I think too often people forget that “they” is as much a pronoun as any of the others, and it isn’t as neutral as you want it to be.
I accept it as a useful default (and I use it that way myself), but once a person has told you their preferences, you GOTTA stop using they/them if it’s not on the list. please. this isn’t me trying to make anyone feel bad but it’s at a point where I’m misgendered more in “inclusive” spaces than literally anywhere else





















