also the set. ... Um, let me try to wrap my head around this exactly -- the play is set in … this house, which is also the playwright’s current house. The house is a sort of main character, itself. And is also the current inhabitant’s inspiration, for a work of art. … Aside with being economically shrewd in these ridiculously expensive times for real estate, including for theaters, this is an extremely courageous production approach. I believe our local Seattle theater heroes, the Ewalds/Kazanjians did this somewhat recently. And Wally Shawn famously did this while working out his play, The Fever. But I don’t know about you -- I could never do this. My neuroses would cause my head to explode! Kudos to the playwright for this intimate invitation, and a warm thanks for his hospitality, including those delicious cocktails and hors d'oeuvres that he bragged about – and then DELIVERED on! (No joke! Yummers!) Like the play and the house itself, you might start to get the feeling, halfway through the “production,” that this guest-host relationship is for REAL. And thus, I am now sort of feeling guilty that I did not bring a bottle of wine to the party, as I write this…. (Sorrrrrrry!!!) And I’m really not so sure who is getting more ‘immersed’ – we, into the play, or the playwright himself, into his lifelong profession!
A side note -- Wilder’s Our Town is often said to be site-specific, since it is said to be set and performed in the very theater in which you sit. But if Our Town was truly site-specific -- at Grover's Corners, “42°40′ North latitude and 70°37′ West longitude” -- Wilder’s play would, in actuality, drown you somewhere off Massachusetts’ coast. In practice, Our Town can be, and has been, performed in hundreds of different theaters. “Theater” is a more Platonic, formal “theater,” in the case of Our Town.
But to potentially get a REAL feeling of a real PLACE – that is, to be TRULY “site-specific” -- the work must be made FOR that place. Which was so clearly and pain-stakingly done in the creation of Our House. And therefore -- if you care (which I do) -- and if you let it, if you think about that context while experiencing the play (and not just consider it a gimmick), it can give you that extra sort of existential umph. The old cemetery behind that hill over there, that is often referred to by the characters throughout the play at the different decades? Cock your head -- look over there – there it actually is, and always has been. As crows and seagulls flew over our heads in the cool evening, while the characters talked on the porch, I imagined crows and seagulls just like these could very well have flown overhead back then, just like this. Enter crow. Exit crow. … Good job, crow. … Break a leg, crow.
You can know that, while these characters are fictional in the same way they were fictional for Wilder’s play, this space – this “set” – this very house was here just like this, before any of us in the audience were even born. Word has it the playwright did a lot of research on the actual times and people of the area, to give the play even more verisimilitude, such as a crazy French neighbor from the 1930’s, and her crazy chickens! (I wondered if the current neighbor thought the actors were talking about her!) (And, so sorry, but for my own juvenile joy, while I sat in the front yard during Act 1, I could not help but note that, yes, like the Madness song, we were, in fact, in the middle of the street! … :)
Act 1 begins in 1934, on the porch outside of a dinner party. Callie, played by the charming longtime Olympia actress Hannah Eklund, has returned home from trying to make it on the Great White Way. She is sweet and somewhat elegant, but seems to be hiding some pain – Broadway seems to have been a place a bit too mean for her, filled with “stinkers”. She’s back in Olympia, and to the party, purportedly contemplating a try at Hollywood (“Cali?”), and has escaped to the porch for a smoke. Out comes Mrs. Whitmann, who knows that Callie has a thing for her son -- she can see the lipstick on the wall. They chat -- FDR has only recently come into power, to right the wrongs of unregulated capitalism and its great Depression, and we hear stories such as how wealthy banker-type Americans call FDR a socialist, while Mrs. Whitmann’s French neighbor (again -- right over there in that house to your right) thinks our socialism is relatively quaint … compared to the French guillotine….
One can feel how the larger world’s hardships affect these folks, including the young man who enters, Ed Whitmann, who is still living at this home with his mother to save money -- and who is very thankful for his job, any job right now, working for the state (doing some nebulous cataloging work that sounds as mysteriously bureaucratic as the warehouse at the end of Raiders of the Lost Ark). But eventually these larger backdrops dissolve as the human story emerges, about the local cemetery, the house itself, and finally Ed and Callie, themselves, their past love, their current tribulations, their plans for the future – possibly with each other…. Somewhere in the midst of the drama, I note the “set” design – with a street address adorning a front porch post, behind the characters, signifying where the play is taking place.
Actor Mathaeus Anderson, as Ed (and later as Daniel), has mostly successfully suppressed his Danish accent (which might prove that he’s a good actor, but still makes me sad – cuz I needs me some Mikkelsen! :), and he both physically, and in terms of his sweet sincerity, reminds me somewhat of comedy actor, Ben Marshall from Please Don’t Destroy. He can easily go from kind – the past “sucker” for Callie -- to suddenly becoming surprisingly self-aware and a bit angry due to his hurt feelings, but then seamlessly back to tender again, once Callie opens up about her true hardship and feelings.
For Act 2, set in 1989, we sit in the living room, watching a dinner date up-close-and-personal. As you get to walk around this house, feel the old walls that have been there for a hundred years. Go ahead and peruse the photos and books and tchotchkes during “intermissions” (when you’re basically literally mingling with fellow audience members at a house party). You’ll find that the photos are of the First Act’s characters, and answer some of the questions raised at the end of their Act. This is akin to sifting through video games for Easter egg objects, which adds more to the story, and adds a – textural – veracity to the whole experience. Oh look, those wood-carved elephants and knives on the shelves? Jerry -- who now occupies our titular character, on a date in the living room -- must have brought those back as souvenirs, since he tells us he went to those countries as a journalist. Jerry, it turns out, is the son of Ed and Callie, played by another longtime regional actor, Mark Waldstein (who is also our kind and somewhat playful guide for the night, as the Stage Manager).
Jerry is having his on-again, off-again love, Amelia, over for dinner. The time is those H.W. Bush years – with ribbing about his CIA history, and with an optimism at the fall of Communism. And then the world moves in closer again -- more local history – as we learn that Amelia has just landed a job for some newly rising company in Redmond called “Microsoft”. Actress Meghan Goodman, who was a fine Mrs. Whitmann, really shines in her role as Amelia. She’s got a very Melanie Griffith “Working Girl” aura and vibe to her (a movie that – bingo -- came out in 1988), a gal who likely started in the 70’s as an eco-socialist but as she has gotten older, is looking forward to the salary and benefits that will come with her new career. Meanwhile Jerry is content living in this simple house of his parents, and has left the rat race. He loves smaller-town Olympia, with its Pet Parades and his job as an archivist. He’s “old-fashioned” with his books, while she’s “new-fashioned” with 1980’s style and her digital thumbdrives (and darn it if I don’t hear that Madness song, again, trying to play over Jerry’s Miles Davis…). By the end, we understand that these two, who so obviously love one another, somehow might never manage to completely connect. Which is dramatically exaggerated to make the point, yet on an existentialist level, might be the saddest reality of the human condition, as sentient, empathetic human beings, eternally trapped within our subjective consciousnesses.
While the immediacy is about “place” for Acts 1&2, Act 3 is not only set IN the actual backyard, but is also happening RIGHT NOW, on this evening in 2025 – which Wilder did not do in his play. (This rendition also must be an update from last year’s production, as Biden is now out, and the malignant narcissistic kleptocrat is in.…) So, Act 3 could be played as a TRUE “happening”. In the same way as John Cage’s 4’33”, this fact could focus a listener/spectator to both the Here (“space”) AND the Now (“time”). The dialogue subtly refers to this, as Bennie (played by Ms. Eklund) muses on cosmological distances and times, while enjoying the backyard telescope. Our current reality is such a relatively short “blip” in time and space. Actually, as ponders, “blip” is too long of a word to even get the idea across. We are more of a, “bl-. Mathaeus Anderson, back as the modern Daniel, likes Bennie, but is floundering in his own life, as are most young people, in our current era of thoughts of the Cascadia subduction zone causing “the big one,” or an asteroid hitting us, or despair over the red lines we have already passed regarding climate change, or -- “oh, you go ahead and pick whatever catastrophe you like,” to paraphrase the Stage Manager. The couple is unsure of the future, yet attracted to each other, nonetheless, and … in part due to being played by the same actors, if different characters set 87 years apart … there is something between these two that feels like déjà vu. Like something recurrent. Like something eternal.
That’s the other nice ‘reinvention’ on the conceits of Our Town. In this play, the life of this place is stretched out over three different times, with three entirely different sets of people, as opposed to dealing with just one community in the early 20th century. Sure, Wilder had themes of the eternal, but having three completely different sets of characters -- yet with all of the same human struggles and themes -- dramatizes/demonstrates that feeling of ‘the eternal’ even better, for me. These people are different, yet they are the same. ‘She’ is the wondering, dreamy actress here, then the dreamy ideological eco-activist, and then climate scientist there. He is the bureaucratic man here, an archivist there.
One last dare-I-say improvement on Wilder’s play -- both take on the theme of those ‘little things’ being immensely important. Our whole raison d’etre, and such. Yet I think that that theme hits “home” harder with a house, as opposed to a town. When one thinks of “home,” one cannot but think of the things that really matter. Our actual lives and the closest people we love. The Universe is just too vast, if awe-inspiring. The nation-state is important, but also too big. A “town” does get a lot closer to what truly matters in this “Think Globally, Act Locally” sort of message. But if we deny solipsism, then the next thing for our minds and spirits to grab a hold of, that really matters, is whoever is there in your very own House. Read those silly Madness Our House lyrics. Or the lyrics in Crosby, Stills, and Nash’s different version of Our House. Or Simon and Garfunkle’s Homeward Bound. Or John Denver’s Take Me Home, Country Roads. Or Home on the Range (forget the racist section against Native Americans). On and on. People cannot sing songs or write poetry on the subject of home without it reverting to an ode to the every-day, to those simple, “meaningless,” and “ordinary” things ... that are actually just so goddamn important to us. That are, it turns out, everything.
Longenbaugh’s playwriting, the dialogue, itself was straight realism, and naturalistic and well-crafted enough to make Callie’s dream playwrights Eugene O’Neill and Ibsen proud. Themes are subtly sewn through the whole play, tying it all together, while human-relational plot twists and reveals come at us efficiently and adroitly, with characters having believable and emotional changes – all within each individual act. Just expertly crafted, theater by a very experienced playwright.
It makes sense to me that a more interactive, immediate theater is gaining ground. Theater’s advantage over mediated drama -- whether on the big screen or little screen or in some AI-generated VR headset -- has always been its real-life interactions. It was a wry joke of the playwright when he has 1938’s Mrs. Whitmann tell Callie that she shouldn’t go off to Hollywood, since live Broadway shows will always be preferred to movies. While in reality, live theater has been “dying” since the beginning of the 20th century, thanks to movies. To come back, theater needs to continue to leverage its real advantage over mediated art. And its real advantage is … it’s real. These incredible Our House actors are real-life human beings in front of you, unpredictable and witty and empathetic and reactive, and you are there actually living that experience with them, on your night, during this relatively short “blip” we have in time and space. Or, rather, this short “bl-
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Source: A Very, Very, Very Fine House
A story where someone is brought back from the dead, and at first it seems like it's all Came Back Wrong: This is no longer the person that the people around her knew - she has the same memories as she did in life, knows the same people and has the same skills and habits, but she says things that she never would have in her life. Harsh, cruel, and frightening things. There is no more peace in the house because of the things she tells people, picking at wounds in the household with surgical presicion.
When asked why she must be like this, and why she cannot just be the kind and gentle person she was before - the one they loved and wanted back so badly that they broke the laws of nature to return her to life - she tells them that they should not have done that. This household will never know peace again until either she dies again or someone else in the family does.
She is still the same person, with the same thoughts and feelings. Only one thing has changed: The dead cannot lie.
What I'm still learning to do on my own
i’m still learning how to do things on my own. there are no grades anymore. no gold stars, no A+ to tell me i’m doing okay. no one claps when i fold the laundry, or check off a to-do list. but i’m trying— to be proud without applause, to show up without being seen. because now, the reward is different. now, i get to breathe. i get to read a book without guilt. i get to take my dog on an adventure. i get to be proud just because i’m trying.
Ways to Improve Online (White-People) Recipes
If it asks for garlic, add that much ginger, and twice that much garlic.
If it asks for cinnamon, add 1 1/2 times as much cinnamon, and a small amount of nutmeg. If the MAIN flavour is cinnamon, also add a small amount of cloves and allspice.
If it asks for vanilla, also add a SMALL amount of almond extract. (Usually up to a few drops.)
If it asks for onions, also add some garlic, but add it 1 minute before you're either done cooking, or you add liquid
If the spices are pretty much only oregano or parsley, add both, as well as a small to medium amount of basil, thyme, summer savory, tarragon, and/or marjoram (the earlier two are great in beef, chicken and tomato dishes, while the others are good with pork, chicken, most vegetables, and pretty much anything else you can think of with a 'lighter' flavour)
if it asks for cheddar or mozzarella cheese, also add a bit of feta and parmesan
Don't be afraid of flavour!
(EDIT: I'm Canadian, and white)
It was kind of a dick move to create animals that require air, then confine them to the freaking ocean
If you are talking about dolphins they used to be wolf like creatures that due to scarcity of food they had to hunt in water so they slowly evolved into water mammals, dolphins still have claw bones but they are unnecessary and dolphins will get rid of them with time and will develop abilities to breath under water
(This also partially applies to whales)
They were what now?
Mother Nature, come out here I just want to talk
Whales are actually Ungulates, more so hippos, entelodons, etc…
Meaning they were somewhat related to big celebrities such as Daedon (the “hell pig”) and Andrewsarchus.
The appearence of the first ancestors of whales probably looked like a small hoofed thing called Indohyus.
(Illustration by julio lacerda)
(illustration by Tiffany Turill)
Basically they went from tiny hoofed herbivore to bigger hoofed carnivore to crocodile-like thing to seal-like things to big sea predators.
The went back from the no bone zone as an aquatic boned animal
#1 Przebork Martwy
Nieznajomy wciąż mnie nie usłyszał, był zajęty szukaniem czegoś w swojej torbie. Powoli odsunęłam płaszcz i sięgnęłam po sztylet. Zastanawiałam się, czy usłyszy, jak wyjmę go z pochwy. Czy wyczuje, że do niego podchodzę.
Nie miałam czasu nawet tego przemyśleć, bo jego płaszcz zaszeleścił i przestałam go widzieć.
Zniknął.
A potem był tuż przede mną. Wraz z nim pojawiło się ostrze miecza tuż przy mojej szyi. Drugą ręką blokował mnie przed wyjęciem sztyletu. Nie odważyłam się wydać choćby westchnięcia.
- Jak tu weszłaś? - spytał spokojnym głosem. W innych okolicznościach podsłuchałabym historii opowiedzianych tym głosem. Ale nie dziś.
- Od wschodu, ze strony grodu. - Głos mi się złamał. Dopiero wtedy poczułam, że cała drżę.
Przekręcił głowę, wzrokiem obejrzał mnie od głowy do stóp i spytał jeszcze raz:
- Nie powinnaś była w stanie… - Przerwał na chwilę. - Ach… - Spojrzał na moją pierś. - Wołwchwa? Nie, Lunola. - Powiedział, jakby to była odpowiedź na jego wszystkie niezadane także pytania.
i need people around me to remember that we in poland do, in fact, have a name for a playlist and its a beautiful word so pleeease use it, you already know it even!! its składanka its so fun and cool and not americanised
wait so can i ask you the questions that you just reblogged👀
go for it 🙌👏
i need tips to stop oversharing
everyone’s always like “if you be mysterious, people want to be friends with you” but i CAN’TT
UGH I HATE IT SMM ITS LIKE PPL SMILE AT ME AND I START YAPPING TO THEM ABOUT EVERYTHING
i’m so weirdddd ughhh
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hi angel 🩰 mindy here....
first of all, you're not weird. you’re human, and also really, really self-aware, which is honestly a sign of emotional intelligence. oversharing isn’t a character flaw, it’s just a form of vulnerability that’s maybe lacking a little bit of direction right now. and you know what? that can definitely be rewired.
but you’re right. there’s something so deliciously powerful about being unreadable. not cold. not distant. just quietly self-contained. you know, that one girl in your class who always looks like she knows more than she’s saying. being mysterious doesn’t mean suppressing your personality, it means curating what parts of you, you reveal, and when. think: allure, not silence.
so, if you’re ready to stop trauma-dumping after someone tells you they like your lip gloss... let’s get into your ✧ anti-oversharing glow-up ✧. - love youuuu
✧‧˚ 𝒃𝒆𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒖𝒏𝒓𝒆𝒂𝒅𝒂𝒃𝒍𝒆 ✧‧˚
❥ step one: create your “public” script sometimes we overshare because we don’t have a “go-to” version of ourselves for light conversation. so when someone gives us an opening, our brain kind of panics and goes “quick! say literally anything!” and out comes your ENTIRE 7th grade story arc.
to fix this, create a mental ‘highlight reel’ version of yourself for casual convos. i call this your “glow-up script.” these are a few cute, polished, semi-surface-level anecdotes and answers you intentionally rehearse for common situations:
✧ how’s school going? → “it’s been intense but i kind of love it. i’ve been really into productivity stuff lately.” ✧ what do you like to do? → “mostly reading & making pinterest boards like it’s my job.” ✧ how was your weekend? → “super recharging. i’ve been trying to stay offline more lately.”
this gives you a comfy, consistent personality to draw from without reaching into the emotional deep end. bonus: people will find you intriguing because you’re selective.
❥ step two: let silence stretch a little a lot of us overshare because we feel pressure to fill silence. like, someone says something and you feel like you have to respond instantly and enthusiastically or it’s rude. but silence isn’t awkward unless you panic about it.
instead, practice the ✧ micro pause ✧. when someone asks you a question or makes a comment, pause for two full seconds before you answer. let your eyes flick away for a beat. this one trick shifts the vibe completely. it gives you space to choose your words and makes you appear way more composed and thoughtful. think of it as conversational ballet: graceful, intentional, a little mysterious.
❥ step three: replace “omg same!” with “that’s so interesting” oversharing often starts when we relate too hard too fast. someone mentions their cat and suddenly you’re spilling about the time yours almost got run over and how that spiraled into your fear of loss and attachment theory.
instead of instantly jumping into your version of the topic, try observing it in them.
✧ “that’s so interesting, what’s your cat like?” ✧ “wait that’s such a unique story, tell me more.”
this helps you break the reflex to center the convo on yourself. you stay warm and curious without handing over your diary.
✧‧˚ 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒔𝒖𝒃𝒕𝒍𝒆 𝒈𝒊𝒓𝒍 𝒔𝒐𝒇𝒕𝒘𝒂𝒓𝒆 𝒖𝒑𝒅𝒂𝒕𝒆 ✧‧˚
❥ develop a ✧ private life aesthetic ✧ if you want to stop oversharing, you need to fall in love with the idea of being private. romanticize it. write diary entries no one will ever read. take photos you don’t post. go to cafes without tagging the location. being private isn’t being lonely, it’s creating a secret world so rich and beautiful that you don’t need external validation.
❥ use a “mental filter” before you speak before you say something personal, ask yourself:
✧ is this earned information, or am i offering it to feel accepted? ✧ would i regret this if it got repeated? ✧ is this helping the conversation or derailing it? ✧ am i sharing this for connection or out of nervousness?
if it’s not intentional, save it for later, or your journal.
❥ try“gentle deflection” you don’t have to answer every question. if someone gets too nosy or the convo feels like it’s tilting into overshare territory, try a soft pivot.
✧ “hmm that’s a long story, maybe another day. but tell me about you!” ✧ “haha i’ve blocked that era out. what about you though?”
play it like a game. you stay in control of the narrative while still being cute & open.
✧‧˚ 𝒎𝒊𝒏𝒅𝒚’𝒔 𝒑𝒆𝒓𝒔𝒐𝒏𝒂𝒍 𝒕𝒊𝒑𝒔 ✧‧˚
❀ when i catch myself about to overshare, i mentally switch into ✧ editor mode ✧ like i’m revising a diary entry. i ask: “does this version of me feel like the version i want to become?” if not, i scale it back.
❀ i also keep a “burn book” journal (not for meanness, just raw thoughts) where i can word vomit everything and no one sees it. it satisfies the urge to get it out without the regret.
❀ lastly, i pretend i’m the main character of a book that’s still being written. no author spills the whole plot in chapter one. they drop breadcrumbs. a line. a glance. a sentence that makes people curious. you are the enigma. the slow-burn story. don’t give them the whole novel.
you’re not too much. you’re just overflowing with personality, and now you’re learning how to bottle it in perfume instead of spilling it like water. and i promise... the more you stay grounded, the more you’ll see how people lean in, want to know more, wonder about you. it’s not fake. it’s just strategic softness.
your power has always been in your words. now you’re learning how to use them, not waste them.
you’re becoming the mystery. the “i wonder what she’s thinking” girl. the “she smiled but didn’t say much” kind of energy. lol.
and trust me, it'll work like wonders.
always here for you, — 𝒎𝒊𝒏𝒅𝒚 ♡ glowettee hotline operator ☎︎✨
Get To Know Me Uncomfortably Well
PLEASE DON’T LET THIS FLOP AHHHH
1. What is you middle name? 2. How old are you? 3. When is your birthday? 4. What is your zodiac sign? 5. What is your favorite color? 6. What’s your lucky number? 7. Do you have any pets? 8. Where are you from? 9. How tall are you? 10. What shoe size are you? 11. How many pairs of shoes do you own? 12. What was your last dream about? 13. What talents do you have? 14. Are you psychic in any way? 15. Favorite song? 16. Favorite movie? 17. Who would be your ideal partner? 18. Do you want children? 19. Do you want a church wedding? 20. Are you religious? 21. Have you ever been to the hospital? 22. Have you ever got in trouble with the law? 23. Have you ever met any celebrities? 24. Baths or showers? 25. What color socks are you wearing? 26. Have you ever been famous? 27. Would you like to be a big celebrity? 28. What type of music do you like? 29. Have you ever been skinny dipping? 30. How many pillows do you sleep with? 31. What position do you usually sleep in? 32. How big is your house? 33. What do you typically have for breakfast? 34. Have you ever fired a gun? 35. Have you ever tried archery? 36. Favorite clean word? 37. Favorite swear word? 38. What’s the longest you’ve ever gone without sleep? 39. Do you have any scars? 40. Have you ever had a secret admirer? 41. Are you a good liar? 42. Are you a good judge of character? 43. Can you do any other accents other than your own? 44. Do you have a strong accent? 45. What is your favorite accent? 46. What is your personality type? 47. What is your most expensive piece of clothing? 48. Can you curl your tongue? 49. Are you an innie or an outie? 50. Left or right handed? 51. Are you scared of spiders? 52. Favorite food? 53. Favorite foreign food? 54. Are you a clean or messy person? 55. Most used phrased? 56. Most used word? 57. How long does it take for you to get ready? 58. Do you have much of an ego? 59. Do you suck or bite lollipops? 60. Do you talk to yourself? 61. Do you sing to yourself? 62. Are you a good singer? 63. Biggest Fear? 64. Are you a gossip? 65. Best dramatic movie you’ve seen? 66. Do you like long or short hair? 67. Can you name all 50 states of America? 68. Favorite school subject? 69. Extrovert or Introvert? 70. Have you ever been scuba diving? 71. What makes you nervous? 72. Are you scared of the dark? 73. Do you correct people when they make mistakes? 74. Are you ticklish? 75. Have you ever started a rumor? 76. Have you ever been in a position of authority? 77. Have you ever drank underage? 78. Have you ever done drugs? 79. Who was your first real crush? 80. How many piercings do you have? 81. Can you roll your Rs?“ 82. How fast can you type? 83. How fast can you run? 84. What color is your hair? 85. What color is your eyes? 86. What are you allergic to? 87. Do you keep a journal? 88. What do your parents do? 89. Do you like your age? 90. What makes you angry? 91. Do you like your own name? 92. Have you already thought of baby names, and if so what are they? 93. Do you want a boy a girl for a child? 94. What are you strengths? 95. What are your weaknesses? 96. How did you get your name? 97. Were your ancestors royalty? 98. Do you have any scars? 99. Color of your bedspread? 100. Color of your room?