oppression olympics gold medalist

adult !! she/her tme nonbinary woman + intersex employed

[ukefledgling]

ദ്ദി◝ ⩊ ◜.ᐟ new layout = new pinned

ABOUT ME ₊⊹⁀➴

experienced fujoshi of twenty years. femme lesbian. TME bigender non-binary woman. DID haver + annoying histrionic narcissist + schizo bipolar + unbalanced humors + hysterical woman. diagnosed empath. ask me about my prophetic dreams.

₊˚ෆ BEFORE YOU INTERACT

while i frequently reply to people and make posts with tags, this blog is primarily for myself. i just happen to be annoying and attention-seeking. if you read my posts and they bother you i think that is your fault. i pretty much never check my notifications. anyone who sees my content is just collateral.

“then why do you have a pinned?” because making a pinned combines my two favorite pastimes: talking about myself and over-explaining things.

i don’t have a filter and tend to overshare. as is my god-given right. “digital footprint” doesn’t matter they pay me to post.

nobody is forcing you to talk to me. you can literally always block me at any time.

[ukefledgling]

[transsexual-experiences]

reading progressive sex ed caricatures with accurate and detailed and realistic diagrams of sexual organs + shows their variation, but all i can think about is how there is no discussion of what srs is besides the fact that it exists

[transsexual-experiences]

how may people know the before and afters of vaginoplasty? phalloplasty? meta? how it works at all?

[transsexual-experiences]

this one has been passed around recently from the mayo clinic and that actually makes me so happy because how many of transfeminine people are aware of what their options even look like?

there’s a diagram for phallo and meta from springer link(i believe) and. honestly i’d never seen these before and i dont think i’ve ever seen any diagrams. i know vaguely because of reading papers or listening to people talk about their experience but i’ve never seen it, yk? it makes me more confident in my choice to get meta when i’m older

[yooleebird]

There’s a website called Transbucket that has a whole archive of before and after photos, surgery costs, surgeon names and locations, and general feedback on complications, sensation, everything. It’s been around for at least a decade, and there are photos of some folks five or eight years down the line. It’s organized by procedure, and it’s very comprehensive. It’s NSFW of course but it’s an amazing resource!!!

Are you considering or have had transition care? | Transbucket.com

[catboybiologist]

Demystify transition! Break irrational medical fear!

[virtualgirladvance]

remember: if it was truely bad then haters wouldn't try so hard to make you not to, they don't have your best interests in mind

[going2hell4everythingbutbeingbi]

it really is crazy that women's clothes don't fit anybody. fat women can't find clothes, skinny women can't find clothes, tall women can't find clothes, short women can't find clothes, big chested women can't find clothes, small chested women can't find clothes. who the fuck are these being made for

[going2hell4everythingbutbeingbi]

we all really resonated with this one huh

[cattraine]

As near as I can tell they’re all just designed to hang on hangers.

[ukefledgling]

i’m a DDD cup and i have had multiple conversations with women with small boobs where i mention that clothes don’t fit me and they’re like “but clothes don’t fit me either? who are they for???”

like idk girl 😭

[sycamorality]

op disabled reblogs but i really wanted this post on my blog again

[spacetransportationsystem]

endos grooming young systems to think they dont have trauma because they split an alter without major trauma happening right beforehand despite not needing significant trauma to split once youve developed a cdd

refusing to let you process trauma resulting in a strained mental health and extra roadblocks to recovery is dangerous especially in younger people. endos arent harmless. stop saying they are. endo neutral is also ableist

[nerdygaymormon]

[dunkthebiscuit]

This is why Pride is not just a party. It's a joyful celebration, but it's also a pointed and colourful two-finger salute to a world that stood back whilst so many of us died. And we'll never go quietly, never again.

[calamity-corner]

twerfs will try to convince you that they are the silent majority but that couldn't be further from the truth. they are extremely loud but they are also very much the minority of opinion. this isn't to say we don't live in a transmisogynistic world, but i think it's important to remember that a lot more people will be kinder and more well-intentioned than you think. even people who are uninformed or misinformed will at the very least try to be kind, because people in general want to be kind to each other. there is hope, even if it is not as loud nor spotlighted as the hate.

[calamity-corner]

i keep thinking about how one of my nurses after surgery, a cis woman, was so eager to talk to me about how she also got reconstructive vaginoplasty, to commiserate over the tribulations of the healing process, to be excited about the advances in medicine, to be happy for me. and she was older, and she slipped up occasionally with pronouns and deadnames, but she also always corrected herself and any other nurses who made the same mistake, it was honestly endearing and made me emotional how firmly and repeatedly she made note to everyone that while my chart said my deadname, my name was Zoe.

idk just. people in general will try to be kind, even if they aren't the most informed and even if they don't always do the best job. people tend to try. despite what twerfs want you to believe, you are not alone in a world full of people who will never accept you, your best options are not just a handful of people humoring you. people care, people love. and trans people have existed longer than any twerf has been alive, and nobody has succeeded in stamping us out. we'll always be here and we'll always be able to find happiness, family, friends, love, even amidst those who hate to see us happy. we're stronger than them, and most people would much rather us just be happy. even people who might not Get it tend to not Get blindingly intense hatred more. hate is easy and loud and makes one feel strong, but it's all empty lonely posturing. most people would rather just let us live.

[calamity-corner]

prev tags because YEP

[ukefledgling]

the thing is most people, even if they don’t understand being trans, think it’s not real, have negative views on trans people.. still do not act like more extreme transphobes do because it is just rude. even if you think that way, it isn’t acceptable to talk to strangers like that. it’s more trouble than it’s worth to be nasty to random people.

[quetzalpapalotl]

Like most left-wing Usamericans have no problem understanding ACAB. They would be outraged if someone came into their home and destroyed the place, killed their family and took their stuff and they were then asked to have sympathy for the perpetrator. The reasons they cannot apply this logic to US military personnel is because they're not conceptualizing global southerners as real people with interiority who are being subjected to atrocities in the name of US interests, they only think of them as vague figures in moral thinking experiments that concerns poor little Usamericans (the only Real People) that are forced to do bad things to them.

[yuri-alexseygaybitch]

I want someone to make one of these new sterile teen gay romance shows on Netflix but halfway through they pull a Doki Doki Literature Club and it turns into a fucked up fourth wall breaking psychological thriller that deconstructs the heteronormative and middle class ideals of the genre

[nachosforfree]

If you dont like horror then watch the normal cutesy netflix gay shows ???

[times-chu]

the phrase that's ruined every media ever

[batmanisagatewaydrug]

extra crazy to see people swinging so hard for big corporate copyright lawsuits on tumblr dot com tbh. alright girl whateverrrrr, I hope the lawyers come for your favorite fan artist next if you're so in favor of it ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

[batmanisagatewaydrug]

you're all frothing at the mouth for a queer climate activist getting sued now but oooh just wait until you can't order astarion keychains and baby yoda plushies and whatever the fuck else off etsy anymore

[batmanisagatewaydrug]

I guess in light of all the feedback I've been receiving tonight I'm going to turn over a new leaf and become a good citizen who defends copyright law. first up is snitching out the nice lady at the local farmers market who sells crochet pokemon plushies, I want to see nintendo sue that cunt into the ground

[batmanisagatewaydrug]

in conclusion I've never felt this post more strongly

[ukefledgling]

“they need to protect their patent or they’ll lost it!!!”

i don’t think anyone should be able to patent a place name

“what about amazon???”

amazon also doesn’t deserve their patent

“they’re only patenting it for apparel and climate activism”

i don’t care i don’t think they have the right to patent it

“but she sold merch with their logo”

i don’t care

“but she’s being misleading”

i don’t care she is in the right. there is nothing you could say to make me side with the corporation and she is completely right that they should get their priorities straight. if they actually cared for the environment they wouldn’t be entertaining the system that uplifts big brands that destroy the planet

(and yes she tried to patent her drag queen name, not because she wanted to but because people use the system against queer people and if she doesn’t have legal protection someone could ruin her career, which a big brand that has the time and money to sue a drag queen doesn’t have to worry about)

[importantpics]

[thecrumbez]

Happy Pride Month to those two women dancing together in the foreground of the boat scene in Godzilla (1954).

I’m sorry your romantic foibles were overshadowed by a big ass atomic lizard thing.

[erratic-dragon-fruit]

out of the tags with you

[delmondo]

we have poop school tomorrow

[h4lfsleeper]

its not funny

[delmondo]

sorry

[outofcontexttomodachilife]

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[tatzelwurming]

listen i consider myself an empathic person but after a certain point i get sick of other people’s problems. my friend is always talking about how the jewel-eyed skull on their mantlepiece is tormenting them w its sinister beauty and im over it. like dude i don’t want to talk about this anymore. get rid of the fucking skull

[e-102]

you’ are biased against my skull

[tatzelwurming]

i’m not having this argument again man

[dogpuppy]

I just have a sort of “Lust” for Minecraft instead of jerking it

[mr-deep-downer]

[atwoodsfemalefantasy]

OP is posting this as an anti swiftie post somehow??? but no the first woman is right. she's made her damn name and built a legacy with HER NAME. just because she's getting married to a gross football player doesn't mean you can refer to her with his name

[mr-deep-downer]

no she’s changing her name to “jared folgel.” do you even watch the news?

[sirswooshnoodles]

Atwoodsfemalefantasy is a gross terf who claims she’s not transphobic but is. Gross. Also hates men which is stupid.

But the point does stand, until it’s proper conform from Taylor herself if she has or will change her name we should use her current, known, official name of Taylor swift.

I’m honestly not a fan of her but I think ppl deserve the basic decent of having their preferred name(s) used, not anything else.

[mr-deep-downer]

her name is going to be “jared folgel” does anyone read a thing I say?

[sirswooshnoodles]

I did read it, but bc your source is “I said so” I’m ignoring it

And I looked up if she was changer her name, so even more so

[mr-deep-downer]

Changer her name to “jared folgel” which is known and established