Headcanons for Kakashi where the relationship starts as āfriends with benefitsā and he develops serious feelings for them. Awesome if there would be nsfw in it
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⦠Honestly, I feel like this is the most plausible way Kakashi would ever get in a relationship. I donāt think he really wants to pursue an actual relationship - heās pretty nonchalant about the idea. Heās got theĀ āif it happens, it happens; if it doesnāt, then too badā approach to it. However, the man does have needs (I mean, he reads porn in public all the time, youād think heād at least be interested in having sex with people), so a friends with benefits thing would be ideal for him.
⦠Thatās when you come into the picture. Youād have to be a close friend of his already, because I donāt think heād be the kind of person to have something like this going on with a complete stranger - one night stands, sure, but regular fling, never. Heās not ready to let someone in and share so much of his personal life with if he doesnāt know them. But you, an old friend, someone he finds attractive on top of that - it makes perfect sense to him, and although he hides it well, heās really happy when you agree to his offer.
⦠TheĀ āno strings attachedā is an unspoken rule you settle between the two. Itās never explicitly stated, but itās taken for granted from the way he pitched the idea. Mostly because it wasnāt planned on his part per se; you both ended up having sex after you got drunk out of your minds, and when you woke up the next day, Kakashi just casually saidĀ āwe should do that more oftenā. It was meant to mostly be a joke, but you caught on to the idea, and because no feelings were shared beyond and the whole thing happened when you both had no control over your inhibitions, it was assumed it was aĀ āno feelingsā thing.
⦠However, this started to change after a while, where the lines between meaningless fun and actual intimacy started to blur for you both. Kakashi wouldnāt immediately realize the change, mostly because he doesnāt give much thought about his feelings like that. Except there was this one night where he didnāt feel like just fucking you - he was tender and slow, passionate, kissing you all over your body; something heās never did before. He found himself hugging you a little tighter that night, and his heart melted when he admired your peaceful features when he woke up the next day. Thatās when he knew.
⦠From then on, yourĀ ācasualā hangouts wouldnāt just be about sex. Heād drag it on, asking you for dinner first, or taking long walks in the quiet streets of the village at night; heād take you on the top of Mount Hokage to admire the stars and cuddle. He wouldnātĀ tell you what was going on or where this change in behaviour came from, but it would come as so incredibly natural to you that you wouldnāt feel the need to question it.
⦠Foreplay would become longer and more important too. Heād take his time, hands roaming everywhere, hickeys littering your entire body, lazy make out sessions lasting for an hour occurring more and more often, body worship and moments where heād be entirely focused on your pleasure alone - he could eat you out into multiple orgasms and never expect anything in return. Heād make you feel incredibly loved without ever telling you, and thatās how your own feelings started to morph into something more.
⦠It started with you leaving clothes at his place. Then, you extended your stays at his place, staying longer in the morning if you didnāt have anything important to do, sharing domestic and intimate moments as you prepared breakfast together or just spent a lazy morning in bed. You would start dating without any of you asking the other out. It would just happen, and neither of you would really notice - again, because it came as so natural to you both that you never questioned it.
⦠It became normal for villagers to see you both together. In fact, unless Kakashi was doing whatever Hokage business that he needed to take care of, it was quite unsettling to some to see him around without you nearby. When you were out, if he saw you look at something for a certain amount of time, heād sometimes go back to the store later, without you, and buy you whatever he knew you wanted. Heād then leave it on your dresser in your bedroom for you to find when you came home, and the gesture, although it implied that he could and did break in into your home, amused you more than anything.
⦠Kakashiās close friends, especially Shikamaru whom he works with all the time, would pick up on how Kakashi seemed to have a pep in his walk and act more carefree than usual. He was more focused on his work, because he knew the sooner he was done, the sooner he could see you, and it didnāt take long for Shikamaru to connect the dots. Heād tease him about it, but Kakashi would be genuinely clueless as to what he was talking about. When Shikamaru mentioned your name, Kakashi would dismiss it as you beingĀ ājust friendsā, even if he knew it was more than that. He would only do so because he wouldnāt know what else to call you, as things were never discussed between you two. But when Shikamaru would leave, Kakashi would smile to himself at the realization that a genius on Shikamaruās level would come to the conclusion that you two were a couple, because he liked the idea. And he was okay with that.
⦠Things would become official one morning, as you were getting out of bed to prepare to leave, and he grabbed your arm, sitting up and pulling you to him. He made you sit in his lap, wrapped his arms around your waist tightly and nuzzled your neck, groaning tiredly for a bit as your laughed off his unexpected display of affection until he asked, in a completely serious tone,Ā āmove in with me.ā You were in shock, but said nothing, because you knew what he truly meant by that.Ā āI want to share my private life with youā - the ultimate proof of the trust he has in you, and coming from Kakashi, it means everything.