and well actually i am not surprised that harry and may are both series regulars now and yet harry is the only one actually getting to have Something To Do. despite the fact that may is the only one of the two who was ever a main character before and who the audience has a connection to and many people love and want to see more of. and you know what i think we know why!!!! how many times has this show chosen to sideline its women in favour of their male counterparts?!! like Yes the show is very diverse and should be celebrated for that but when four out of nine of the main characters are women and those women rarely ever get to do something that doesn't have to do with being another characters' wife/mother/sister. oh unless they are getting horribly often violently traumatised of course. well. it gets to a Point. (putting the rest of this under a cut because i had more to say than i realised)
like i've been thinking about this for ages and. what did maddie get to do in season eight? she spent the first half doing nothing other than being a scene partner for buck or chimney, usually buck, and being a support for them. and then she got kidnapped for the literal Third Time because for some reason that's the only interesting thing they ever let happen to her. and then she spent the second half of the season doing the exact same thing as the first half, only this time when she sat on the couch being her brother's sounding board she had a special-fx scar on her neck. oh and she was also pregnant this whole time btw which was never explored even once despite the wealth of opportunity there.
and now let's look at hen, shall we!! i have literally been trying to think of what hen got to do in season eight and well. maybe my memory is just acting up but she got to be the focus of "invisible" (the plot of which actually made almost zero sense for her whatsoever), and then... what? did she even get to do anything else?? oh right yeah her son got hit by a fucking car and that was horrifically traumatising and emotional and then once the next episode started it was literally never mentioned again by fucking Anyone. for the entire rest of the season. right.
and the thing that really gets me is that when the show actually remembers that these women exist and they can do stuff other than just Hum Reassuringly with a glass of wine in their hands or stand next to a man as he does something interesting, they eat it up!!!!! hen's doctor arc!!!! maddie finding herself in season 2, and her ppd arc in season five!!!! may becoming a main and watching her mature and find herself after high school!!!! all of these things are SUCH highlights of the show for me and make the entire experience so much better and more well rounded. but they are few and far in between in a show where we have Five bobby begins and probably fifty episodes about buck trying to figure out the meaning of life.
the women of this show are never allowed to show ambition, and if they are that ambition is never allowed to amount to anything (hen dropping out of med school, athena turning down a promotion, hen turning down a promotion that has been acknowledged out loud to have been in the works for her since season fucking three). lucy was written off the show in silence because apparently the 118 cannot have more than one female firefighter with a speaking role at any given time. may is INFINITELY more qualified, competent, and motivated to become a firefighter or paramedic than harry has ever shown himself to be in nine seasons. but i guess none of that fucking matters because tim minear and the writers are only interested in focusing on the men