Wonderfully Asexual

Here to answer questions, give some guidance and reassurance and of course, our self validation. There's nothing wrong with that 💕🍰 I'm not one to be shy, so if there's something you've been wondering, or maybe you're confused about it, go ahead and ask anonymously, or message me. I'm more than happy to help. I love you guys, and I want this to be what I wish I had when I first realized I was asexual. Now let's celebrate my new theme with more cake!

[wonderfullyasexual]

Daily Happy Moment #1

Here’s a picture of my kitten. He says he doesn’t care who you are or if you’re ace or anywhere on the spectrum . He thinks you’re awesome. Also. Give him rubs. :3

[wonderfullyasexual]

Long time no see

Hey. I’ve been gone for a very long time. I wanted this blog to remind everyone daily of how much love there is collectively and how special we all are. In the midst of that I spread myself too thin. See, I have Major Depressive Disorder with a huge helping of anxiety.

Last year was the worst year of my life so far. Between unemployment’s, dealing with people coming literally after me and my attempts at success, my brother becoming borderline suicidal and more, I couldn’t manage being on social media. I wanted to just not exist. I stayed up during the day just to sleep at night and go to the next day. I gained over 60lbs of weight from all of this in the span of a couple of months.

I now feel like I’m ready to come back. I made goals. I want to achieve them. One of them being, reminding everyone that they are ALWAYS loved.

No matter who you are, where you are or what you’re going through. I send you love and will continue reminding you there are spaces like this in the world, where you can be you, safe and loved and appreciated. Hope everyone can forgive me for being gone for long. But I’m back.

[wonderfullyasexual]

I love you guys.

Hey. If you’re reading this. Thank you. I’m sorry I haven’t gotten around to replying to your messages or to posting more often. This has been the hardest year of my life and I’m finding it nearly impossible to keep up with anything.

There’s too much to tell here in text. So I’ll upload a video later on today. I don’t necessarily think anyone cares or will even read this or watch the video. But I need to get it out. I feel like my heart and soul are being swallowed up and it’s so painful to cope.

[catnip-cryptidd]

Reblog this if you think Asexuality is a legitimate sexuality

I’m trying to prove a point to my parents, who think that I’m being “prudish” and that I “will eventually find the right person.”

[wonderfullyasexual]

Insightful Oracle Readings

https://www.fiverr.com/share/ayK4G

I’m so excited to share this! Ever since I was little, I was an avid lucid dreamer, which eventually, at a young age, turned into multiple out of body experiences, and in turn pushed me towards learning and studying psychology and spirituality. I also started learning about oracle readings (not Tarot) which can help give peace of mind and insight into your life.  I plan to start a new blog that will revolve around these topics, because there is SO much to share. 

So I signed up on Fiverr and instead of doing my graphic designs like I normally do on freelancing sites, I decided to just do readings. 

If you made it this far, you now know I’m giving away readings.

I will be giving away 5 oracle readings. I only need your name, whatever you go by or is most personal to you. I also need a question. I cannot do yes or no questions, there’s a whole list of reasons why which one day will be posted on my other blog. 

That’s all I need for the reading. Unless I ask for anything more specific. 

I doubt anyone will get this far reading but...if you want to be one of the 5 people to win, reblog this ! :D I will be choosing 5 random users by the end of the day Monday!

Love and hugs!

[wonderfullyasexual]

so my girlfriend of 5 years is upset about what i reblog on tumblr. half of it is photos of other women who all look different but don’t look anything like her. idk if she’s upset from possible insecurity or if there’s another issue? im just unsure of how to reassure her without restricting my posts because i use my blog to express myself. any advice ?

Hi. From experience, I would say there are definitely some insecurity issues. I went through this as well, and honestly sometimes, I still feel that way. I think it happens more when women themselves don’t feel good about themselves. It could be something as small as acne or a small weight issue, or just seeing everyone look so perfect all the time and criticizing ourselves because we think we’re so far from it. 

As a woman, I can say that when I feel good about myself, and am completely confident in how I look and the attention I get from my s/o, I’m totally fine. I would try and see if anything is bothering her besides just the general ‘insecurity’ approach, in which we try to tell our loved ones they have nothing to worry about. 

It can be something with her appearance that is bothering her specifically, or something someone else said, or maybe she could be in a funk. I’m sure you already have, but ask her(if you haven’t) what bothers her about the post itself. 

IT can be something really simple..or really deep rooted. If she’s quiet, it’s usually something deep rooted, if she is more mad than anything, it could just be insecurities. 

Women’s minds are..complex. If you pinpoint the insecurity, for ex. mine used to be weight gain(still is) my s/o would not only give me comforting words, but he provided me with a solution of, going out for more walks or bike rides, taking care of diets, and it made me feel like he cared and understood. He never once said I looked fat or anything, he just simply accepted how I felt and offered ways to make it better...and IT WORKED. This approach is so effective because we feel like others aren’t just telling us things to make us feel better (which rarely works)

Sorry for the long answer, I had a lot on my mind for that one. But good luck :) remember, be honest, and whatever you do with love will work out. 

[wonderfullyasexual]

Birthday Gift for Medical Bills

I turn 25 today. I’m not someone to ask for money...but right now I’m pretty lost. I’m behind MONTHS in payment for medical expenses (I lost

My best friend convinced me to do this...I told you guys how bad of a struggle it’s been...I’m not asking for you guys to donate...I would simply appreciate it if you guys could share this. Share it on your social media or however you’d like. I’m not sure who else to ask for help.

[wonderfullyasexual]

Birthday yay!

I know no one really cares..BUTTT June 8th is my birthday. I turn 25 in a couple of hours if I consider the actual time I was born lol Anyways, Happy Birthday to me ;)

[wonderfullyasexual]

Guys, I’m sorry I disappeared again.

I know it wasn’t exactly that long, but I’m going through a financial crisis and I’ve been shutting myself away from everything. Because if illness and losing a job of mine, I’ve fallen behind on all of my bills, I hit my credit so hard(I had nearly perfect credit, now it’s poor) and no health insurance because I’m still fighting to get my health coverage...you can imagine my head about to burst.

My head is so bad. I literally forgot my own birthday. It’s this freakin Saturday. I’m going to be a 25 yr old with a mid life crisis. How ridiculous can I get?

Anyways spread the love. I love you. Your community loves you. YOU should love you. I thank you if you read my little vent, sometimes I need a little help too.

Be true to yourself, and if you need to speak to someone...do so!

[wonderfullyasexual]

Cake is My Best Friend | Bonfire

What do we Aces love? CAKE!. As a tribute to Asexual awareness, this provides a cute and fun way to celebrate the validation that many individuals struggled to make because...

This is the cutest <3 Show it some love! Reblog :)

[wonderfullyasexual]

Daily Reminder #7

Look in the mirror, appreciate who you see. This person has come a long way no matter the circumstance, you’re stronger than you can imagine. You really are. Don’t be your worst enemy, you deserve better than that. Accept yourself, love yourself, and do the same for others. We love you, we accept you, you are wonderful.

Oh and have some cake, no we don’t care if you’re not ace, :3

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I love saying “of course” instead of “you’re welcome,” like of course I’m helping you that’s what I do, you were foolish to even consider an alternate dimension in which I’m not helping you. you idiot. you absolute buffoon.

[anxietyproblem]

[wonderfullyasexual]

T-Shirt ideas?

 Hey guys! <3  How’’s everyone doing? I have a question. I was inspired to design an ACE inspired T-shirt, and I work with graphic design so I have a load of things I want to draw for it. But, is there anything you’d like to see on a shirt? Tank Top? send me suggestions please! I can’t wait for this! :D

[wonderfullyasexual]

Hey, I was wondering why you keep tagging posts as cake/cupcake? I don't want to be rude by asking you to not crosstag with things that arent relevant to your post but if there is some meaning behind it then I apologise! Sorry to bother, have a nice day!

lol no it’s okay. I promise it’s not irrelevant, Cake...it’s literally an asexual thing. It’s a very old joke on AVEN (asexual and visibility network). Basically we prefer cake over sex...or we prefer pie..or cupcakes, so many of my posts might have that tagged. It’s cool, no need to apologize, it’s a legitimate question! :)

[wonderfullyasexual]

Do You Remember?

Remember back in the day, during grade school, we were always bombarded with the phrase “treat others the way you want to be treated”?

Honestly, after being drilled with that for so damn long, why are people still assholes? If you’re part of the LGBTQIA+ community, something is wrong, if not, something is still wrong. Sexuality, Preferences in General, Religions, Skin Colors, Beliefs, EVERYTHING has an opposite to it. I mean how hard is it to live in a world where a non straight couple can adopt a child out of love, and it be absolutely accepted, because the need for people to take care of orphaned children is more important than upholding a belief of yours that in the long run deprives that child? Keep your belief, but putting other’s lives and well being first should always be a goal, especially if it doesn’t harm you at all. Look at what we do to all the Immigrants south of the border...From Mexico, all the way down South America...it’s so disgusting. Our belief to protect our country isn’t even founded on anything except the government telling us so(I mean our threats are being taunted constantly like N-Korea and China) that we turn a blind eye to anyone who needs help.

War...Oh, guys I’ll stop here because if I start on the topic of war it will never end.

Just remember that WE are a part of this COMMUNITY, of this EARTH, and we know how it feels to be alienated. We should always be the leading example...and share our cake <3

That doesn’t mean let yourself be bullied though. Bullies=bad. 

Bullies = Bad

“Treat others how you want to be treated”

Looks like a lot of people DID NOT learn shit in Grade School...

[wonderfullyasexual]

Daily Reminder #6

There’s someone in the world who can actually, truly, empathize with you, so you’re never alone. You are simply being thought about by someone else, and you’re also their own comfort. So keep your chin up cupcakes. <3 Maybe I’ll start a single day a week where everyone will come read these reminders and eat a slice of cake, pie or a cupcake...at this point it doesn’t matter as long as it’s sweet.