Ask me about polyamory, kink, magick or solarpunk.
31 yrs old ~ they ~ Call me Vic or Verdant if you please. Solarpunk Witch who's also a Chaos Magician. Primarily here to be horny, look at nature, and play flondon, but anything could come up.
Hoarder of vivid green, stims, toe socks, crochet yarn, shiny rocks n silicone🐓s nsft context next
I love the concept of someone teaching you how to fuck. how to kiss, what it feels like to have someone else’s hands on you, someone else’s tongue. all under the guise of them being helpful, sweet to you, so you’re not nervous for when it ‘really’ happens. only for them to make sure they’re the only ones who ever get to see you that way
Offered my pup the birthday treat of a free use night. Get Daddy's friends to visit and over stuff it's holes until pup passes out from pleasure. Plenty of logistics and a guest list to organise. Love watching pup squirm with excited embarrassment
Fun question! Different definitions abound.
To me, Garden Party Polyamoury prioritises collective ease, enjoyment and openness. I've found it be the spacious, choiceful and easeful version of Kitchen Table Polyam (KTP). Garden Party Polyam is about being open to connecting with metamours, in ways that flow for everyone's enjoyment. It could be playing games and having breakfast around the same table, it could be sharing events or hobbies. It could be only sharing time while the hinge partner is present, or it could be metamours kicking it off and having a grand ol' party while their partner is elsewhere (any of which could also be true of KTP). The point is - in GPP everyone gets to do what they want, with consideration the experience of the other party attendees, without having to set stringent rules to make that happen. Be a good guest, be a kind host, reach towards others with friendship and trust in the best intent.
I orient towards Garden Party Polyamoury because I've had experiences of KTP where metamour's anxiety was leveraged to set rules and secure control. I find rules tend to suck. Changing behaviour for someone elses anxiety generally positively reinforces the anxiety - oh, being loud about being anxious meant I didn't have to deal with the uncomfortable thing, guess I can repeat that infinitum. Other people have had better KTP experiences and still like the term.
Some people have apparently interpreted GPP to mean only cross over with metamours at events and being parallel otherwise??? To which I ask, why are you partying with people you don't want to hang out with otherwise?
GPP gives me a sense of freedom and agency to maneuver and partake in the vibes I enjoy. If the music is too loud in one part of the garden, I can float over to a different portion. The second that I "must" sit at the kitchen table, share a calendar, or report in my time balances and new dates, I'm out. I have persistent desire for autonomy, and my experiences of KTP didn't fit. I hold emotional space professionally and am resistant to offering that to new ppl in my life. I'm Garden Party Polyam cause I'm committed to offering a good vibe, and I wanna share life with people who are far enough along with non-monogamy that they're ready to party too.
"There's no thought crimes and no thought heroisms" is honestly such a good piece of life advice.
You could be having the most fucked up problematic thoughts 24/7 but if you treat people with kindness, the good you do is the only thing that matters. But if you have only the purest thoughts and all the correct beliefs, it doesn't matter one bit if you spend most of your time being an asshole to people.
Catch me being a modern-day cyberpirate screaming up alongside you on the 405 in my mad max car with half a bitcoin farm's worth of RAM in the backseat as I hack your Bitchless Towyota™ device and steal the boat you're towing right off the back bumper of the tesla your dad bought you
As i roar into the sunset you have to swerve* to avoid the small flotilla of hacked Towyota devices trailing behind me
(*in fact you do not swerve because you're on hands-free driving to go along with your hitch-free towing so you can only watch helplessly as your tesla mistakes your stolen booty for a small child and accelerates crashing into it and killing you instantly)
The funny thing about running a small kink blog is that the longer you do it the more you realize you are engaging in an art form, and this, like all arts, leads you to have a deep respect for those who are really masters of the medium. Hornyposts made for the benefit of others are much like writing, say, a tragedy for the benefit of others. You're looking to stir up a specific emotion in your reader, and people who are able to do that really well are masters of their medium. So even though I never post on here, and there are one or two people who actually follow this blog at best, I thought I'd shout out a few people who I think are really good at this whole "being horny on Tumblr as a public spectacle" thing.
Now, my favorite and personal inspiration, unfortunately, has deactivated, but shout out to Ms. Natalie Sapphicwork, @saphiccwork, she was truly wonderful at this.
@pokeballvictimized doesn't post longform hornyposts often, but when she does, they're always a treat. Unfortunately, Tumblr staff killed the poor girl for being transfem a while back, and I don't believe a lot of her better stuff was archived, so there aren't too many still kicking around. Warning for sexualization of pokemon and CNC posts. Though she and I generally post from opposite sides of the dom-sub spectrum, I know she's brilliant at this medium from the near fanatical devotion she sometimes gets in her tags.
And, last on this list for now, @ace-trainer-alice, is absolutely lovely, and if you haven't heard of her, I would recommend looking through her posts to see if that appeals to you. Much of what she's into and posts about is the kind of thing I very much am not into, but that doesn't mean I respect her as an artist any less.
Humans should cuddle pile. It’s actually CRAZY that we don’t cuddle in groups for warmth or comfort like so many other species do. What do you MEAN sleeping together is only for monogamous sexual couples?? We’re biologically coded to DIE in infancy if we aren’t held. We need to be held more. This is so stupid.
Poly joy is sending my nesting partner off for a day to see their other partner when they haven't been able to have a full day together in months! They deserve it so much <3
It's been a while since I posted a poll and we have way more followers now, so it's poll time!!! This is actually a repeat of a poll I posted previously, but now with a larger sample size.
If you're non-monogamous, what best describes your relationship style?
[Image text: two tweets from orville perker @ literate_coyote. the first says “stone butch blues does not end with jess figuring out where exactly they fit between “butch lesbian” and “trans masc” but ends with them becoming a communist. organized labor and revolutionary politics is what saved them, not figuring out a specific identity. this is important.”
The second tweet says, “the book isn’t really about figuring out where you fit in this huge spectrum of labels (esp micro identities) but to find solidarity with workers like yourself, to organize along lines of shared needs like workplace safety or healthcare, because that’s how we get liberation.” End Text.]
Leslie Feinberg worked up to a few days before hir death to make sure hir groundbreaking book was available to all, for free. Never ever pay a dirtbag who charges a fortune for some rare old copy. Download this book for free or buy a print copy for dirt cheap. It’s what Leslie wants.
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