loser

multi enthusiast harley | he/him | seventeen

[schmergo]

Predictions for the rest of 2020

* Mothman confirmed real

* Mothman makes a political alliance with murder hornets

* Santa Claus resigns after it comes to light that he has had a long-term affair with Mothman

* Yellowstone Caldera starts to erupt but is put out by a hurricane

* Mitch McConnell revealed to be a bunch of murder hornets in a suit

* Baskin-Robbins accidentally offers 32 flavors at one time and it causes the collapse of the space-time continuum

* The only visible changes of this collapse after the initial 24-hour panic are that the Grand Canyon becomes an “outie” and Mothman is now both a face on Mount Rushmore and a supporting character in “Hamilton”

* The iPhone 12 emits frequencies that make all owls diurnal and extremely enraged

[one-time-i-dreamt]

Josey was found 3 hours after they rented the boat, alone, asleep and wearing a life jacket, and he told the police that Naya jumped into the water and never resurfaced, and it's sickening that people are making jokes about it now when a four year old might have lost his mother and that will be something that will haunt him for the rest of his life!!!! Do not make light of this situation!!!! You don't have to like her, just don't say anything then, if I see one more post being like, "I don't like Naya Rivera and she is a bad person who did this and that, BUT..." JUST SHUT UP!! I hope that she is found.

[mcdolans]

every single person who reblogs this

every

single

person

will get “doot doot" in their ask box

[semememes-blog]

HOW

[lexiwestiiee]

I WANT TO KNOW YOUR SECRET

[takemewherethewildthingsare]

SERIOUSLY THOUGH WHAT ARE YOU

[reveriesystem-backup]

It’s mental health awareness month! How to support someone with Dissociative Identity Disorder.

If they disclose to you that they have DID:

DO:

• Accept them. Tell them that you still respect and care for them.

• Tell them that you are there if they need your help.

• Tell them to let you know if there are any triggers that are important for you to know. If they choose to tell you any, be patient and understanding. Listen attentively.

Helpful things to say or ask:

• “Is there anything you need me to do to make sure you feel safe in our relationship?

• “If you want to tell me more about it, I am here to listen.”

• “If there are any triggers you think I should be aware of, please let me know.”

• “I’m here if you need help with anything.”

• “I still love you and you are still my friend/family/partner.”

DON’T:

• Ask if they are dangerous or if they are going to harm you.

• Ask them what their trauma is.

• Call them crazy.

• Suggest that their mental illness is caused by supernatural or pseudoscientific means. (AKA, NEVER suggest that someone is possessed or haunted.)

• Bombard them with questions.

• Demand proof.

• Force then to switch as evidence.

• React in an unkind or rude way.

• Minimize or invalidate them.

• Tell them DID isn’t real.

• Deny their existence or refuse to call their alters by their names.

• Demand any answers from them.

Unhelpful things to say or ask:

• “I’ve known you for [span of time]. I would have noticed if you had it.”

• “It’s fine as long as you aren’t going to murder me.”

• “What’s your trauma? Did [traumatic event] happen to you?”

• “Isn’t that really rare? How could you have it?”

• “You had an easy childhood so there’s no way.”

• “You don’t know what ‘hard’ is.” “You were lucky to have the childhood you had.”

• “I just don’t get why you’re doing this to me.”

• “Can you imagine how hard this is for me?”

• “Tell me your triggers.”

If they’re switching or dissociating:

DO:

• Be patient with them.

• Tell them that it’s okay, and to take their time.

• Politely ask who’s fronting.

• Reintroduce yourself, as if a new person just walked into the room.

• Fill them in if they are unaware of what is going on.

DON’T:

• Snap or clap in their face.

• Express that you only want to interact with the previously fronting alter.

• Raise your voice, or try to force them to “snap out of” their dissociation.

• Ask if they are going to harm you, or if they are “evil”.

• Tell them “they should know what’s happening”, or refuse to fill them in on what is happening.

• Accuse or blame them for not being a good friend, not listening, or dissociating. 

DID is a highly stigmatized disorder. People fear disclosing this disorder to their loved ones, because their safety could be compromised. They trusted you enough to tell you. It is your job to create a space of love, acceptance, and respect for them.

🖤 Delphine

[wejnersoldier]

2am shenanigans

ao3

pairing: prinxiety

prompt:

person a: what's your most precious memory?

person b: honestly? that time when we sat in that shitty little car park late at night, eating those disgusting chips from the petrol station with a broken sign.

person a: seriously? why?

person b: because that was the first time i ever saw you smile for real.

OR

virgil is open around roman.

----------------------------------

virgil stood outside roman's window, looking up as he waited for the boy to open it. he'd thrown a few stones, but was too anxious about breaking the glass to throw anymore, just hoping roman would wake up. thankfully he wasn't waiting long, a small smile appearing on his face as he watched roman open the window and look down at him. he tried to ignore the fact that roman had stared at him for a little longer than he probably should've, before rolling his eyes and going back inside. virgil knew that meant roman would be out soon, so he walked to the front of the boys house to wait for him.

he put his hands in his pockets, trying to ignore the fact that he was a little cold, the rips in his jeans weren't helping either. roman walked out in gray sweatpants and a red jumper, somehow looking great despite waking up a few minutes ago, and virgil would never understand it. if he was honest, he'd never say it out loud, but he always thought roman looked amazing, deep down somewhere in his mind.

"you realize it's 2am, right?" roman asked, crossing his arms over his chest, standing in front of virgil. he was probably cold, which wasn't surprising, but of course virgil knew what time it was, and of course the only person he's want to be around was roman when going on one of his late night walks.

"yeah, 'course i do. what about it?" virgil replied, not getting a response as roman walked passed him, mumbling something about him being an insomniac and an idiot. virgil could only agree to one of those, and considering he was wide away, he was debating on hitting roman on the back of his head.

he didn't, just followed him instead, walking a little faster to be next to him, putting his arm around the boys shoulders. virgil already had a place picked out for them to go, as usual, and despite that roman made an attempt to lead, there was no way he was going to let him.

that was what led them to a badly lit car park, graffiti everywhere, and at least three abandoned cars. there was a vending machine in the corner, which actually had food in it despite the broken glass, and the two of them were pretty sure it had been there since the 80s. it took a lot of virgil's energy to convince roman not to eat the candy, which was thankfully a success, ending in them sitting on a wall staring out at the car park.

they sat there for longer than virgil could remember. by the time they both got too tired to stay there, the sun was starting to come up, and virgil had decided it was one of the best nights of his life.

virgil was never one to truly show his emotions. he was too scared of it, which was why no one had ever seen him cry, no one had ever seen him smile for real, and no one had ever heard his real life. he couldn't say two of those things were hidden now, considering roman was the one who saw. virgil didn't even realize when he was doing it, how comfortable he was around the boy, that he let his walls down completely.

he only realized after dropping roman off at home, walking back to his own house. he stopped walking, feeling like the air had been sucked out of his body, and he stared down at his shoes, not knowing what to do now. he'd never been so open and vulnerable the way he had been with roman, and part of him wished he could take it back, but if he was truly honest with himself, he didn't hate that roman saw a new side of him he'd hidden from everyone.

[wejnersoldier]

wish you were sober

AO3

pairing: analogical

prompt: there's a party. virgil's drunk. logan pines. need i say more

-

the only reason logan decided to attend this party was because of virgil. he wouldn't have come otherwise, it wasn't exactly his crowd, and he didn't know anyone. he'd much rather be at home, doing quite literally anything else, but he couldn't bring himself to say no to virgil, especially when he'd seemed to excited about it.

the party was already in full swing when he'd arrived, hearing the music from down the road, seeing groups of people in the front garden, and he already regretted turning up. it didn't take him that long to find virgil, walking straight to the kitchen to find the boy standing there. he was wearing his usual clothes, his purple patchwork hoodie with ripped skinny jeans, downing a cup of what logan could only assume was beer. he stood on the sidelines, hoping virgil would just notice him, but as logan watched him swap drinks with a girl he was sure his friend had never met in his life, both of them drinking before cheering, he realized there was no way virgil was going to notice him.

"logan, oh my god, you're here!" virgil yelled, once logan had mustered up the courage to walk over to him and tap him on the shoulder, a small smile on his face as virgil beamed at him, putting his arms in the air before wrapping them around logan. he hugged him back, before he felt virgil pulling away, already going to get another drink. "i'm so glad you're here, i'm gonna make you something. you want beer? let me find the beer."

logan opened his mouth to speak, but virgil was already looking away from him again, and he wondered when the boy had gotten so talkative and confident walking around a house he'd never been in, talking to people he'd never seen before. it was probably the alcohol, but logan couldn't help but enjoy watching him be like this. the only problem was, he didn't want to drink, so when virgil put the red solo cup in his hand and drank out of his own one, he just wanted to leave again.

"virge, can we go somewhere a bit more quiet? it's really loud in here." logan asked, trying to ignore his ears starting to hurt from the music, watching virgil nod and then grab his hand, dragging him through the house to the back garden. logan didn't want virgil to let go of his hand, but he did, and he had to hide his disappointment. they sat down in the grass against the fence, watching the party happen in front of them. the music was still loud, but it was a bit easier for logan to actually hear his thoughts. virgil, on the other hand, was very much drunk, so it didn't really matter on his end.

"this party's shit." logan heard him say, before taking a sip of his beer, and he turned his head to look at virgil, who was staring back at him.

logan had been in love with virgil for awhile now. he figured he would just get over it, his feelings were nothing major when he first realized they were there, just a crush, but after a few months, it just got worse. virgil looking at him now, with a small smile and his head leaning against the fence, his eyes half closed, all logan wanted to do was kiss him, but he couldn't. instead, he looked away, then placed his cup on the ground before standing up, holding out his hands for virgil to take.

"come on, i'm taking you home. i saw your car while walking here and i am not letting you drive home like this." logan said, which just made virgil laugh quietly, mumbling something about how he'd always taken care of him, before reaching up and taking his hands, letting logan pull him to his feet. this time, they didn't let go of each other, and logan was sure he felt his heart speed up when virgil squeezed his hand lightly.

it was a little hard getting virgil back to the car, for the sole reason of the boy being a lot more drunk than logan thought he was, and kept getting distracted and running around the street. while logan thought it was adorable, it still made him panic, and he was more than glad when he managed to get virgil and himself in the car. he sat in the drivers seat, turning his head to look at the boy next to him. virgil was looking at him again, the same way he was before. logan had to remind himself again he was drunk, this wasn't how virgil really felt, as much as logan wished it was.

then virgil kissed him. it didn't last long, a few seconds at most, but logan didn't know what to do after. the other boy just leant back in his chair before logan could even try and kiss him again, resting his head against the window and closing his eyes. logan sighed, turning away from him, starting the car. virgil wasn't going to remember this, he was sure of it, logan's only choice was to take the boy home and forget all about it.

"i wish you were sober."

[prideknights]

Say Their Names

Day 1 of Tumblr’s #ActsOfPride campaign:

These are the black trans lives we have lost due to violence in the United States since 2009. Sadly, this is most likely not a complete list as many of the souls we have lost go unreported or were misgendered. They will not be forgotten.

Caprice Curry, 31 - Killed January 17, 2009 Jimmy McCollough, 34 - Killed April 14, 2009 Foxy Ivy, mid 30s - May 23, 2009 Christopher Jermaine Scott, 36 - Killed July 1, 2009 Beyonce (Eric) Lee, 21 - Killed July 26, 2009 Tyli’a Mack, 21 - Killed August 26, 2009 Dee Green, 25 - Killed October 26, 2009 Toni Alston, 44 - Killed April 3, 2010 Chanel (Dana A. Larkin), 26 - Killed May 7, 2010 Sandy Woulard, 28 - Killed June 21, 2010 Victoria Carmen White, 28 - Killed September 8, 2010 Stacey Lee aka Stacey Blahnik, 31 - Killed October 11, 2010 Tyra Trent, 25 - Killed February 19, 2011 Marcal Camero Tye, 25 - Killed March 8, 2011 Miss Nate Nate, 44 - Killed June 13, 2011 Lashai Mclean, 23 - Killed July 20, 2011 Shelley Hilliard, 19 - Killed October 23, 2011 Chassity Nathan Vickers, 32 - Killed November 17, 2011 Githe Goines, 23 - Killed December 29, 2011 Crain Conaway, 47 - Killed January 17, 2012 Deoni Jones, 23 - Killed February 2, 2012 Coko Williams, 35 - Killed April 4, 2012 Tyrell Jackson, 23 - Killed April 4, 2012 Paige Clay, 23 - Killed April 16, 2012 Brandy Martell, 37 - Killed April 29, 2012 Tracey Johnson, 40 - Killed July 5, 2012 Tiffany Gooden, 19 - Killed August 14, 2012 Dewayne “Deja” Jones, 33 - Killed August 26, 2012 Kendall Hampton, 26 - Killed August 29, 2012 Evon Young, 22 - Killed January 1, 2013 Cemia “CeCe” Dove, 23 - Killed March 27, 2013 Kelly Young, 29 - Killed April 3, 2013 Ashley Sinclair, 30 - Killed April 11, 2013 Fatima Woods, 53 - Killed May 30, 2013 Jock Maurice McKinney, 50 - Killed 12 July, 2013 Diamond Williams, 31 - Killed July 14, 2013 Domonique Newburn, 31 - Killed August 20, 2013 Islan Nettles, 21 - Killed August 20, 2013 Artegus Konyale Madden, 37 - Killed September 1, 2013 Terry Golston, 44 - Killed September 6, 2013 Eyricka Morgan, 26 - Killed September 24, 2013 Brittany Stergis, 22 - Killed December 5, 2013 Kandy Hall, 40 - Killed June 3, 2014 Yaz'min Shancez, 31 - Killed June 19, 2014 Tiffany Edwards, 28 - Killed June 26, 2014 Mia Henderson, 26 - Killed July 16, 2014 Aniya Parker, 47 - Killed October 3, 2014 Ashley Sherman, 25 - Killed October 27, 2014 Gizzy Fowler, 24 - Killed November 12, 2014 Lamar Edwards, 20  - Killed January 9, 2015 Lamia Beard, 30 - Killed January 17, 2015 Ty Underwood, 24  - Killed January 26, 2015 Yazmin Vash Payne, 33 - Killed January 31, 2015 Taja Gabrielle DeJesus, 36 - Killed February 1, 2015 Penny Proud, 21 - Killed February 10, 2015 Keyshia Blige, 33 - Killed March 7, 2015 London Chanel, 21 - Killed May 18, 2015 Ashton O’Hara, 25 - Killed July 14, 2015 India Clarke, 25 - Killed July 2, 2015 Shade Schuler, 22 - Killed July 29, 2015 Amber Monroe, 20 - Killed August 8, 2015 Kandis Capri, 35 - Killed August 11, 2015 Elisha Walker, 20 - Killed August 13, 2015 Kiesha Jenkins, 22 - Killed October 6, 2015 Zella Ziona, 21 - Killed October 15, 2015 Veronica Banks Cano, mid 30s - Killed February 19, 2016 Maya Young, 25 - Killed February 21, 2016 Demarkis Stansberry, 30 - Killed February 27, 2016 Kedarie Johnson, 16 - Killed March 2, 2016 Shante Isaac, 34 - Killed April 10, 2016 Keyonna Blakeney, 22 - Killed April 16, 2016 Tyreece Walker, 32 - Killed May 1, 2016 Mercedes Successful, 32 - Killed May 15, 2016 Goddess Diamond, 20 - Killed June 5, 2016 Deeniquia Dodds, 22 - Killed July 13, 2016 Dee Whigam, 25 - Killed July 23, 2016 Skye Mockabee, 26 - Killed July 30, 2016 Rae'Lynn Thomas, 28 - Killed August 10, 2016 T.T. Saffore, mid-20s, Killed September 11, 2016 Crystal Edmonds, 22 - Killed September 16, 2016 Jazz Alford, 30 - Killed September 23, 2016 Brandi Bledsoe, 32 - Killed October 12, 2016 Noony Norwood, 30 - Killed November 5, 2016 India Monroe, 29 - Killed December 21, 2016 Mesha Caldwell, 41 - Killed January 4, 2017 JoJo Striker, 23 - Killed February 8, 2017 Jaquarrius Holland, 18, - Killed February 19, 2017 Keke Collier, 24 - Killed February 21, 2017 Chyna Gibson, 31 - Killed February 25, 2017 Ciara McElveen, 21 - Killed February 27, 2017 Alphonza Watson, 38 -Killed March 22, 2017 Kenne McFadden, 27 - Killed April 9, 2017 Chay Reed, 28 - Killed April 21, 2017 Brenda Bostick, 59 - Killed April 25, 2017 Sherrell Faulkner, 46, Died May 16, 2017 Ava Le'Ray Barrin, 17 - Killed June 25, 2017 Ebony Morgan, 28 - Killed July 2, 2017 TeeTee Dangerfield, 32 - Killed July 31, 2017 Jaylow McGlory, 29 - Killed August 4, 2017 Kiwi Herring, 30 -Killed August 22, 2017 Kashmire Redd, 28 - Killed September 4, 2017 Derricka Banner, 26 - Killed September 12, 2017 Candace Towns, 30 - Killed October 31, 2017 Brooklyn BreYanna Stevenson, 31 - Killed November 27 2017 Brandi Seals, 26 - Killed December 13, 2017 Celine Walker, 36 - Killed February 4, 2018 Tonya Harvey, 35 - Killed February 6, 2018 Phylicia Mitchell, 46 - Killed February 23, 2018 Amia Tyrae, 28 - Killed March 28, 2018 Sasha Wall, 29 - Killed April 1, 2018 Nino Fortson, 36 - Killed May 13, 2018 Gigi Pierce, 28 - Killed May 21, 2018 Antash’a Devine Sherrington English, 38 - Killed June, 2018 Diamond Stephens, 39 - Killed June 18, 2018 Cathalina Christina James, 24 - Killed June 24, 2018 Keisha Wells, 50s - Killed June 24, 2018 Sasha Garden, 27 - Kille July 19, 2018 Vontashia Bell, 18 - Killed August 30, 2018 Dejanay Stanton, 24 - Killed August 30, 2018 Shantee Tucker, 30 - Killed September 5, 2018 Londonn Moore, 20 - Killed September 8, 2018 Ciara Minaj Carter, 31 - Killed October 3, 2018 Regina Denise Brown, 53 - Killed October 10, 2018 Tydi Dansbury, 37, Killed November 26, 2018 Keanna Mattel, 35 - Killed December 7, 2018 Dana Martin, 31 - Killed January 6, 2019 Jazzaline Ware, 34 - Killed March 25, 2019 Ashanti Carmon, 27, Killed March 30, 2019 Claire Legato, 21 - Killed April 15, 2019 Muhlaysia Booker, 23 - Killed May 18, 2019 Michelle “Tamika” Washington, 40 - Killed May 19, 2019 Paris Cameron, 20 - Killed May 25, 2019 Chynal Lindsey, 26 - Killed June 1, 2019 Chanel Scurlock, 23 - Killed June 5, 2019 Layleen Polanco, 27 - Killed June 7, 2019 Zoe Spears, 23 - Killed June 13, 2019 Brooklyn Lindsey, 32 - Killed June 25, 2019 Denali Berries Stuckey, 29 - Killed July 20, 2019 Kiki Fantroy, 21 - Killed July 31, 2019 Pebbles La Dime Doe, 24 - Killed August 4, 2019 Bubba Walker, 55 - Killed July 2019 Tracy Single, 22 - Killed July 30, 2019 Bee Love Slater, 23 - Killed September 1, 2019 Bailey Reeves, 17 - Killed September 2, 2019 Ja’Leyah-Jamar, 30 - Killed September 13, 2019 Itali Marlowe, 29 - Killed September 20, 2019 Brianna “BB” Hill, 30, Killed October 13, 2019 Yahira Nesby, 33 - Killed December 19, 2019 Monika Diamond, 34 - Killed March 18, 2020 Nina Pop, 28 - Killed May 3, 2020 Tony McDade, 38 - Killed May 27, 2020

All of them should still be here with us today.

Say their names.

[krxs100]

*************** ATTENTION ***************

Video captured of peaceful protester Justin Howell being carried unconscious after sociopath police officers shot several bullets, hitting him in the head. Police tell protesters to bring him to them so he could receive help only to be shot with more bullets.

(WARNING: VIDEO MAY BE TOUGH TO WATCH)

How You Can Help:

Donate to his GoFundMe for his recovery

Sign this petition to fire Police Chief involved

Austin’s city manager Spencer Cronk has the authority to fire the police chief Brian Manley. CONTACT HIM AND DEMAND JUSTICE

Email: [email protected] 

 phone number: 512-974-2200

Source 

Follow here for more news

#WakeUp

[lagonegirl]

Solomon’s Shield is the name of the app

OMG Download this!!!! Stop Police Brutality!

[thefingerfuckingfemalefury]

<3 Boosting this as a useful tool for people in protecting themselves here <3

[rouge-fox-expanded]

signal boost!!

[marisatomay]

if you want to help bail out protesters but don’t know where to send your money — act blue put together a secure page that will split your donation between 30+ bail funds across the US

[flower-swift]

don’t forget on pride month

[honeymark-moved]

ways to support the blm movement

this google doc includes a list of petitions to sign, resources to help educate yourself and others, organizations to donate to, and contacts of law officials to get in touch with to express your support for the george floyd and black lives matter movements. this includes ways to help even if you don’t live in america. please read it and support the movement. 

use your voice. use every platform you have, no matter how big or how small. nothing will change if you just sit there and watch. if you think you’re the exception, you’re not. remaining indifferent will only support the oppressor. do something.

write to your legal representatives. express your support for legislation that would bring justice to the unarmed civilians who’ve been murdered by law enforcement officers. demand for justice. 

call 612-324-4499 ㅡ this is a hotline that will coach you on how to get connected with the people who can arrest the officers that murdered george floyd. 

create serious conversation. stop demeaning people who disagree with your philosophies on how to overcome. it is useless and no better than the practices of the oppressor to silence. we need to listen to each other with respect and really consider how we can combine our perspectives to create practical change. 

please feel free to add any links or resources or information that you think will be helpful and also reblog to spread awareness. the systems we are fighting against were literally created to oppress marginalized communities and therefore will not go down without a fight. we need to collectively stand up and do something about it. 

[feminismandmedia]

[tshifty]

when i say “unfollow me if you support trump” im not saying it ironically. no, seriously, if you support trump then i dont want your disgraceful ass to be in any way associated with my blog. get out.

[callmearcturus]

boost if able, re: minnesota protests

in case y’all didn’t see, the Minnesota Freedom Fund is actually good on donations after that massive fundraise yesterday and is directing people to donate to other causes, including Black Visions Collective, Reclaim The Block, and Northstar Health Collective.

MFF page for verification.

[spidaerman]

To all my black followers and friends, stay safe.

[birthofvcnus]

PLEASE SHARE. A WOMAN WAS ABDUCTED AT A PROTEST. LICENSE PLATE EEV-701. IT IS A FORD ESCAPE 2003.