Okay so I just need a quick rant about something that happened to me at work the other day. I just want to point of the comparison between these two situations. I work for a gym and I am the front desk person, so part of my job is that I have to go into both men and women locker room’s to make sure they have paper towels, soap and everything. So when the girls, which most of us that work the front desk are, need to go into the men’s locker room we bang loud as shit on the wall and scream “is everyone decent?” and then “I’m coming in!” Their is this one older man, that I do not like, in the mornings that I have walked in many times with just his underwear on after he answered back “yah everyone is decent” I have to keep telling him that NO that is not decent. The other day when I was doing this while the gym was busy, so I went extra slow when stepping in, this one man came behind me and poked fun at how loud I was then proceeded to say “ why does it matter it is not like you have not seen a penis before what is the big deal if we feel like being naked while you are in here”. This man was in his late 30′s early 40′s. Now let’s compare to this one guy in his 20′s and the encounter I had with him. I did my routine and he yelled back very clear and loud that he was fine but did not have a shirt on and if I was not comfortable with that he would put it on before I came in. I had no problem with that since he had pants on, so I came in and he even asked me again while covering his chest if I was uncomfortable. This is the difference in these two men and the respect and the emphasis on consent and respect they had just is a stark difference. I am not saying that everyone in these generations is just like these two men, but for me the second one made my day.