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[spamloaf]

Female Not Feminine

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I Stand With Survivors

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[spamloaf]

2026 Tumblr: "No uterus no opinion" excludes trans women from the coveted privilege of struggling over abortion and contraception. The idea that biology could be relevant in any way is literally exorsexist bioessentialism and kills someone every ten minutes. In fact, everyone with a uterus has weaponizable TME privilege, so we are changing it to "if uterus, no opinion." If you're not sure about that, then you're a dumb white Karen bitch cruising for a (morally righteous) bruising-- but simultaneously you're also a terroristic cybernetic clone of Adolf Hitler threatening the balance of intergalactic peace.

[anaukeya3]

So annoying to me when people think citing the actions of FICTIONAL female characters counts as evidence that femininity doesn't hold women back. "Omg, she can run and fight with heels and a dress! What an icon, I can't even walk in heels." She is not real, and therefore her body doesn't follow the same laws that ours do. She will do whatever the writers want her to, because she is ANIMATED. And even if the actor is a real person, the scene is choreographed, rehearsed and edited with CGI. It's fake!

[spamloaf]

something something "documentaries about other worlds"

[trans-masked]

I think one of the most batshit takes to come out of tumblr is that a pre-transition/closeted/girlmoding trans man has male privilege despite presenting entirely as a cis woman because of like masculine soul energy or something and a pre-transition/closeted/boymoding trans woman doesn’t benefit in any way from being read as a cis man

[trans-masked]

I mean in this instance when I’m talking about a disease that affects the uterus then yes people with a uterus are going to suffer from it and people without a uterus aren’t? Yall are going to call me a TERF for believing in cervical cancer next

[kiefbowl]

people hate women for real lol it crazy. you'll say that and then people will be like "I don't hate women. I just hate it when they're always whining about things that only affect women? it's fine that they're here on earth and I like it when they're quiet but when they try to talk about stuff it's so annoying?? like why are you complaining all the time and why do you think you're special and why don't you ever want to talk about men?? like they really are so awful and horrible to be around but I don't hate them" and then they want you to go "oh okay! totally"

[spamloaf]

Women don't "carry" babies, they build them, and unlike other creators they also are the material used. Pregnancy isn't work because it's more than work. Ordinary labor involves a continual conscious decision to continue. Pregnancy invades every aspect of your existence, and you can't clock out for a break. More respect for mothers now

[fematrix]

hot girls do this, hot girls do that.... what if my sense self worth is detached from what is currently perceived as visually desirable in the eyes of men?

this line just gets exhausting and i don't care if it's *not that deep*. everything is that deep, why else would this mirage of hotness work on literally anybody?

[spamloaf]

Wearing a T-shirt every day that reads "women's bodies are sex objects" on the front and "conceal your existence or you deserve to be raped" on the back is my empowered choice, so if you question how seeing me like this might affect little girls' self-image, express dismay that I ostensibly hold those misogynist beliefs, or otherwise criticize the practice in any way, then you're an anti-feminist Nazi, and you're just exactly as evil and harmful as that guy over there who's threatening a young girl with death if she doesn't wear the same shirt.

[spamloaf]

"Asserting that PMOS makes you biologically less of a woman wasn't enough; I think I'll use a slur too."

[sprinkledsalt]

I’ve talked about Hasan’s open misogyny before but no, it’s actually still not talked about enough that arguably the internet’s biggest leftist “influencer” openly dismisses misogyny and hates women. His attitude towards women alone should have gotten him ostracized from leftist spaces—spaces where people are regularly kicked out for using the wrong terminology or not going along with ridiculous, maximalist positions—but this is what happens when men on the left say feminism is, at best, a distraction from class politics, and at worst, the whining of bitch white Karens.

And you know, obviously women and girls in Afghanistan face much more oppression than being banned from going to school, but even if the Taliban’s misogyny ended there, how dare some piece of shit, nepo baby man who sits online all day act like it’s no big deal that women are denied education just because they’re women. Again, this is only tolerated in a political environment that has rejected feminism and welcomed misogyny, and more women in leftist spaces need to wake up to how misogynistic these men are. Being a pick-me and pretending misogyny doesn’t matter will not save you and will not make leftist men like Hasan take your rights any more seriously

[sickofthis666]

The only stream of him I watched was when he said he was fine with rape being used as weapon of war :))) I never heard of him before that, so learning that he was a major leftist "influencer" you can imagine my disappointment :)))) we are represented by those guys? Fuck that.

[itdoobielikethat]

Before you start patting Hunter Biden on the back for making twitter quips, let's remember that he is a john who spent hundreds of thousands of his ex-wife's money on raping prostituted women, while he was still married to her. Raping prostituted women is not a symptom of drug addiction, and isn't something that female addicts do. He made that choice himself.

[sun-lesbian]

If misogyny was only just “hatred of the feminine” a supposedly mystic state of being rather than oppressive norms, women could opt out at any time by simply not conforming. This is so clearly and painfully untrue almost as if… Sex-based oppression exists

[nevertheless-lesbians-persist]

and in fact, refusing to conform to/perform femininity often makes things WORSE for females.

[fretami]

female and feminine? get misogyny

female and masculine? get misogyny

[bushpropaganda]

it’s almost like the thing that makes oppression so horrific is that you cannot opt out of it. because the system of oppression relies on immutable characteristics to effectively oppress people.

[niiwa-angel]

Also, what counts as ‘feminine’ changes by culture, yet women (female people) are oppressed across all cultures and countries.

[parabiota]

STOP SCROLLING

Your life ends in the wasteland.

[asoftspotforangels]

some of my favorite woven tapestries, by Cecilia Blomberg:

Point Defiance Steps

Mates

Rising Tides

Vashon Steps

[spamloaf]

I'm sorry, woven tapestries?

[eliza1exe]

You're genuinely weird if you think trans women can discuss periods, even if they're on HRT they still shouldn't.

[junglejim4322]

You should be able to say “don’t touch me” to anyone ever in any context and not have it be considered in the realm of surprising or insulting imho if we ever needed to normalize something it’s this