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it’s never too late to start again. 5pm on a thursday can be your new monday. you don’t have to wait until the new year to better yourself. time is an illusion, don’t forget that. just because you woke up at 1pm, it doesn’t mean you messed your whole day up and that you can’t turn the mood around. it’s never too late to start again!!!!!

foreveralone-lyguy

I like to slip subliminal messages go out with me into all of my text posts

proudofphan

me, going for a long car ride: yes I can listen to so much music

69nastassya

jewishmatsuda

A pen that slides nicely with flowing ink is the epitome of sexy

maymeteorite

me: :(

the moon: 🌙

me: :)

incompetentantagonist

spartanguard

HAPPY GALENTINE’S DAY!

baetology

Stop letting your heart and your pussy choose your men.

trapbinch

I’m confused, what is left…

trapbinch

Oh nvm lmao my brain. You right sis lol you is right

baetology

You really forgot your whole brain.

pussylipgloss

she read this post with her pussy

good-god-milla-jovovich

I love this

mossghoul

If you stop wearing makeup, stop getting manicures, stop plucking your eyebrows and dyeing and heat treating your hair and fastidiously putting on night repair serums and pinching your feet into pointy heels and sucking yourself in with spanx and wearing impractical lingerie and bleaching the tiny hairs above your lip, the world won’t stop. You’ll be the same strong, compelling, lovely woman you always have been. Just as radiant, just as worthy of love and desire and respect. Other people may treat you differently, but that doesn’t alter your value as a woman. Your value transcends your conformity to femininity.

lavenderpanda-deactivated202604

why is femininity here being equated with artificiality?

mossghoul

Because baby girls aren’t born wanting to wing their eyeliner and restrict calories and defer to men. Femininity consists of a set of behaviours that is socially-imposed upon women to demarcate women’s social class. That’s why so many aspects of femininity are actively harmful and restrictive. Femininity isn’t simply about expression, it is an all-encompassing role imposed on a class of people. The failure of female people to conform to this role leads to violence and discrimination.

This post isn’t calling women fake, it’s drawing attention to the fact that femininity isn’t inherent to women, and isn’t a natural state of being. Femininity as we know it is enforced by men, assisted by female self-policing. If patriarchy did not exist, and little girls weren’t socialised into femininity from birth, then femininity as we know it would not exist.

sterling-why-deactivated2019052

Absolutely tear apart “I’m being forced to marry this woman” jokes. I hate them so fucking much. Do you know how much of a let down it is to see the person you love and share so much with turn around and rag on you to your friends as “the ol’ ball and chain”? Imagine trusting and respecting someone so much that you’re willing to commit your life to a union with them, and meanwhile they’re talking about how their life could only get worse if they were married to you. Destroy the idea that a man’s life is best when he’s a player, and that his life is “over” once he allows a woman into it. Destroy the idea that all women are controlling, horrible bridezillas. How disenchanting it is to see so many people shit all over the love between two people.

Respect your fucking wife. If you can’t do that, don’t get married.