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[twitwir]

Toby - 20 - it/its

Canadian - Nonbinary - Aroace - Nonhuman

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[encryptidarchivist]

today is international nonbinary people’s day and i have yet to see a single post about it on my dashboard so i have decided to be a bit annoying about it and reblog a bunch of stuff because, frankly, i am so sick of nonbinary people being an afterthought, ignored, and erased in the queer community. i hope that today and during this week (nonbinary awareness week, the 13th-20th) you, the person reading this, will take some time to engage in some meaningful allyship of the nonbinary community beyond phrases like “nonbinary people are valid,” especially if you are not nonbinary yourself. tell your nonbinary friends they matter, support nonbinary creators (especially nonbinary creators of colour!), learn how to use a set of neopronouns, read up on nonbinary-specific issues and exorsexism and how they intersect with intersex issues and oppression, learn about nonbinary gender experiences in cultures other than your own, learn about some lesser known terms and labels used by the community, stop misusing our language (transfem and transmasc) to push bioessentialist discourse within the trans community and push back against binary gender/sex division when you see it — there is so much you can do and all of it makes a difference!

nonbinary people are not only valid, but an important and foundational demographic of the queer and trans community, and we deserve to be treated as such. we deserve to be taken seriously. and to my fellow nonbinary people reading this: your existence makes the world a better place. you deserve to have your identity not just tolerated, but appreciated and respected. i love you. please stay alive

happy international nonbinary people’s day 🖤💜🤍💛

[gatorzaeder]

Take my gay cats, Tumblr!

This is part 1, the next part will be gender identity centered :)

[thisisexorsexism]

Does anyone else feel like there is a push to make degendering seem like the worst thing that ever happens? It is bad, don't twist my words. But I've seen people genuinely say that degendering binary people is always worse than misgendering non-binary people.

It's worse when they twist 'degendering' to mean 'someone didn't immediatly shout the right pronouns within the millisecond they laid eyes on me, like they should.' People are advocating against gender neutral spaces, gender neutral language and asking pronouns, because a (passing) binary trans person's gender not being affirmed 24/7 is treated as a worse thing than excluding non-binary people from society.

'I'm wearing makeup and a dress, is this even a question?' 'I have a beard, why are you asking my pronouns?' Because non-binary people exist, and the least you should do is not exclude them from society.

this is exorsexism

[thisisexorsexism]

facebook pronoun choosing only giving you 3 options and you cant choose more.

also discord servers not having an it/its pronoun tag option making you choose ask for pronouns

this is exorsexism

[azulghoul]

Jane study that turned into a full-fledged drawing.

[azulghoul]

Over 2k notes?? holy moly

tumblr is jane lover central it seems.

[azulghoul]

Not the first time he's been wrong about something.

[heartattackinblackdye]

this summer i recommend shower wipes or body wipes to people who struggle with hygiene due to disability, mental or physical. yes i know it produces unnecessary waste. yes there’s the argument of “if you buy the wipes then you’ll never shower,” but chances are most people who are struggling would Not Have Showered with or without access to wipes. i know it isnt a full shower but wiping yourself down can make a big difference in how you feel!!

along these lines you can think about buying mouthwash and getting any kind of friction at all on your teeth when it’s too hard to brush fully, dry shampoo if it’ll help keep your hair less oily when washing your hair is overwhelming, etc. you deserve easier ways to care for yourself and feel clean. also remember you are not a failure for struggling with hygiene even if society tells you otherwise!

[gingik]

Noobnouns vs pronouns vs hackernouns

[fairycosmos]

[aka-lonne]

Having to convince/remind other people every time that you're also queer as an aroace person.

Explaining over and over that you also relate to many of the queer experiences.

Having to correct other queer people when they keep trying to make you into other sexuality as a joke/for convenience because being aroace isn't queer enough.

Literally tearing up when you have to explain it all to the same person for the thousandth time because they don't care or expect you to "grow past it by now".

All of that to be slapped in the face with "well you're just straight" "lgbt is about sexuality, so like, you actually don't belong anywhere" "but you have it way easier! You're so lucky!!"

[redstonedust]

god made me aromantic because she knew dropping me into the dating pool would do some category 9 shit to the meta. i've been benched for balance reasons. if they let me free it would cause millions of divorces world wide. you're welcome.

[experiment41]

we are NOT bringing 4chan incel terminology to this site, take that "foid" out of your post and go wash your blog out with soap

[cognitohazardous]

the memeification of fascism is a proven method of perpetuating and instilling it in other people. Layers of irony will not protect you once you adopt racist, sexist, ableist, transphobic terminology into your lexicon. you'll be acknowledging and nursing the mindsets and connotations borne of those words.

[twitwir]

i never drew mob before so i was kinda going off a reference. i think he turned out okay.

happy 10 years. wish i found this show sooner

[art-woonz]

Art By: @viiperfish

Instagram: @artwoonz

[urie]

i haven't seen anything about this on my dashboard, so i wanted to share. ICE gestapo killed another human being on tuesday. he leaves behind three sons and his wife, who he has spent the last 35 years building a life with

there is a gofundme supported by the league of united latin american citizens set up to help with funeral costs, legal fees, and supporting his family moving forward.

please give if you can and share if you can't

[teaboot]

Maaaan I am well over a decade late to learn how digital media works BUT THIS SHIT WHIPS OMGGGGGGGGGGG