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diversity quota lesbian side character

[dykewillhunting-deactivated2025]

real

[pinkribbonradical]

my heart breaks for her and all the unhoused women. men do not see women as humans.

repost from r / blatantmisogny

not my screenshots!

[bootyjuice420]

what the fuck

[cuntaloupes-deactivated20241215]

Abusive men pave the way for lazy men to get wives and girlfirends.

[cuntaloupes-deactivated20241215]

Lemme clarify, how many times have you heard your overworked female friends and relatives say “Yeah, Jerry drinks beer every evening after work while I cook dinner and clean up after everyone and does the bare minimum to help me raise the kids but he’s such a nice guy. He’s never beat me in my life. I couldn’t ask for a better guy in my life.”

Like no, Sally, your husband is a common stone among turds and you know it.

[biggestniq]

I try to explain this conceptually to people as a thing that happens not saying that this is good but it’s a thing that happens.

[wedgemccloud]

This is what male privilege is and how all men benefit from it.

This is why you are not exempt from statements about “all men” even if you are overall good.

You benefit from the bar constantly being lowered by systemic issues within the gender.

The expectations on you are always lower than they should because “at least you’re not X”.

[musingsofatiredmind]

That…is the best response I’ve seen to the “not all men” thing. Thank you.

[sprinkledsalt]

Yeah, this post reminded me of this bit from a talk by Lundy Bancroft

[liesmyth]

#if you’ve never worked with older people you can’t realise how many women are just living like this#they work all week and then go home and do nothing except cook and clean and that’s fine with them#their husband does fuck all and if they get really drunk at the office Christmas party they’ll tell you how much they hate him#but most of the time he’s nice enough and the kids like him bc he’ll take them for ice cream so could you really do better @cloud-frost

[fandomsandfeminism]

What Happens When A Country Bans Spanking?

Researchers look at countries that have prohibited corporal punishment for kids and their rate of youth violence.

Now a new study looking at 400,000 youths from 88 countries around the world suggests such bans are making a difference in reducing youth violence. It marks the first systematic assessment of whether an association exists between a ban on corporal punishment and the frequency in which adolescents get into fights. 

[puolikarhu]

[F]or both boys and girls, [prof. Elizabeth Gershoff] said, “We found [spanking] linked to more aggression, more delinquent behavior, more mental health problems, worse relationships with parents, and putting the children at higher risk for physical abuse from their parents.”

“People often ask: Why didn’t you look for positive aspects?” she continued. “My answer is: We did, and there were none. We see consistently that the more children are spanked, the more behavioral problems they have in the years ahead.”

[quasi-normalcy]

Once again worth emphasizing that this is pretty much the exact opposite of what authoritarians said would happen

[moniquill]

This is an important study in the same way that many ‘water is wet’ studies are; it provides hard data that can be referred back to.

But yeah, startlingly enough if you don’t use violence to control children, they’re less likely to try to use violence to control others.

[phantomrose96]

You can be talking to someone and she'll be like, "Oh I made a silly mistake. Women don't deserve voting rights teehee." And you'll be like, "What." And she'll be like, "Oh I'm sorry! That must sound so bad out of context. No it's this Tiktok meme where, if you're a girl and you do something dumb, you say 'Women don't deserve voting rights teehee.'"

And you'll be like, "That sounds bad." And she'll be like, "No no. It's totally not that bad. It's just a meme. Men say it too. Like if a man does something silly he'll be like, 'I am like those women who do not deserve to vote.'" And you'll be like, "Does that make it better?" And she'll be like, "Well there was one guy who tried to make 'Men shouldn't vote' a popular meme. But it never caught on and also he got yelled at a lot."

And then you drop it there because like, you're harshing the vibe.

[friendlymathematician]

[barbievspredator]

I'm convinced, 100% sure trends like this are engineered to make women believe in two things: That we, as sex, are incapable and stupid, that we don't need (and deserve) rights. And most importantly, it is a psyop to make dissolution of our hard fought rights as a fun thing that's actually good for us.

[fucking-vanishing-7777]

Female leaders face a harsher reality—new study highlights alarming risks

Women in politics face higher risks of violence, with female mayors in Italy three times more likely to be attacked than men. This disparity

Female leaders face a harsher reality—new study highlights alarming risks

Despite some progress, women remain seriously underrepresented in politics globally. As of 2023, women held only 26% of parliamentary seats and 15.8% of the positions as heads of state or government.

My new research with colleagues raises one possible factor in this representation that goes beyond discrimination in selection procedures. It is simply more dangerous for women to pursue careers in politics than men. They are far more likely to become targets of violence.

[prodigalwitch]

Heads up, American women. They are trying to take our vote.

The bill H.R.22 has been introduced and it is currently being fast-tracked. The Safeguard American Voter Eligibility Act will require you to register in person from now on and with proof of citizenship documentation. You will now be required to provide your Driver's License and your Passport or Birth Certificate. The gotcha here is that you cannot register to vote if the documentation doesn't match- so, for example, if your birth certificate has your maiden name but your driver's license shows a married name, you'll not be able to register to vote without jumping through additional hoops (as to be determined by each state).

This will add significant barriers to voting for women, especially married women, poor women, rural women, disabled women and WOC, as updating/acquiring this type of paperwork costs money and time and is more accessible in some areas than others. They are using anti-immigration sentiments as a smokescreen for this legislation. Make no mistake, the only people who will be affected by this are American citizens. Non-citizens can't vote anyway. This only affects people who were able to vote before.

The main barriers here that will primarily affect women, especially already marginalized women:

Name matching: women who are married/divorced or who have changed their name for any reason

In-person meeting: Poor people, elderly, disabled, rural, isolated/abused women, and women in

Requiring Driver's License: Poor people, elderly, disabled

In general, requiring poll workers/DMV staff to check extra documents on or before election day will have a significant impact on poor and marginalized communities that are understaffed/under-resourced to fulfill these requests.

TDLR; the gov is attempting to make it significantly more difficult to vote if you are not a rich, white male. Bill H.R.22 will add significant barriers to voting for women, especially marginalized women. Please contact your House Representative and tell them that this bill cannot pass.

[ayaahh00]

I still can’t get over how Chappell and Lady Gaga only talked about trans rights in their Grammy speeches without a single mention of women or the fact that our rights are being erased right now. Trump ordered women’s history removed from NASA and military websites, the CDC deleted critical women’s health data, the FDA erased diversity guidelines that ensured medical treatments were tested on women fairly, and the Department of Defense scrubbed content acknowledging women’s contributions. Yet they act like women are fine as if we’re not being erased in real time. So is it acceptable for women’s struggles to be erased and rights being stripped alongside racism being promoted while trans rights take center stage.

[radfemdiaries-deactivated202502]

"Women who falsely accuse men of rape should get the same punishment the man would have gotten!"

Soooooo... No jail time and overwhelming support from the public?

[thesinisterspinster]

Overwhelming concern for her future? That she made one tiny mistake and it shouldn't be held aginst her?

[girlfishes]

A dean of my university said something exactly like that about male rapists and he is still the dean. He called rapists “good people who made a mistake”.

If I kill a rapist would I be a “good person who made a mistake” or would I be put away for life?

[thesinisterspinster]

I mean it is interesting that they harp on women falsely reporting rape when that's how they they treat people accused of rape. I mean hell in a town near me this guy brutally murders his girlfriend but he gets more time for takeing her laptop than he got for takeing her life. Some times I wish we could take things into our own hands but every single time a woman or girl defends herself aginst rapist and traffickers she gets sentenced harshly and we have to beg for the sentance to be commuted. Men only make these excuses for other men.

[shesay-deactivated20250513]

You don't see many homeless women on the street because they're getting trafficked and raped. Hope that helps because u ppl are so dump with your “society cares more about women that's why the majority of the homeless are men” no it's because they're getting assaulted and pimped in motels that's why u don't see them.

[womendeservehumanity]

There has been so much push, especially in supposed leftist spaces, to liken radical feminism/feminists to incels/inceldom. And it actually makes me want to bash my head into a wall. I don’t know if you guys are aware but there was a mass shooting at a high school yesterday. And the perpetrator was a girl. And conservatives were instantly trying to leech onto her being apart of whatever group. Trans, lesbian, communist etc. she is a biological heterosexual female. A biological heterosexual female that was entrenched in alt right fascism who formed an entire identity around it. And her digital footprint shows that. Yet there’s “leftists” that are parading around a fake excerpt from her manifesto (shared by an anti feminist incel mind you) claiming she was a radfem man hater who wanted to exterminate men and have women rule the world. And also wanted to exterminate women who worshipped men. Meanwhile this is her

Because nothing says man hating radfem like reposting memes about an incel who targeted women in a mass shooting. And stanning male mass shooters. Everything about this girl indicates the real life consequences of these alt right cesspools that are being formed all across the internet infecting children with these ideologies. She literally posted a picture of herself holding a white power symbol in the bathroom right before committing the shooting. There’s so much conversation to be had about white supremacy and fascism. And how it’s dominating online spaces and indoctrinating young people who are living their lives in these echo chambers and becoming violent, apathetic individuals. But do leftists wanna talk about this?? Noooo they’d rather disparage radical feminism and grasp at straws to make this some male equivalent to incel related shootings.

I’m linking a report that was done on incel forums to really show you how ridiculous it is when these people try so desperately to associate radical feminism with inceldom. Or try to claim that redfems are “femcels” because what’s anti feminist rhetoric if not insinuating feminists are so angry at men because they need some dick 🤩

This was a very informative look into the incel community and their activities online. The things they say, promote, and enable. And yet so many people have the gall to in any way shape or form liken radfems or women who hate men to them. It actually makes me want to pull my hair out

Like you really think this, and the community that it’s amassed, is in any way comparable to women hating men as a response to men hating and oppressing women including from these very same men… That actually it’s because these women are ugly and can’t get a men and now they’re vindictive toward men (anti feminism rhetoric as old as time). Or even that it’s not really that they’re not like incels in the sense that they can’t get relationships/sex, but exhibit behavior anywhere near this depravity. Very unserious.

[ms-newvegas]

If you think the point of 4b is to punish men and not to support women living fulfilling and dignified lives on their terms free from misogyny….

[animentality]

[old-school-butch]

Morons think that women’s spaces exist because we are inferior, and not because WOMEN ARE HARASSED BY MEN SO CONSISTENTLY THAT WE NEED A BREAK just to exist in some peace a quiet once in a while.

[radish-lesbian]

Nobody is arguing that women are “biologically inferior” at any non-strength based games. However, it has been documented time and time again that women perform worse at cognitive games like chess and video games due to negative stereotypes around women doing these activities, which is exacerbated when 1. the performance is done immediately after questions about gender and sex are asked and 2. when they are competing against a member of a non-stereotyped class.

This is basic psychology. Your cognitive load increases and you are less likely to take risks when you feel you are in an inferior position. Taking risks and having a clear mind are essential to performing well in these games. Undermining women’s leagues that allow women to develop confidence in their skills in a protected group is going to cause mass amounts of them to give up as their performance spirals down. Every time you lose to a non-stereotyped class, this phenomenon grows stronger.

Also, the stereotype that trans women love chess and video games and computer programming is something that people within the community are proud of. They are coming in with a higher confidence level.

It’s ridiculous to undermine decades of work to promote equality in sports and games of all types.

[catgirl-critical]

I wasn't surprised at all learning about this data. I know it's anecdotal but I have first hand experience throughout my adolescence doing "worse" at activities like gaming when men are around vs when I'm alone or only with other women. Even then I usually held up decently well but it was still frustrating knowing I was never hitting my peak and seemed worse because of it :/

[vvvvvvvvvvvvv1-deactivated20260]

it has been well established forever that gaming spaces are extremely hostile to women. We deserve our own spaces. To act like it is insane ask or we are admitting we are inferior is cruel as fuck. Most women who play video games with others have faced gendered harassment. All the while we are denied acknowledgement it is a problem, blaming us, or calling us sensitive. And when we want our own leagues, people who say they’re progressive attack us. In relation to gaming specifically this pretending not to know the problem angers me so much.

[thesinisterspinster]

Right so the womens leages for vidya games exsist only because men harrasded women out of the now mens leagues. Its eyerolling honestly that transwomen insist on going into womens spaces and when a woman is uncomportable well then its time for violent sexisim.

[emtmercy]

I hate hate hate it when women in video games make sexual noises when they get hit or die in suggestive positions

like women can’t even die in a way that doesn’t exist to turn men on

how dare you sexualise female pain

[vaginismusandsexuality]

REBLOG AGAIN AND FOREVER BECAUSE RELEVANT FOREVER

[borderline-sunflower-deactivate]

What’ll fuck you up more is when you realize that some of those pain sounds are actually pretty accurate but we sexualize a lot of the noises women make when they’re in pain

Like idk how many times I pain moaned and put my head down in the high school cafeteria because I had cramps or didn’t feel well and one of my stupid as male friends made a sexual comment about the sound I just made. They did the same thing to the noises we made when they’d come up from behind and ‘tickle’ jab our sides. Basically any noise a woman makes can be interpreted as sexual, up to and including hysterical crying.

[rad-bad-and-dangerous-to-know]

This relates to porn. Women get hurt are in pain all the time and the directors and editors play it like she’s having the time of her life. Men who watch porn regularly are less adept at distinguishing noises of female pain from pleasure. Just another reason not to fuck a porn user.

[omnivore-odyssey]

👆🏽👆🏽👆🏽

[midnights-perch]

This!

An otherwise demonstrably compassionate male, once showed me a porn scene where the woman was getting hammered on a bare, wooden staircase. He pointed out her noises, saying she was absolutely loving it.

Would not believe me when I said they were very obviously sounds of pain.

Porn is evil man.

[forwomenbiwomen]

OH MY GOD this reminds me of a video circulating around a while ago that was this woman, playing on her kids toy, that went down a hill and whacked herself on her private parts and was obviously in pain.

When I tell you these men were CONVINCED and unrelenting. They were all in the comments raging about how she orgasmed in front of her child. FROM A HARD IMPACT ON HER COOCH. She was wincing in pain and they were disgusted, as if any woman ever has out of the blue (with no foreplay), orgasmed from a rough impact on very tender parts. She was obviously in pain and these men thought she was in ecstasy.

What does that tell you about the type of sex/masterbation they’re having?

[a-room-of-my-own]

And then they’re wondering why there’s a demography crisis.

[mademoiselle-crabaletta]

Once you start noticing the passive voice being used for men's actions, you can't unsee it. In history class it was always "women weren't seen as equal human beings" or "women weren't able to own property or have jobs or get education" rather than men legally considered women their property and banned them from work, school, and property rights.

In the news it's always "girl raped in park" or "woman killed in home" which would make some sense if the perpetrator was unknown, but they often have already caught the culprit by the time the article comes out and it's always a man.

The amount of times I've seen a headline about a man murdering his entire family before killing himself being titled "man commits suicide after family is killed" with a nice little family photo of them is absolutely absurd.

Hell, just last night I saw an article titled, "3 kids killed after mom let ex-partner take them to get food." Her male ex took the kids to get food and murdered them before killing himself. Not only is the headline passive, but it also phrases it in a way that makes the mother somehow look guilty like she knew what he had planned or knew he was insane.

To top it off, people get really uncomfortable if you stop using the passive voice for this stuff. They start squirming if you straight up say "men wrote laws banning women from voting" even when that is literally what happened. BOTH men and women act this way. It's like we're all just supposed to pretend that rape, enslavement, murder, and other human rights violations against women just fell from the sky.

[radfemsiren]

Just a reminder that any religions preaching about forgiveness, mercy, gods light… read the terms and conditions! That shit doesn’t apply to women :

When people tried to defend her:

Christian men love salvation for their sins, they’ll even absolve pedophiles and rapists, but the second an onlyfans girl shows up for redemption, their true nature is revealed.

Im not even being hyperbolic, there’s been multiple instances this last year of onlyfans models trying to rebrand and join the Jesus freak crowd, and Christian men lost their fucking minds. The same men who gleefully allow domestic abusers and sexual predators free clearance into their flock with a warm embrace, shut the door real quick on women whose worst crimes were having sex before marriage

Islam, Christianity, Judaism… all for and by men, not us!