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hope your pets stay healthy in 2017
I almost didnât blog this and felt guilty
Not risking it
May he live forever.
Amen
the world is 2020, BTS still hasnât performed, the AMAs suddenly dim the lights, and a single voice rings throughout the entire stadium:
âbultaoreuneâ
[audio transcript]
Woman: Heâs fine. He misses you.
Man: Give him my love.
Woman: Will do.Â
[woman looks at ridiculous oversized bird]
Woman: SQUAWK
Bird: SQUAWK
THE END
@cow-children
this is the 2016 apology post. reblog in 45 seconds and 2016 will apologize to you in the form of money.
not risking it.
Not even scrolling past it
I deserve an apology smh
i was gonna scroll past once i saw 2016 but then i read it lol
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thereâs something endlessly hilarious to me about the phrase âhotly debatedâ in an academic context. like i just picture a bunch of nerds at podiums & oneâs like âof course there was a paleolithic bear cult in Northern Eurasiaâ and another one just looks him in the eye and says âiâl kill you in real life, kevinâ
It got better
âwhy do u like playing as support?â i enjoy the feeling of ppl needing me
I enjoy knowing that I can choose who lives and dies
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everyone remember that this guy is the main fucking protaginist of this goddamn volleyball anime
For months, every morning when my daughter was in preschool, I watched her construct an elaborate castle out of blocks, colorful plastic discs, bits of rope, ribbons and feathers, only to have the same little boy gleefully destroy it within seconds of its completion.
No matter how many times he did it, his parents never swooped in BEFORE the morningâs live 3-D reenactment of âInvasion of AstroMonster.â This is what theyâd say repeatedly:
âYou know! Boys will be boys!âÂ
âHeâs just going through a phase!â
âHeâs such a boy! He LOVES destroying things!â
âOh my god! Girls and boys are SO different!â
âHe. Just. Canât. Help himself!â
I tried to teach my daughter how to stop this from happening. She asked him politely not to do it. We talked about some things she might do. She moved where she built. She stood in his way. She built a stronger foundation to the castle, so that, if he did get to it, she wouldnât have to rebuild the whole thing. In the meantime, I imagine his parents thinking, âWhat red-blooded boy wouldnât knock it down?â
She built a beautiful, glittery castle in a public space.
It was so tempting.
He just couldnât control himself and, being a boy, had violent inclinations.
She had to keep her building safe.
Her consent didnât matter. Besides, itâs not like she made a big fuss when he knocked it down. It wasnât a âlegitimateâ knocking over if she didnât throw a tantrum.
His desire â for power, destruction, control, whatever- - was understandable.
Maybe she âshouldnât have gone to preschoolâ at all. OR, better if she just kept her building activities to home.
I know itâs a lurid metaphor, but I taught my daughter the preschool block precursor of donât âget rapedâ and this child, Boy #1, did not learn the preschool equivalent of âdonât rape.â
Not once did his parents talk to him about invading another personâs space and claiming for his own purposes something that was not his to claim. Respect for her and her work and words was not something he was learning.  How much of the boyâs behavior in coming years would be excused in these ways, be calibrated to meet these expectations and enforce the ârulesâ his parents kept repeating?
There was another boy who, similarly, decided to knock down her castle one day. When he did it his mother took him in hand, explained to him that it was not his to destroy, asked him how he thought my daughter felt after working so hard on her building and walked over with him so he could apologize. That probably wasnât much fun for him, but he did not do it again.
There was a third child. He was really smart. He asked if he could knock her building down. She, beneficent ruler of all pre-circle-time castle construction, said yes⌠but only after she was done building it and said it was OK. They worked out a plan together and eventually he started building things with her and they would both knock the thing down with unadulterated joy. You canât make this stuff up.
Take each of these three boys and consider what he might do when heâs older, say, at college, drunk at a party, mad at an ex-girlfriend who rebuffs him and uses words that she expects will be meaningful and respecte, âNo, I donât want to. Stop. Leave.â
The âoverarching attitudinal characteristicâ of abusive men is entitlement
This is so brilliant. We learn things from socialization process. What our parents, friends and peers do, media and all. I think perhaps rape is because parents think boys will be boys, they bully, fight and destroy things, itâs their characteristics so they donât bother to stop them. But it manifests in them, knowing or unknowingly, they will just think, because Iâm a boy and boys tend to do these, so it doesnât matter even if the girl hates it, says no, because Iâm a boy.
Just reblog this, this message is really powerful. For parents and future parents.
Whatâs also interesting, is if you frame this as about spoiling your children, and about spoiled children, people tend to agree and get it. Theyâll agree that children whose parents lay down no boundaries for them when they hurt others, who let them have whatever they want at the expense of others, and justify away the harm they do, will probably grow up thinking they can do this to others (usually weaker than them, or they perceive as weaker) as adults. But if you mention the word âprivilegeâ, âentitlementâ or anything relating to gender, everybody freaks the f- out and will deny up, down, back, forth, and sideways that how you raise a child, what you allow them to get away with, or training them that their hurtful behaviour will always be justified, can affect them at all.Â
ALL OF THIS.
Obligatry read FOR EVERYONE
The Problem with âBoys Will Be Boysâ
THIS
when people ask how long youâve been online
Iâm called out
I feel so attacked
This triggered a fight or flight response in me.
REBLOG IF YOU WANT A LOVE LETTER FROM A FICTIONAL CHARACTER IN YOUR ASK BOX NOW
sideways scene (x)
âhave you met my friend daniel he walks like thisâ
IM DYING
WHY IS THIS SO FUNNY
The way they all fell down.
âWHAT HAPPENED TO MY WINDOW?â