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[femboydaniel]

happy pride to my favorite male podcasters (and to the wonderful community around them as well!)

[allthingswhumpyandangsty]

[dannyboyandpdawg]

Sometimes I see someone say smth like "photocard where dan is holding Phil's naked phitties" and I'm like haha what a funny joke that you made. Imagine

And then I scroll down

[baraphalloplastyclinic]

I actually do think we should discourage women from becoming housewives. Do not become financially dependent on a man. That's how a lot of women ended up dead over the years. A man gets violent suddenly and you have to choose between homelessness or potentially dying at his hand because you have an enormous gap in your resume and no degrees or certifications or anything that will help you pursue a career that will allow you to be financially independent. He owns your bank account. His name is probably the one on the car. Try and leave and he can report it stolen. Where will you go then?

Don't become a housewife.

[ladyfoxfire]

And if you do become a housewife, take steps to protect yourself. Make sure you’re legally married, for starters; stay-at-home girlfriends have very little legal recourse to claim their partner’s assets in a breakup. Make sure your name is on the house deed/rental agreement, and have your car in your name, even if your spouse is paying for it. Have your spouse transfer money every month into an account solely in your name, so you can buy yourself things without needing permission, but also so you can save up to leave if needed.

If your spouse fights you on any of this, then don’t quit your job. The tradwife to poverty pipeline is real, and so is financial abuse.

[dressedupliketheking]

also, many women/people experience controlling behaviour and domestic violence from their partner for the first time during pregnancy. don’t risk thinking “he’s just stressed, it’ll get better when the baby comes” because it won’t. neither you and your child will ever be safe with that man. get out as early and safely as you can

[uncertainlys]

MY FINGERS BARELY EVEN TOUCHED YOUR STUPID FUCKING AD STOP REDIRECTING ME TO THE APP STORE

[enki2]

[shadedlines]

Good Omens

coloured pencil drawings

Reposting a couple of old pieces from the archive

[notactuallyatreefrog]

never before has a pairing been quite so "no children" by the mountain goats-coded until niall & ruben. jesus christ.

[buffyfknlo]

Communication is key

[tannisroute]

isn't it crazy that a woman being gender nonconforming literally just requires her to exist in her own body without making any changes whatsoever. why does the fact that i don't wear makeup and i don't shave and i don't wear a bra have to be some political act. why can't i just fucking exist

[diphowell]

Dan and Phil: Tomodachi (real) Life

[natnormalatall]

roald dahl was antisemitic and misogynistic. george orwell was openly homophobic. edgar allan poe married his 13 year old cousin. dr seuss cheated on his wife (and was racist as well as antisemitic!). hp lovecraft was racist as fuck. anyways they’re fucking dead it’s not like you’re enabling their behaviors in the afterlife or something. then again I think they bleed into the books so uh keep an eye out for that

the difference between these old white guys and jk rowling is that the former group is all dead. jk rowling is alive and using your money to oppress trans people

[mastergeckotattoo]

imagine being an angel and realizing the most beautiful thing in creation is sitting next to you complaining about nebulae

[f-slur]

richard gadd and the pink multicolor ballpoint pen he used to annotate his scripts while shooting half man

[wulfhalls]

[sunchildsatoru]

alternative title dnp experience the queer joy of third wheeling dnp

[gardenxkisses]

[vandrividia]

I know Richard Gadd said Maura damages Ruben by excusing his behaviour but I don’t think that’s all it is

I think Maura knew her husband was raping their kid and did absolutely nothing to protect him until she met Lori bc she didn’t want to leave and be alone. She’s only able to leave once she has someone else and I think the guilt from that is what makes her excuse every act of violence Ruben ever commits.