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whoever wrote the vill-v theme needs their ass ate
it’s that time of the year again where i have a full on mental breakdown because i’m literally going no where in life and i find myself being able to relate to my friends less and less
The MP went on to call abortion in Canada the "greatest human rights tragedy of our time."
A Member of Parliament from rural Alberta went live on Facebook Friday to celebrate a United States Supreme Court vote to end constitutional protections for abortion.
Friday’s overturning of Roe v. Wade is expected to lead to abortion bans in roughly half of American states.
Arnold Viersen, who represents Peace River-Westlock for the Conservative Party of Canada, titled his video “History in the making!”
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fuck arnold viersen
forever thinking about the time in chem class where i was lab partners with a girl who had a 95% average and i fucked up an assignment and got a 60% for the both of us.
like i felt bad and the teacher said that if your partner didn’t do their work you could talk to him about it but then this girl comes up to me and asks me to talk to the teacher about it????
no fucking way
you know it’s bad when you get excited over the fact that other people actually know who you are
i’m going to a different uni than all of my friends and i was kinda sad about that but…. now i’m kinda happy about it???? like nothing happened but for some reason i’m excited about not seeing them on a regular basis anymore???
gameshow called 'pride or prejudice' in which the contestants are presented with a gay joke and have to guess if it was made by a queer person or a homophobe
the contestants are all vaguely liberal straight people who are desperately uncomfortable with the entire concept
anyways can we start recognizing adhd as an actual and serious disorder that
can affect on functioning in every day life so badly that it interferes with taking care of very basic human needs
is not 10 yrs old white boy exclusive disorder
is not a fake disorder created to benefit medicine companies
definitely should not be reduced to “kid who cant sit still and wont stop screaming” stereotypes because adhd has a whole fuckton of symptoms ranging from serious memory issues to fine motor control difficulties
ADHD is:
One of the most treatable “psychiatric” disorders (although it’s more accurately a neurodevelopmental disorder), with approximately 90% of patients able to find a treatment regimen that works well for them, given appropriate medical support. ADHD stimulant medications in particular (Ritalin and Adderall and their variations) are some of the most effective psychiatric medications in existence.
Contrary to popular opinion, extremely under diagnosed overall, particularly in populations that are not young white boys (women, adults, people of color, etc.)
So there are a LOT of people out there who could be helped by getting a diagnosis and treatment but are not, in part because of the negative stereotypes around ADHD and ADHD medication that are prevalent in pop culture.
Able to coexist with a number of other conditions or traits that may change its presentation and/or impact, including mental illnesses such as anxiety or depression and various learning disabilities but also giftedness/high intelligence.
In fact, in adults diagnosed for the first time, it is extremely common to have comorbidities, in large part because ADHD can be so hard to cope with.
Sleep disorders are also frequently comorbid with ADHD. Additionally, being poorly-rested makes ADHD symptoms worse, which makes you more likely to sleep badly. It’s a hellish merry-go-round.
In some cases, “twice exceptional” people (gifted + ADHD) have extra trouble getting appropriate support, because some ADHD symptoms can be masked by intelligence (for instance, if a child is bright enough to do their homework in the ten minutes between classes and master the test material by cramming the night before, they may never see the poor academic performance that might lead to testing), and because the symptoms of ADHD may also mask their giftedness - so they end up stuck in classes that are too easy for them, and therefore boring, which makes the ADHD symptoms worse. Also, people who know they are intelligent but have untreated ADHD can be really prone to some of the other psychological comorbidities, especially as they become adults, because they know what to do and how to do it and that they SHOULD do it, and they WANT to do it, but they still can’t make themselves actually do it, so they start to beat themselves up, thinking “I’m too smart to constantly be this stupid, I must just be really lazy, maybe I really DON’T care, maybe I’m just a terrible person.” Ask me how I know.
Can also have less-common symptoms associated with it. I actually had my hearing tested before my diagnosis because I had so much trouble following conversations if there was background noise. My hearing is fine: my issue is auditory processing. My brain just can’t focus on conversations if too much else is going on. (This also applies to following dialogue on television if there is a lot of background noise/music. I use the captions a lot.
In some cases, extremely disabling. Under the Americans With Disabilities Act, a disability is “a physical or mental impairment that substantially limits one or more major life activity.” A sampling of major life activities that might be substantially limited by untreated ADHD includes:
Managing finances (largely through impulsive spending, frequent lost items that need replacing, forgetting to pay bills, forgetting to do routine maintenance and having issues like larger repairs needed)
Basic self-care (remembering to take meds, go to doctor appointments, eat and drink at appropriate times, go to bed at appropriate times)
Employment (difficulty being on time for work or work activities, difficulty meeting deadlines, propensity to make “careless errors”, difficulty with emotional regulation)
Interpersonal relationships (memory problems so you never remember important dates, time issues meaning you’re late meeting them, forgetting commitments, easily distracted during conversations, impulsivity leading to interruptions/saying or doing stuff you didn’t think through, difficulty responding appropriately to social cues (through distraction/impulsivity), difficulty with emotional regulation)
Maintaining a clean and sanitary home (forgets steps in household chores, distracted away from finishing them, loses key equipment, impulsive purchases clutter up the home, loses interest in projects and leaves them out half-done)
If untreated, linked to higher rates of all manner of negative outcomes when compared to similar neurotypical populations, including:
unemployment
divorce
substance abuse
injury or death in accidents, especially car accidents
arrest
None of this is because people with ADHD as a group are, like, bad or lazy or evil or irresponsible or don’t care. People with ADHD are just people, and exist on the same range of good, bad, and in-between that all people do. However, the parts of our brains that are meant to help us regulate our emotions, plan for the future, remember to do important things, and not act on every impulse that crosses our minds just don’t work properly. A lot of us might lean in to an airhead, spacy artistic type, class clown, or similar persona to mask our deep shame over not being able to “just” do all these basic things that other people seem to do with no trouble at all.
Additionally, even accessing ADHD treatment can be extremely challenging, because stimulant medications are controlled substances and there are so many false and damaging perceptions about the condition and medications out there. And even when you have a well-established diagnosis and are well controlled on a medication you’ve taken for years, you are never far away from potential disruptions to your treatment. I personally am a white professional with good health insurance and was able to get diagnosed and medication prescribed - which in itself is often really difficult - but even from that position of privilege I have experienced multiple gaps in my treatment for reasons like:
My pharmacy lost a prescription and had to get a new one. (My medication cannot be refilled; each month has to be a brand new prescription.)
My pharmacy was out of stock of my medication (I can’t transfer that prescription to a different pharmacy, and even if I had a paper prescription, you can’t call a pharmacy and be told the medication is in stock, you have to physically go there and ask.)
I forgot to make a doctor appointment in time (I have to have a doctor visit every three months to continue to get the prescription.)
I forgot to fill the prescription (since I, you know, HAVE ADHD, and you can’t set them up to auto-renew like you can other meds.)
My prescription is really expensive and there aren’t many savings options because it’s a controlled medication. (Even with savings I pay over $100 out of pocket for my ADHD meds every month. If the manufacturer isn’t offering a coupon that month it’s close to $300.)
Again, this is a LEGAL medication that I am LEGALLY prescribed by my supportive doctor with consultation from my supportive psychologist, for my actual disabling medical condition, and which all parties involved agree is extremely effective in helping me manage said condition. I’m in about the best situation you can be in short of being a millionaire who doesn’t have to worry about things like preapprovals or copays or taking sick time from work.
I’ve also heard from others who have had to change doctors due to moving, job or insurance changes, etc., only to get issues like:
medical practices that flatly refuse to prescribe any controlled medications at all.
medical practices that don’t deal with ADHD specifically at all.
doctors that “don’t believe in” medicating adults/women/people with good jobs/people with good grades/anyone for ADHD.
doctors that won’t accept existing diagnoses or treatment plans.
ADHD is a treatable and manageable condition, but it isn’t a joke, it isn’t “made up,” we aren’t “all a little ADHD these days anyway”. It’s a complex and wide-ranging condition that can impact nearly every part of your life in serious and possibly very damaging ways.
Hold on I need to schedule an appointment
OP you could’ve gone to my house and punched me in the face
Wait, sleep disorders, too?!
There’s a reason the joke goes “five out of 100 people have ADHD. One’s diagnosed, one’s getting by, one’s depressed, one’s an addict and one’s in jail”.
Seriously though, I quit binge drinking cold the week that I got properly medicated for ADHD. If you have substance use issues, gambling (including loot boxes etc), or other significant behavioural addictions, and you recognise the things described here as problems in your life, for the love of god please go get tested. Even just take a look at the Brown Adult ADD Self-Report Scale and see if it reads like a callout post.
Hey this is an amazing post.
My number one thing about receiving a diagnosis is DON’T WAIT and actively fight for it. A diagnosis for ADHD is a privilege and I’ll be posting my post for getting a dx n treatment sometime soon.
ADHD is so underdiagnosed and goes untreated. You deserve the right to treatment for this. You deserve accomodations and medication for this. Don’t doubt yourself and don’t let your symptoms get unnoticed any longer.
Most people who have found out that they have ADHD is past childhood. You are not alone in feeling this way. You are ALLOWED AND SHOULD self dx if you relate to the symptoms of ADHD. Because for some of us, self dx is the only option and self dx is the first step for getting further treatment.
love how tumblr staff has time to censor words like “paint mixing” and “my face” and yet they can’t get rid of ssexsophie8127 thats been liking my posts from 2017
“only karens ask for refunds” is pro-corporation propaganda. if they don’t give me what i want they’re giving me my money back and that doesn’t make me an angry middle-aged karen harpy, you’re just cucked by stupid reddit memes
Really though, remember the woman who sued McDonald’s because their coffee was hot and everyone took the piss out of her and a bunch of other people who sued corporations for a “silly” reason and then it turned out most of them were right and entirely harmed by the company and they were just turned into a joke by the company propaganda machine?
Imo the current obsession with mocking anyone who asks for a refund, returns something or god forbid wants to talk to a manager is just the second version of this. Companies will cut corners wherever they can and mock you when you complain.
Yesterday my pizza order got to me cold and missing my soda. When I asked about both from the driver he said he couldn’t go back for the 2L because he was technically a door dash driver. I called the store and it turns out when they’re slammed (which they had been), they get door dash drivers to help with delivery to help them catch up.
So I spoke to the manager, assured her that I wasn’t angry, just kind of frustrated - part of why the pizza was cold was that door dash drivers don’t have the heat retaining delivery bags the actual delivery employees of the pizza place get, and because he wasn’t an employee of the pizza place the driver wouldn’t be going back to the pizza place and couldn’t get my soda.
And the manager said she’d get her first driver going in my direction to bring by the soda, and offered to give me a credit for the pizza being cold, and we pleasantly ended the conversation.
Because it’s okay to say “hey, this isn’t what I was told I’d be getting”, you just have to be polite and reasonable about it.
This. Vast difference between “having a problem and politely but firmly expecting that they provide what’s been paid for” and “abusing some underpaid customer-facing employee who is neither at fault for the situation or able to fix it.”
Picture this, you're stressed out because Covid and climate change finds you out of a job and now you can't pay for dental work so as you listen to the hold music to the dental clinic to cancel your wisdom teeth surgery you log into tumblr to calm your nerves only to be greeted by a Destiel meme informing you that the word flashing is banned and you realise fellow tumblr uses can't use a warning for post that could trigger your epilepsy. Imagine this, you're now afraid and there's nothing you can do, no tag to filter out, no warning to safe you.
unfortunately, due to several experiences in my youth, i cannot just “walk up and join the circle of people talking”, but it does sound lovely thank you
“go ahead and mingle” are four of the scariest words in the english language thank you and goodnight
Hey guys, I can't fucking believe I have to say this again, but apparently I saw this shit on my feed reblogged by a neurodivergent person who reblogged it from a system blog.
Don't fucking interact and just please fucking block me if you do this shit.
If you're panphobic. Especially if you identify as bisexual. It's not the fucking bi umbrella, it's the multispec or multi attracted spectrum. I'm bisexual and I'm sick of this shit being said that "bi is regardless of gender", "bi is all genders", I know what fucking bi is and you can identify however the fuck you want. Just don't shit on other multi-attracted identities, I swear to fuck please choke if you think bisexuality is above all other shit. You're just panphobic, please shut the fuck up.
If you're anti-sex, anti-kink, kink critical, sex critical. Literally this is just "all men are predatory bullshit", that anyone who is sex positive is a pedophile. Well guess fucking what, dipshit!! Most people who are into kink, hypersexual, etc. ARE QUEER AND TRAUMATIZED, OFTEN AFAB PEOPLE YOU DIPSHIT. Being anti-sex on a "morality" bullshit thing is literally just homophobic and some cult ass bullshit. Who gives a shit if you don't like a daddy kink, who cares if you dislike furry porn, you can literally blacklist and block. Also, cnc and shit is literally something that a fuck ton of traumatized people are into. You're free to unfollow and block, just get your shit that "all kinksters are pedophiles" out of my fucking face.
On the other side, if you're fucking acephobic or anti any greyspec identity. You're just fucking stupid and idiotic and ignorant. Kiss my fucking ass because people do not have to fucking cater to you. Fucking suck my dick. Aro, ace and greyspec ppl deserve a place in the queer community and if you don't like it, you can be hit by the door on your way out of here.
If you're anti trans in any sort of way. Transfeminine people don't owe you shit, amab people aren't fucking predators invading spaces and it's fucking dumb to think that. Transmasculine don't owe you shit and aren't fucking betraying you or any fucking lesbian because it's not fucking about you. Nonbinary people don't fucking owe you shit, we don't have to present to you in a way that's palatable or simple. We're fucking people, all trans and genderqueer and gender nonconforming people, we don't owe you shit.
Also if you're fucking transmedicalist, get your head out of your ass, binary trans people aren't the only fucking people who exist. Kiss my ass, bootlickers.
If you're ableist towards personality disorders. Why the fuck you here? Stay the fuck away from me. Narcissistic abuse my ass, it's just regular abuse. People with personality disorders don't owe you shit. Fuck you for saying they're evil, your mindset is evil and fucked up.
Just straight up misandry. If you hate men, you hate part of me. You hate women of colour, you hate other people of colour, you hate gnc women, you hate trans men, you hate disabled men, you're just a dick and a half. I shouldn't have to explain that you can criticize misogyny and hate the systematic oppression of women without hating masculine people, masculine traits or anyone you deem as masculine. Gender essentialism is a plague to existence.
And maybe I'll add fucking more if I fucking feel like it.
I hope TERFs fucking choke. And anyone who is doing this bullshit.
You can be educated, you can see the error in your ways. But don't fucking talk to me, don't touch my posts if you think any of this is okay.
Oh here's another!
Get the fuck off my blog if you think neopronouns, xenogenders, neurogenders or microlabels are transphobic! Go fuck yourself with a rusty spoon! I identify with a neurogender, I like microlabels, I use microlabels! It's not your fucking business or problem if someone uses or identifies with them. Thanks!
im barely even 10 minutes in and im already crying wtf
Oh so he’s doing eugenics now
elon musk reinvents the lobotomy
Babe wake up, lobotomy 2 just dropped
Give me a gun and Autism will solve Elon Musk