i literally procrastinate talking to my friends like it hits me āoh shit i havent talked to that friend in a whileā and im like āyeah ill have to do that laterā and then i dont
then i feel really guilty about it and [AVOIDANCE INTENSIFIES]
Then itās like a month later, and Iām just sitting there like, if I never speak to them maybe theyāll just forget I ever existed.
Periodic reminder when this kind of post comes up that being my friend means never having to say āsorry i dropped off the face of the earth for a few weeks/months/yearsā there. I get it. I promise. I vanish sometimes too and then get all avoidant about it. Iāll understand if you need to do the same, and Iāll be here when you come back. Team Weird Avoidant People Who Are Sort of Terrible At Friendship But Trying Really Hard needs to stick together.
This.
