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she/her || 20 || artist || lesbian || sfw-ish(viewer discretion is advised) || hrt 2023/06/13

[mars-hollow]

writing a movie about a violent man in a dress who kills women out of a desire to become one and then insisting over and over that it can't be transphobic (despite it's cultural influence to the contrary) because he isn't a real tranny is. well it's beyond parody isn't it.

[mars-hollow]

reallyyy not a fan of the habit people have of deflecting guilt for making abhorrent and obvious caricatures of trans women in media by insisting that it was actually super progressive because he wasn't a real transsexual!! you see the same shit with rhps. just a complete failure to take some accountability and say "yeah that was insensitive we shouldn't have depicted a real group of people that way and it has brought them material harm as a result."

[emrakulsstrongestkitty]

It's so frustrating when people pull the "but he isn't a trans woman," like yes, the transmisogynistic caricature will not be called a woman by the source material, please consider why that is

[lunaticchimaera]

"The Hateful Image of You is a community building thing for us though." "We felt so safe in The Hateful Image of You it let us explore ourselves." "The Hateful Image of You inspired women to join imperialist government organizations." "Honestly I dont even care how you feel about The Hateful Image of You it doesn't matter that nobody acknowledges the affect it has on You." "I have personally helped facilitate dozens of productions of The Hateful Image of You its not amazing its just a movie."

Silence of the Lambs, Ace Ventura, RHPS, Sleepaway Camp, Longlegs, Psycho, the list goes on and on and on and The Hateful Image of You lives on in the hearts of everyone around us and TME people expect us to just, not care? Is it so hard to empathize with a trans woman for one minute that they can't even conceive of having The Hateful Image of You depicting yourself in a warped portrait with blood smeared on it and how it makes us feel? Especially that its a beloved community gathering thing to take part in The Hateful Image of You? That The Hateful Image of You unites everyone else in enjoying it? That the sharing of it perpetuates its renewal over and over again?

Nah, I'mma be a loud pissed off tranny about it. The least I can do to fight what kills so many of us before we can even be ourselves is shit on every one of these shitty fucking things yall make. Fuckin Hell.

[ironmyrmidon]

This really is the LGBT "community" in a nutshell. They build this community out of our bones and then get mad at us for not liking it.

[pocketmaomao]

all i'm hearing is that TME ppl are incapable of putting in the bare minimum effort that warner brothers did.

like its sooo not hard to say "Yeah this was fucked up lets not glorify this it happened lets learn from it snd never do it again." but noooo the mfer named sock over there HAS to give epstein island wizard lady money for the new hbo series merch because muh childhood.

[demilypyro]

I ain't performing squat, buddy

[too-lazy-to-make-a-username]

gender is a performance only for the novices.. once you fully mastered gender, it is no longer a performance, whatever you do becomes what your gender does

[depsidase]

[ooppo]

You guys aren't going to believe your fucking eyes

[ooppo]

I hand drew this on my track pad and you will appreciate it

[sasuke-offical]

followers of mine dont even bother clicking. it is what you think it is. your sharingan never fails

[ooppo]

Shut the hell up Sasuke

[demilypyro]

the thing about autism trauma is that it's not something you can even connect over. because it's a spectrum, and for every type of autism, there's an autistic person out there who can't fucking stand the coping mechanism you've found.

I'm a blunt person, and I've found certain types of people impossible to communicate with, because they just refuse to just say what they mean. they always have to hide their meaning under twelve layers of implication for the sake of social convention and plausible deniability. intentions are hidden, insults are veiled. my struggles with navigating that kind of morass of social cues has made me perceive any kind of overt politeness as a threat. it signals that this person is manipulating me, they're not being sincere, they're trying to catch me in some sort of mistake and then punish me for falling for it. if they respected me, they'd just be straight with me. and 9/10 times, that's correct. because that's how "polite society" handles things. they reach out a hand, while arming the other. they only hurt people in the shadows. I respond to this by rejecting it. I bust through the bullshit, say what I mean, and invite them to do the same. it's the only solution I've found.

but there's types of autistic people who have the exact opposite response, who respond to the impossibility of communication in the exact opposite way: they play along. by covering every base they can, they think they can outsmart the system. fit into it. they learn every social cue they can, plug every hole, learn to navigate the swamp. it becomes normal for them. and by doing that, they make themselves impossible for me to handle. they wear the mask of the enemy. and I'm supposed to take it on faith that they don't wield their weapons too. meanwhile my bluntness is perceived as aggression, rather than the warm embrace it is.

put two opposing autistics in a room, and any idiot could tell it wouldn't work out.

[manuciruja]

awww the like button turns into a rainbow when you press it! that's so cute...hey staff what's with all the trans women you keep nuking?

[manuciruja]

i think we should be ridiculing them more for this. you don't get to try and go all "queer website" when your staff likes to go on nuking sprees targeting the trans fem users

[horsefriend]

[putnamspuppeteer]

For those who don't know: Ikumi Nakamura is the woman who was senior artist on Bayonetta, and designed the titular character along with Hideki Kamiya. Their greatest moment of bonding was over their insistence that Bayonetta keep her glasses on at all times. Nakamura cannot go to horny jail. She is the warden.

[brookietf]

[catgirlforeskin]

Happy pride month to her and her exclusively

[seraphiminn]

she made a comic about the experience on twitter

[catboybiologist]

happy pride

[ikindamaybewanthertositonmyface]

An Update from back in October I'm surprised wasn't added to this post. lol

[virtualgirladvance]

maybe the world is worth it after all

[sagasolejma]

Okay awesome gay post aside does anyone know who the absolute queen cosplaying dimitrescu is????

[enbaluka-tokyo-drift]

[tieflingkisser]

[only-cat-memes]

[sapper-in-the-wire-old]

[amygdala-dan]

This makes no sense

[maxknightley]

it literally could not be more straightforward

[thatguyfromthatwebsite]

It literally doesnt make sence, both have the same value, they're both $30

[sapper-in-the-wire-old]

I think the failure of many people to grasp an incredibly simple, barebones metaphor is demonstrating implicit bias very well

This dude straight up stated the fucking answer and still can’t understand it, because he’s expecting the answer to be his own views lmao

[thatguyfromthatwebsite]

No im not expecting anything its just a badly frammed metaphor

[sapper-in-the-wire-old]

Bro you said the answer. Both have the same value despite different sizes. It’s simple. Basic. Elementary.

[thatguyfromthatwebsite]

But it never says that, it just asks you wich one is greater and the text ends there, wich leads you to thinking that one indeed has greater value then the other, and that the one with the greater value is the answear

[sapper-in-the-wire-old]

It asks you which one has the greater value and what is the answer to that question?

[thatguyfromthatwebsite]

Im not about to argue over a focken tit size metaphor

[sapper-in-the-wire-old]

Never underestimate the lack of reading comprehension on this site lmfao

[flipocrite]

[world-heritage-posts]

world heritage post

[thatautisticlesbian]

the metaphor is super good tho, like if i have 30 bucks of coins my backs gonna hurt and if i have big ole titties my backs gonna hurt too

[i-like-reblog-maps]

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Voting ended onMay 28

Doing a final project in my stats class, we have to pick a subject and collect data on it. We need at least 100 data points, and I figured this blog is big enough that a poll on here could get to that pretty easily!

Doing my project on if it’s more likely to be born in certain months :]

I have gotten the OK from my teacher to collect data using a Tumblr poll, btw. I’m also going to have to send her this post as proof of where I got the data from / proof I didn’t just make up the numbers. So. Behave

[edgar-allan-possum]

[agendermetalbender]

[kayla-denker]

My roommate is transmasc. We were just talking about their reluctance to use the men's bathroom even as they "pass" more and more as a man, which is starting to cause people to give them concerning looks when they use the women's. They said they still use the women's because they feel more comfortable there. Which is fine, we shouldn't have gendered bathrooms anyway. But I told them "you might not feel as safe when you eventually get 'accused' of being a trans woman in the women's bathroom." To which they replied "oh, I'll lust lift my shirt and show them my mastectomy scars. That'll prove I belong in there."

Oh but "everyone is subjected to transmisogyny," right?

This is the point of TME/TMA. This is why non-transfeminine people aren't subjected to transmisogyny.

I can't fall back on my AGAB to "prove I belong" in women's spaces.

[rabbitkinglune777]

^

[rabbitkinglune777]

I stand by this fully. idc. rent lowering gunshots

[a-friend-of-mara]

Why is "don't attack traumatized people" controversial?

[ashes2caches]

pride month is coming up soon. whatever you do please do not forget about trans women.

[thewingedwolf]

do you think the catholic church effectively utilized wokeness by funneling money into the colonization and rape of the americas after issuing the doctrine of discovery which effectively legalized the subjugation of indigenous peoples?

[lesilentreaper]

[numahachi]

[nonging]