being a woman isn't a feminist action btw
being a lesbian isn't a feminist action either. It's just a thing
There is nothing inherently evil or wrong about how masculine or feminine you are and I wish people would stop acting like one is better than the other. The way you act and speak as a person says more about what kind of person you are than your gender presentation. There is plenty of people capable of being horrible people and there are plenty of people that are capable of being good people. It's a choice, gender has nothing to do with it.
So many people build a very fragile foundation of their identity on appearances (gender, clothes, body shape, hair, etc) and preferences (orientation, social group, religious group, culture, etc). It's the trap of Identity. A strong identity foundation is one based on what you do (actions), your goals, and your belief in your capacity to grow.
