How can I be a misandrist, I literally have a dad?

Just exploring...again. Radfem/Radleaning

[un1qorn]

About Me

The basics:

19 yrs old

Dutch

GNC

Bi

Radfem/Radleaning, I'm not doing any actual activism(besides trying to convince my mom to stop dyeing her gray hair if that counts lol) so Idk if you could consider me an actual feminist(yet). This blog isn't about activism either, just trying to share my thoughts.

Used to be a TRA, thought I was nonbinary, even got into that mogai stuff. Felt conflicted when it came to transwomen competing in women's sports, I came across a few radfem blogs here on tumblr and immediately peaked... (especially since I already had plenty of feminist views)

Vegetarian, but hoping to be vegan in the future!

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My interests:

The Elder Scrolls

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I like unicorns idk :p

[cepn]

hi i'm neurospicy 25 year old number 32087 my audhd special interest hyperfixation is watching love on the spectrum and laughing at--i mean with all the weird, i mean all my fellow autistics <3 what's yours? oh you like cold war history? isn't that kind of problematic and like conservative cis man coded... are you sure you're not hyperfixated on something like shopping or rupaul's drag race...

[un1qorn]

Tell me, ladies in my phone, should I watch Witch Hat Atelier??

[un1qorn]

Okay just watched the first three episodes of the dub- I'm liking it so far!

[fahbee]

(source)

Bonus:

[glamwisegamgee]

obsessed with this search result for “yearning stock photo”

[un1qorn]

@snowmyai

[sarahsversi0n]

hi im really annoying with tagging people- but anyway im bored sooooo lets do a picrew chain https://picrew.me/image_maker/400653 <- link for the picrew

tagging (hi again) @giuls233 @headcanonsandmore @hedwigsbixch @g1nny-p0tter and Whoever eLse Wants to do it :)

[teeth2meat-deactivated20230702]

Thanks for the tag ballad!

@i-am-1142 @pedantichunny @thesacredtwink @hyrules-feral-hero

[i-am-1142-deactivated20240508]

here you go! So sorry@colorfulcontinent I couldn’t get to yours it kept saying “could not load post”

@coldmooncheesecake @drowinginaseaoftears @linkbetweenlinks @wilds-ponytail @hyliachild @4iv3r @unfreshydraws @sapphic-loser16 @linkssyo @s-c-r-u-f-f-y-y @scotchbonnetfairy @ lava family @uncle lin

@ everyone else I forgot names

[wilds-ponytail]

ty for tagging me!

uhhhh @louve-garoue @catboy-vhylet @cryoud

@triforceofchaos @riverside-lavender @ everyone i’m blanking on urls rn 😅

[cryoud]

Seems fun, ty!

@korriju @casual-trash wanna give it a go? And anyone else really, I just suddenly forgot every single social interaction I’ve ever had sorry 😅😂

[jenovarchosaur]

EPIC ty for tagging

aight who wants to go (￣ヘ￣）ᴴᴹᴹᴹ

@thesacredtwink aaaand yeah you’re the only person i can think of rn hashajkdjdjd whoever wants to do it can tho lol

[ofmonstersandpen]

Well you said anybody and surprise, I’m here! Annnnd I have people to TAG

@king-cowb0y @merriweather-boat @glauxmagpienest @phoenixcatch7 and whoever else wants to tap in!

[phoenixcatch7]

Ooh you look so pretty!

@puppetmaster13u @crystalink214 @formebime @kayuripax if anyone wants a go :D!

[formebime]

Prev I love the hair <3

Lol if anyone wants to have a go @snowmyai @veri-bright @quinitillion @tomboyvillain @punk-rock-pig @ferrethaver

[snowmyai]

sure why not

tagging if anyone else wants to @mademoiselle-crabaletta @prettaycat @yorblair @un1qorn & anyone else who wants in

[un1qorn]

Honestly pretty accurate to how I look(except I'm more pale LOL)

Dk if any of my other moots are interested buttt im tagging some anyways: @pimpslaprickey @sweetshifter @biac-091299 @simsmongerthee

[gendercriticalbutch]

i’m pretty sure i’ve made a few posts exactly like this but my god it bares repeating because this drives me mad. i’ve explained to a few trans people/TRAs on here that i cured my own dysphoria with therapy and wholeheartedly believed most people’s gender dysphoria without any radical medical intervention. each time I’ve gotten a response on the lines of: “well therapy wouldn’t be a viable option for most people’s gender dysphoria because it’d be too uncomfortable and gender affirming care is the best treatment” which is sort of baffling to me.

like yeah, that’s literally most of what doing the work in therapy is. it’s doing deep introspection on your behaviors and training your brain to work differently than the way it’s naturally wired. it’s not easy, and can often be uncomfortable which is why you have a professional helping to guide you. the fact that these things are inherently difficult and uncomfortable is exactly the reason why a lot of people who are clearly unstable opt out of therapy entirely and say some sort of similar cope line like: “therapy just doesn’t work for me." because it’s easier to become complacent and continue living with a brain that’s making you miserable than to do the difficult work.

and the thing is, most people wouldn’t even KNOW whether or not their gender dysphoria could have been successfully treated with therapy because therapists are terrified of questioning any patient that states they think they’re trans out of fear of getting their license revoked and labeled a “conversion therapist.”

because doctors and the trans community have spoonfed it to everyone that cross-sex hormones and surgeries are the only valid treatment or else you’ll inevitably off yourself. parents are terrified of asking questions and exploring other options when their kid says they think they’re trans because the: “wouldn’t you rather have a trans kid than a dead kid?” is everywhere. you’re putting vulnerable people in a position where they’re forced to believe the only solution to their issues is extremely sketchy invasive treatments with horrifying side-effects they may not even be aware of because none of the “professionals” tell them. it’s disgusting, it’s not legitimate medical care and nobody can convince me otherwise.

[girlfailureinstem]

The hijab discourse on Twitter is crazy, but one that really bothered me was a woman talking about how Western medical school is hard for her because it involves touching male patients.

First of all, isn’t med school *completely* optional? There are a billion other jobs she could be doing instead of one of the very few that involve contact with males if that’s so important to her.

But more pressingly, I wonder what kind of religion would stop someone from giving medical care to someone else because of sexism. Would it really make a woman impure to save a man’s life?

On a more personal note, I’m a medical student now and it would be so frustrating, if not outright disruptive, to have a colleague who can’t do their job on half the population.

I wish these religious fanatics would stop and rub two brain cells together once in a while.

[radykalny-feminizm]

I love to see the general public finally waking tf up

Guess what group has been talking about all these things for years and was demonized, shamed and threatend for it 🤔

[bettybeagettymcclanahan]

[targetedknowledge]

[sinnietheterf]

i think where the radfem community falls short sometimes is it forgets that most women are normies. most women don’t think about feminism or their oppression too hard because they’re not popular subjects. alot of women would be discouraged or outcasted for being openly feminist. alot of women were raised with the mindset that they’re lesser. alot of these women see their oppression as just a part of life. because thats the way they’re socialized. thats why some women ‘peak’ where they have that moment of realization.

i understand the frustration with normie women, truly i do. i also feel that way as there’s many normies in my life who don’t understand or when they do understand, what they don’t get is why im so secretive about it.

but those women are not our enemies, they’re not our oppressors. do i feel disdain and sometimes anger? absolutely. but ultimately these women don’t know and push away critical thought because it’s not what they’re used to and they associate it with being strange.

be angry with that, be upset, you have every reason to be. but viewing these women as ‘lost causes’ and ‘too far gone’ is disturbing and disgusting.

by all means, set your boundaries, respect yourself, prioritize how you feel. most certainly. but quit fucking saying these women shouldn’t be included in feminism.

ALL females, are included, ALL females deserve liberation.

hate her because she’s wrong and cocky. not because she’s a woman.

[un1qorn]

Lorddd I wanna dye my hair 🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔

[un1qorn]

What if I pull a Yuji Itadori gyns...what ifff🤔🤔

[un1qorn]

Lorddd I wanna dye my hair 🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔

[gingerpolyglot]

If you find yourself asking some variation of "why do the hets do x" or "are the straights okay" I can guarantee you that nine times out of ten the answer is literally just straight men being misogynistic or straight women coping with straight men being misogynistic

[spamloaf]

You know what I'm sick of? It's actually not "healthy masculinity" to stand up for the vulnerable, or call out your peers, or whatever. Any of that stuff would be the healthy and right choice for anyone. Why do men need to be convinced with gendered language before they'll do the right thing? If a man does something supportive of women but refers back to his sense of gender identity as the justification, he's still just as absorbed in self worship and superiority as a man who openly acts entitled to women.

[spamloaf]

Men who define themselves by their gender will always form social groups to pat each other on the back and hand out bro-wnie points based on:

Directly degrading women as a team activity. No explanation needed.

An arbitrary aesthetic or consumption pattern that's been assigned value. Finding community around interests like wristwatches and cigars (or comics and video games) is part of it, but not enough for these guys. Including women who share these interests would spoil the idea that men are special, sophisticated, and privy to secret knowledge.

Co-opting virtues as exclusively male. Deciding that courage and self-sacrifice (or empathy and wokeness) are "masculine" allows them to feel like they belong, by virtue of having penises, to a group that's responsible for the very existence of these positive concepts (and of course, each of them can take some personal credit). If a male person is heroic, they attribute this to his gender and use it to validate their imagined superiority. If a male person's actions are reprehensible, then he's "not a real man," even if he committed a harm that's statistically male-dominated.

Men and boys who think like this are training themselves not to self-identify or empathize with female human beings, and that's dangerous.

[friendlyfreakazoid]

Outlawing murder creates a slippery slope towards outlawing all acts of violence and displays of extreme emotion, which will eventually lead to things like playfully slapping a friend on the back being criminalized and before you know it screaming at a football game will get you put on a registry.

[un1qorn]

Tell me, ladies in my phone, should I watch Witch Hat Atelier??