vagg

Eva 🌹🏳‍🌈 ~ I realise now that thoughts are important ~ OT5/HL/TS

[cloudslou]

HAPPY 33RD BIRTHDAY LOUIS TOMLINSON

[paintedbandshirts]

Happy 33rd to my favourite muse✨♥️

[corporation-cats]

[electronicmail]

what i like about airports is that once youre in there theres no going back. I mean youre there until they let you out

[electronicmail]

im no longer responsible for myself. I am free because i am contained. oooh eighteen dollar sandwich dont mind if i do

[moon-sun-thyme]

33 years of devotion and love ~ HB louis 💙

[delicatepointofview]

happy 33rd birthday, louis! — december 24th, 1991

[kosmogrl]

[stuckinthistaydream]

it has simply never been this serious and unserious before

[storybookprincess]

probably my most powerful interpersonal communication hack is to, whenever possible, ask either/or questions rather than yes/no questions

for example, when chatting with coworkers, i’ll often ask if they have any fun weekend plans. but let’s be real - we all feel like friendless losers when someone asks that question and we go “uhhhhh… no.” so instead, i phrase it as “so, do you have anything fun planned over the weekend, or are you just going to enjoy having some time to relax?”

phrased like this, there’s rarely any awkwardness. you’ve presented two options & given both equally positive connotations, so your conversational partner has an automatic “out,” so to speak

but it works for higher stakes conversations too!!!! my mom was saying this weekend how she and her neighbor both like walking around the neighborhood & that she wanted to suggest they take a walk together sometime, but was worried about how to approach the conversation

so i said “how about you just say ‘i’ve noticed we both like taking walks! would you be interested in going for one together, or do you use walks for some precious alone time?’”

now Walking Neighbor has an automatic “get out of jail free card” if she wants to say no!!!! which means my mom doesn’t have to worry about the conversation being uncomfortable, because she’s set it up to go smoothly

either/or questions rather than yes/no questions. it is really like magic

[cocainejuul]

[soundcarvings]

“That isn’t who I want to be so I will simply not become it” are words I repeat to myself often these days.

[anxeious]

[kosmogrl]

[solunar-light-deactivated202105]

I'd let my crush shoot me. I'm not interested in a relationship

[anxeious]

[despazito]

we are the daughters of parents who should not have had kids

[stuckinapril]

girl chill you can do anything & go anywhere whenever you want