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Dude I don’t care if Sarah is a pick-me girl and a bad friend, I wouldn’t wish Bear on her. That’s another thing I don’t understand about what I’m hearing and seeing from audiences that saw Obsession 😅

The “if only he’d given Sarah a chance” and “Sarah could fix him” makes me nauseous. The entire movie is about this entitled coward using a woman as a way of feeding his ego and filling the empty void of his life to her severe detriment. And you would allow another woman to be sacrificed to sustain him?

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It’s interesting to see how male reviewers I’ve watched on YT over the years view Obsession (2026) and by ‘interesting’ I mean it’s kinda exhausting.

I listened to Spill.com, before it became Double Toasted, when I was a kid (and that was probably not good for me in hindsight) and those guys are way too misogynistic to give a fair assessment of the film. Doug Walker maligns how Bear is ‘too stupid’ for much of the film to realize what’s happening but it’s not that at all — Bear is aware in the very beginning that the wish is the explanation for Nikki’s sudden changed behavior but he enjoys how she’s all about him and leans very hard on the absurdity of magic being real to justify letting things play out. I wouldn’t even watch Jeremy Jahns review of it after he literally said he’d prefer to have a son if he had a child because he “wants his kid to be awesome”. Never liked that guy since.

Even James A. Janisse from Kill Count responds to Chelsea Rebecca, his wife and co-host, trying to bring up how the film has affected women viscerally with “well I think for men too. It goes both ways” in their podcast recap.

It’s just… they really can’t escape their own shortcomings. They just can’t see it and don’t try. Fucks with me.

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“Friendzone” is a loser term made up by men (and other people but it’s mostly men) that do not value genuine human connection because they’re incapable of being comfortable with their own feelings.

I would love if the term was scorned forever after. Thanks.

[butterflykisses86]

Nikki Freeman (Obsession)

[orisnitsa]

[thetragicallynerdy]

[ID: the Bugs Bunny in a tux meme, edited to say “I wish all LGBT+ folk who live in countries where pride is banned, illegal, or unwelcomed a very I love you, stay safe, Happy Pride (red, orange, yellow, green, blue heart emoji). The edited text is in all caps, with LGBT+ in rainbow lettering. End ID.]

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Some people interpret Obsession in such a weird way. Like I’ve seen people say Nikki is “Cool Girl”.

Do y’all not understand what that term means? Cool Girl is a term for a pick-me chick who pretends to enjoy hobbies and things that are geared towards men. She’s ‘laidback’ because she doesn’t start drama (🙄) and is ok with whatever the guys wanna do — “Cool Girl” is a male fantasy.

Nikki is just Nikki. She’s being herself in the beginning before the wish, not putting on a persona that she thinks the men around her will like.

Wish!Nikki actually dresses in a new way that’s favorable to Bear (and men like him). She literally will do anything for Bear and hang off of him because Wish!Nikki came into existence for him.

Like the contrast is right in front of your face.

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Someone said that Wish!Nikki is the spirit of Sandy the cat and I’m gonna 🔪 🔪 🔪 DO NOT further torment that sweet kitty OH MY GOD

[acefuruya]

the longer I sit with obsession the more empathy I start to feel for entity!nikki. this creature that was created solely to love one person with this all-encompassing intensity that needed to be stronger than anything anyone felt in the entire world. entity!nikki whose entire world was just one single focal point; she'd do anything for bear to love her. she didn't know anything when she came into existence, but she was willing to do anything to get this man to fall for her.

it must have been equally terrifying for her as it was for the real nikki to have someone else fight for control over what she perceived as her body. the scene where she's sobbing in the corner, terrified of her dreams is now more sad than terrifying to me. real nikki, who has just been raped by her once best friend hurting so badly that it seeps into entity!nikki's nightmares. entity!nikki who doesn't understand why the thing she wanted so badly is causing her so much pain. why she can't bring herself to lie in bed next to the man who is the center of her world.

and the worst part is bear doesn't even seem to like her. she's trying so so hard; she made a lovely memorial for his dead cat, she waited for him to come home all day without moving an inch, she made sure to be the most doting girlfriend at the party, and he's not pleased by any of it. he seems disturbed and angry and scared and she has no idea what to do to make it better. to make it worse, he keeps asking her to behave like the original nikki but he was the one who wished for her!! she can't be like nikki because nikki was simply not capable of loving bear even a fraction of how much she does!

she can't seem to reconcile it; he wanted her so badly he conjured her into reality and now he doesn't want her anymore. she doesn't know what to do. she tries everything. she obsesses over him, she threatens to hurt herself, she gets rid of that bitch sarah who keeps distracting him and trying to steal him away, and then dresses in her clothes for good measure and he still doesn't want her.

and then finally in a fit of desperation, she makes the wish and for one beautiful moment its all perfect. he's finally looking at her the way she looks at him. and then he's dead and she's lost everything.

her entire existence, from the moment of her conception to her death was painful, and confusing, and so very sad.

[brightorangelover]

for eveyone sympathizing with bear being a fucking loser, he is a 25 year old man btw. a GROWN ass fucking man. who can not tell his feelings to a girl???? he cant as a girl out??? YOU ARE 25. thats a skill issue man. people solve that stuff in high school. i understand the fact that its his best friend and blah blah blah. but omfg just talk man. nikki DIRECTLY asked "do u like me" and he was "umm.. uhhh. um😰" VRO.

and anyone else that defends him bc u are like him (as grown ass adult), u are a loser too and have to be better. adults HAVE to be able to make uncomfortable and hard conversations. thats part of being an adult.

[sycamorality]

"why is the character like that" >look inside character >it's the author's subconscious attempt to love themself

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this is meant positively by the way. sometimes you love the character so much you end up putting a piece of yourself in it to learn how it is to love yourself without realising and thats ok.

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Nikki’s ‘stop-motion’ movements and speedwalking backwards was freaky as F U C K. I loved it.

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It’s a Horror Movie Weekend I guess and here’s a thought on Obsession (2026):

Tw Animal Death

I’m not shocked that there are people sympathizing with Bear — despite the fact that he’s clearly the villain and clearly knew something was wrong with Nikki from the jump as soon as he made his wish — we are inundated with media that tells us that men are entitled to women. Women’s bodies, their affections, their time and effort and forgiveness, their lives, etc. Women are anything but human per our society and it’s a global horror that many people — specifically men — are not willing to even acknowledge.

But I am a little stunned that people saw how Bear handled the death of his cat Sandy in the very beginning and how detached he acts instantly, and they still say that he was sympathetic after in any way.

Bear shows concern, shock and despair when he discovers poor Sandy’s corpse but after he’s cleaned up the spot where she died, he lays on his bed and looks at his instagram feed where Nikki’s pictures are.

I absolutely know that people act differently to tragedy. And grief is not the same for everyone but I just couldn’t connect with Bear and it was instant because of this. How the fuck are you gonna go to trivia night right after discovering your cat died and it’s your fault, even indirectly? And you’re clearly thinking about your stupid crush and telling her your feelings after this????

Also holy fucking shit how did Sandy get into his medicine cabinet and open the pill bottle? He had to have left it open, the cabinet door was clearly broken and he left the bathroom door open as well????

At the end they make a point of showing Bear open up the fucking bottle and having to press down on the safety cap to do it — so many fucking irresponsible actions on his end for this poor sweet kitty to fall victim to. I was in tears and simultaneously swearing at this prick for being so goddamn stupid and careless.

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What vibes match prev the most (⁠◕⁠ᴗ⁠◕⁠✿) ?

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11:11 wishes

Four leaf clovers

Fortune cookies

Wishbone

Shooting star

Penny on the ground

Dandelion wishes

Lucky charms

12 grapes under the table

Voting ended onJun 1

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[displeasedwolf]

this is the vibe i bring to the party actually

[lasagnaforem]

Backrooms (2026) - Kane Parsons, A24

[gaytommykinard]

"you don't like mpreg?" i don't even like fpreg