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X-Files Season 6 behind the scenes
they make the best aliens because little girls are fucking bizarre, nobody else can match that energy
In an interview he said that the boys always ended up breaking their costumes bc they would fight each other, but the girls Got. Into. Character. and were amazing creepy little aliens.
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thank you google
this is so cute, laios is such a good brother
I saw an otter briefly hop on top of a babirusa at the zoo and when the stranger standing next to me heard my camera shutter click he turned to me with this look of immense relief, put his hand to his chest, and said in a dead serious tone “oh thank christ someone caught that on film”
Not the best photo but here it is for posterity
I wanted to draw them
the other thing about Internet dogpiling is that it is just not possible to think clearly during the acute stages. it’s so easy to criticize people for responding defensively or tactlessly to mass criticism but I cannot overstate the degree to which your brain becomes a rat in a trap. I think we do have to temporarily recalibrate our expectations in these circumstances and accept that they do not necessarily represent how that person responds to criticism. the skills for self-regulating and reacting to normal interpersonal criticism are not the same skills needed to respond to viral callouts.
12 years on and still the best articulation ever made of how one should respond to useless critiques
You're a really annoying soulslike monster. How do you lurk?
I perch like a gargoyle on some high vantage, glowering down at the world
I submerge myself in noisome muck with only my eyes poking above the surface
I wait behind a trap door or breakable wall, then burst out like BLAAARG
I look exactly like a pile of trash, debris, and/or bones until I stand up
I dwell in a deep and narrow hole and bite you when you try to look inside
I snipe you at range from a direction you wouldn't intuitively think to look
I come flying in from outside the camera's draw distance at Mach Fuck
I resemble some harmless environmental feature, forcing you to smash them all
I go invisible under certain conditions; can't go wrong with the classics!
I don't "lurk", as such, I just have a really bullshit spawn trigger
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The Girls II (2016) by Australian artist Eva Hannah
there's this weird thing people fall into online a lot, where people assume that if the [perceived-to-be-inferior] version of [activity] is discouraged then people will, naturally, do [perceived-to-be-superior] version of [activity] instead. When really it's just as (or more) likely that if [perceived-to-be-inferior] version of [activity] is discouraged people just won't do it at all.
audiobook listeners are not necessarily people who would otherwise do a lot of traditional reading if audiobooks did not exist, many are people who simply would experience zero books. Booktok romance readers would not necessarily be reading the classics if booktok did not exist, many of them would simply not read. Fanfiction writers would not necessarily be novelists if fanfic wasn't an option, many would just be people who didn't write. You know?
Helen Whitaker, England
" Sycamore Seed "
Glass , copper and brass
armand is so funny because he really said "after my situationship with lestat i spent 150 years being afraid to love again... until he came into my life.. lestat's ex husband..."
Maybe lean out
No. I know this is probably just a casual commiseration but I think it's a real and important question to ask and answer. If doing the stuff you're expected to do everyday is super hard, then something is probably wrong.
Anyone who relates to this too hard, I'd recommend looking up spoon theory and starting to make a record of how you feel and your experiences that you can bring up with some kind of health professional. Chances are if doing laundry feels like climbing everest, it's because you're disabled in some way. Whether that disability is some invisible chronic illness or depression or ADHD or burnout, *something* is wrong.
Almost all disabilities have some form of treatment or accommodation that can make your life easier. If you can get a diagnosis, you might also be eligible for official accommodations and benefits. Social security sucks ass and is almost impossible to access but like, it's not the only thing out there set up to help disabled folks and usually local organizations are gonna be better anyway.
Plenty of people reblogging this probably already know they're disabled in some way but if even 1 person sees this and can learn something important about themselves then it's worth saying.
TLDR: people who aren't disabled don't find acts of daily living extremely hard. Maybe look into that and see if you can get help making your life less hard.
Sincerely, a multiply disabled person.
This is super important okay. Like, I used to try to ask my conservative family/church/etc. for help, and they’d just be all, “suck it up; life is hard for everyone; quit being such a baby”... and then I went to, like, actual experts, and they were basically like, “um, wow, you’re clearly super depressed and suicidal; you should actually be proud of yourself for still being alive!” And I’m still trying to unlearn the former and accept the latter, even after all this time. And I’m so mad that I’ve wasted so much time just trying to “push through it” instead of getting help I clearly need(ed), and that’s still a thing I struggle with.
Please, please seek real help if you need it. Like, I understand that there are shitty doctors and shitty therapists and whatnot, but it’s so worth expending what effort you can to find good ones who can help. If you have mentally ill friends -- which, if you’re reading this in the first place, you almost certainly do -- they might be able to point you in the right direction.
[ID: a screenshot from the Too Afraid to Ask reddit that reads: "How do people just so stuff? Is life not incredibly hard for everyone?" /end ID]
I have a friend with insane ADD and we have this same conversation sometimes
She can't actually even define laziness (which is weird) but she thought she was just lazy, life was that hard for everyone, and that everyone else was just being more responsible at managing it. I told her laziness feels good once and she blue screened.
Like if you can't define laziness, you've probably been convinced it's something that it's not. Probably something nebulous and hard to describe. Like, idk, an unknown disorder.
In case you're one such person, laziness feels great. It's not stressful. It's like the opposite of stressful. If you're being stressed and lazy at the same time you've managed to do it wrong somehow. The only struggle in being lazy is wanting the tv remote and being to darn comfortable to want to move. (But you get it anyways, because it's not an inability to get the remote. You were just cozy.)
Think of it like a cat sitting near a warm heater or a hamster so relaxed it "melts". If there were danger, or if the animal were hungry, it would get up. It probably doesn't want to get up because it's comfortable but it will. If the hamster is actually genuinely hungry but it can't get up and it's just laying there stressed and starving, you would take your animal to the vet because it has a problem.
That’s how it was for me growing up, too. I seriously thought everyone was constantly exhausted, confused, and in pain like I was and I was just really, really bad at dealing with it, didn’t want to try hard enough, and was just lazy.
Additional gentle reminder that the regular amount of unidentifiable/unexpected pain is none. The normal amount of unidentifiable/unexpected pain is none.
Sore the next day after a workout? Makes sense.
Sore for the next week after a workout? Not normal.
Barked your shin on a low coffee table and have an ache/bruise? Expected.
Gently brushed past the doorframe and your arm feels like it's on fire? Not normal.
Joint pain in your teens/20's is not normal. Heart problems in your teens/20's are not normal. Continual (AKA chronic!) fatigue despite diet/sleep schedule is not normal.
If you cannot point to an event or series of events that caused the discomfort/pain you are experiencing ("I fell off my bike", "I walked 3 miles", "I slept poorly", "I haven't been getting all the nutrients I need"), it's probably not normal! And it is okay to want that discomfort/pain to stop, even if it's mild! Most people are not going through their daily lives consistently uncomfortable or in pain.
Most people are not going through their daily lives uncomfortable or in pain.
You deserve to be comfortable and to have things be easy. Whether that looks like readjusting your life and expectations or getting professional help (medical/mental/other), you deserve it. I promise.
by Brian Hager
who are your favorite dragons
definitive and ontologically correct dragon ranking:
28. Vermithor- as with any list about the Targaryens, anything related to Jaehaerys goes last. I hate him. I hate that this dragon is misogynistic.
27. Meraxes- LOSERRRRRR GET DORNE’D
26. Taraxes- literally who.
25. Arrax- I kind of have nothing to say except for that I guess feeding Vhagar counts as doing something useful for the community
24. Morning- pink. 💖🌸🏳️⚧️🌷🩰If fire and blood were good, we would have some really awesome commentary on how the last dragon left is seen as purely ornamental and pretty and abstractly symbolic like how women and girls are in feudal society, especially after the dance like look at daenaera. But no.
23. Grey Ghost- hardly knew you but you were shy and wild.
22. Meleys- this one loses points with me because I always spell it wrong. I always think it’s Maelys and have been pronouncing it French. She also did dragon 9/11 on the show which was from a narrative perspective kind of stupid and you know, from an ethical perspective, never forget.
21. Shrykos- killed during the revolution. historically progressive death
20. Quicksilver- good name for a dragon. It’s a shame someone crashed this sports car into a lake.
19. Syrax- kind of a nothingburger I fear. Rhaenyra needed a cooler dragon Syrax doesn’t look super cute or do a lot.
18. Stormcloud- poor little guy
17. Viserion- I like that he has the personality of a baby more than the other two it’s cute
16. Drogon- prototypical dragon, even if he has a stupid name. Mommy’s favorite child.
15. Rhaegal- it wasn’t nice when he killed Quentyn but I understand him.
14. Morghul- theeee concept of a toddler girl being like my dragon is named death god :) is precious to me. I wish Jaehaera had lived.
13. Seasmoke- gay and boring. like me
12. Vermax- it was really upsetting when he slowly drowned on my television :(
11. Silverwing- i’m not gonna lie I kind of forgot she survived the Dance. I really hope that she left some eggs in the nightfort for someone to find at a pivotal moment. I think that would be awesome. And I really like Ulf right now. Maybe she will fly him to get an ale with the lads.
10. Moondancer- only real mission being a 16-year-old girl escaping being grounded and immediately deciding to become a suicide bomber is commendable.
9. Tessarion- pretty blue dragon. a southern belle.
8. The Last Dragon- tragic and poetic and born wrong.
7. The Cannibal- I like that this one’s just the symbolism dragon running around and I also really like that no one ever claimed her but she DID come up to salute Corlys Velaryon at his funeral.
6. Dreamfyre- Most useful as an uber to various lesbian hookups which was really important of her to do.
5. Balerion- kind of a nothingburger when he was Aegon’s, but an everything bagel as Maegor, Aerea, and Viserys’ dragon. Unknowable force of destruction that longs to return to a home he can never see again
4. Sunfyre- sparkly and gold AND a real cockroach of a lizard he REFUSES to die EVER Sunfyre PRETTY Sunfyre YOUNGER AND MORE BEAUTIFUL Sunfyre UNBEATABLE
3. Sheepstealer- I am endeared. Was legit upset when all the purebred private school dragons ganged up on her on house of the dragon
2. Vhagar- MAMA
1. Caraxes- I love his noodly body and fucked up song because he has a deviated septum that makes the other dragons not like him. What has Caraxes beat out Vhagar for me is that in Fire and Blood she transitions for the battle of the God’s Eye they hard switch to she/her pronouns with zero explanation and it is so epic.
