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I was raped. That isn’t how I ever wanted to start an essay. I don’t know where else to begin. I don’t want to be a rape victim. I don’t want to tell this story. It…
I was raped. That isn’t how I ever wanted to start an essay. I don’t know where else to begin. I don’t want to be a rape victim. I don’t want to tell this story. It…
I made another Fucking blog
let's face it, tumblr is kind of shitty wordsbychuckassplanet.wordpress.com
I WANT TO LOVE YOU LIKE A CAR CRASH
[this is the final section of a much larger open love letter///poetic rambling/essay]
♥♥♥
Love, as we think we know it and define it, is literally the worst thing ever, and I hate it soveryfuckingmuch.
I don’t hate being in love with you. I want you to just pretend that I didn’t go on a three page inconclusive, chaotic dissection of the meaning of that word. I love you and I want to keep loving you as long as I possibly can.
If love is a drug, I hope it is not a controlled substance. (I don’t want the OTC version of love either. You know it can’t be good shit if you can just grab it off the shelf from the same place that sells Hallmark cards and sunscreen). I do not want to be prescribed to you by a doctor to take you daily (with crackers, in case you upset my stomach). I do not wish to ingest you habitually and mindlessly, as per the label on the orange plastic bottle you came in. I do not want to come to the realization that the drug I have been taking hasn’t really been working for me, that although I noticed its effects at first, it hasn’t been effective. I do not want to be taken off my medication because the side effects outweighed the benefits. I do not want to have to experiment with dosages of you. I do not want to suffer unmedicated, until a newer, better medication comes out on the market. I do not want to swim through the red tape of doctor’s appointments, pharmacies, federal regulations, and insurance to get to you.
If love is a drug, I’d like it to be a party drug. I haven’t tried coke, but if you were coke, I’ve already snorted you off the compact mirror in my purse. I didn’t ask the guy offering it very many questions, I just went for it. For the sake of the party. I’d do bump after bump till it was gone. I want to experience every moment under the influence of you.
But really, if love were a drug, I’d want it to be like weed. I want to get it from somewhat questionable circumstance. I want its scent to linger in the rooms where I relax. I want to get high on you. I want to pack some of you in a bowl tightly, and light you carefully. I want to take big, deep hits of you, and hold you in as long as my lungs will let me. I will try every trick in the book to make the most of you, because goddamn, you are a precious resource. Nothing else makes me forget how much I hate my life and myself, or maybe you just shine light on the things inside me, the things in my life and myself that worthy of love and acceptance, the things that I could not see clearly before you. You are an escape to positive thinking. You take me to a place where I don’t feel the compulsion to worry about every.fucking.little.thing. You make things more fun. You make my body feel good. You make me laugh about the dumbest shit. Everything tastes better. I can fall asleep easy with you. I want to focus on breathing you in and breathing you out. I want to lose touch with time and just enjoy your effects. I will briefly reconnect with passage of time when I look down and notice the bowl appears empty, it’s looks like your love is gone. My friends might say “It’s cashed. Do you want to load another?”. I will scoff at the suggestion. I will take the flame to what might be the last of the precious green, now charred black, and inhale. I don’t care if I end up with ash coating my tongue, because, baby, you are worth that risk. And because I attach easily, am desperate and hopelessly romantic at times, and have low self esteem that leads to believe that no one will ever really love me, I may get as pathetic as to take a hot bobby pin, and scrape the sticky, think remnants of you off the sides of the bowl to get that last precious hit, because that’s how fucking badly I want to feel the effects of your love, I mean, the drug… I hope that hit is so potent and fruitful that it knocks my brain into a state of liquid that I can swim in for hours. Sadly, I am a little jaded and skeptical, so I have some doubts. But who cares, I’m high.
That’s how I want to love you, not like my prescriptions for concerta and birth control, or the way a pen cap fits on a pen, but like illegal party drugs or a car crash.
I want to love you as hard and as passionately and as long as I possibly can. If we are not or cannot be each other’s “forever”s, then there is a 99% chance I will end up hurting my lungs in the process of getting that one last hit. Although typically I will do anything to keep from getting hurt, I have accepted this, what we are, and I’m ready to embrace it.
Don’t ever tell anyone I ever said this, but I think it’s better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all…
I’m ready to believe in soulmates if you’re ready to play make believe too.
I WANT TO LOVE YOU LIKE A CAR CRASH
[this is the final section of a much larger open love letter///poetic rambling/essay]
♥♥♥
Love, as we think we know it and define it, is literally the worst thing ever, and I hate it soveryfuckingmuch.
I don’t hate being in love with you. I want you to just pretend that I didn’t go on a three page inconclusive, chaotic dissection of the meaning of that word. I love you and I want to keep loving you as long as I possibly can.
If love is a drug, I hope it is not a controlled substance. (I don’t want the OTC version of love either. You know it can’t be good shit if you can just grab it off the shelf from the same place that sells Hallmark cards and sunscreen). I do not want to be prescribed to you by a doctor to take you daily (with crackers, in case you upset my stomach). I do not wish to ingest you habitually and mindlessly, as per the label on the orange plastic bottle you came in. I do not want to come to the realization that the drug I have been taking hasn’t really been working for me, that although I noticed its effects at first, it hasn’t been effective. I do not want to be taken off my medication because the side effects outweighed the benefits. I do not want to have to experiment with dosages of you. I do not want to suffer unmedicated, until a newer, better medication comes out on the market. I do not want to swim through the red tape of doctor’s appointments, pharmacies, federal regulations, and insurance to get to you.
If love is a drug, I’d like it to be a party drug. I haven’t tried coke, but if you were coke, I’ve already snorted you off the compact mirror in my purse. I didn’t ask the guy offering it very many questions, I just went for it. For the sake of the party. I’d do bump after bump till it was gone. I want to experience every moment under the influence of you.
But really, if love were a drug, I’d want it to be like weed. I want to get it from somewhat questionable circumstance. I want its scent to linger in the rooms where I relax. I want to get high on you. I want to pack some of you in a bowl tightly, and light you carefully. I want to take big, deep hits of you, and hold you in as long as my lungs will let me. I will try every trick in the book to make the most of you, because goddamn, you are a precious resource. Nothing else makes me forget how much I hate my life and myself, or maybe you just shine light on the things inside me, the things in my life and myself that worthy of love and acceptance, the things that I could not see clearly before you. You are an escape to positive thinking. You take me to a place where I don’t feel the compulsion to worry about every.fucking.little.thing. You make things more fun. You make my body feel good. You make me laugh about the dumbest shit. Everything tastes better. I can fall asleep easy with you. I want to focus on breathing you in and breathing you out. I want to lose touch with time and just enjoy your effects. I will briefly reconnect with passage of time when I look down and notice the bowl appears empty, it’s looks like your love is gone. My friends might say “It’s cashed. Do you want to load another?”. I will scoff at the suggestion. I will take the flame to what might be the last of the precious green, now charred black, and inhale. I don’t care if I end up with ash coating my tongue, because, baby, you are worth that risk. And because I attach easily, am desperate and hopelessly romantic at times, and have low self esteem that leads to believe that no one will ever really love me, I may get as pathetic as to take a hot bobby pin, and scrape the sticky, think remnants of you off the sides of the bowl to get that last precious hit, because that’s how fucking badly I want to feel the effects of your love, I mean, the drug... I hope that hit is so potent and fruitful that it knocks my brain into a state of liquid that I can swim in for hours. Sadly, I am a little jaded and skeptical, so I have some doubts. But who cares, I’m high.
That’s how I want to love you, not like my prescriptions for concerta and birth control, or the way a pen cap fits on a pen, but like illegal party drugs or a car crash.
I want to love you as hard and as passionately and as long as I possibly can. If we are not or cannot be each other’s “forever”s, then there is a 99% chance I will end up hurting my lungs in the process of getting that one last hit. Although typically I will do anything to keep from getting hurt, I have accepted this, what we are, and I’m ready to embrace it.
Don’t ever tell anyone I ever said this, but I think it’s better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all...
I’m ready to believe in soulmates if you’re ready to play make believe too.
[notes from a mild anxiety attack] I'm at a loss for words and the only activities that sound remotely comforting are washing my hair in the shower, peeing (again), and a cigarette. but I'm just gonna keep sitting here. wanting to say something, but not having anything worth saying. I could clean my room or do laundry or hang out with Buster or draw or do a lot of other things but that's just not gonna happen. I don't know why that is not going to happen, only that it is not going to happen. I'm sorry. I'm alone in my room. I have nothing/no one to say "sorry" to. But I'm still sorry for being like this. Whatever "this" is. I'm not warm or cold or just right. My pits, feet, and hands have been cold & sweaty all day, so I'm a muscle tee under my bathrobe so my arms stay warm w/o dealing with sweatstains. Everything I do feels like busy work, like there's something better to do with my time. I don't like myself when I get like this. I don't reach out when I get like this because 1. I'm at a lost for words 2. I'm sorry. 3. Low self-esteem -- why should I expect anyone else to care? Sorry. I waste a lot of time thinking/regretting how I wasted my time previously. Somebody is going to read this someday and I am going to feel embarrassed and shameful. I'm fully capable of getting up and walking, but for whatever reason, I never do. That's why it's described as crippling anxiety. I never wanted to have another anxiety attack again. But you don't always get what you want and that's probably why everything about the future scares the shit outta me. 1/24/15 7:05pm (a.m. schweiker)
Filed under: “Random Seeds of Poems I’ll Finish Later Stored in My Phone”
Night Amber (5/25/12)
the stars appear to be swinging swaying gently in the spring breeze moving slowly in the winds like the leaves illuminated by the glow of the street lamp outside my window it’s only shade of orange that’s beautiful. Night Amber. the night amber glow peeks through the black leaves, silhouettes obscuring the street lamp. four beams of light radiating like a compass rose like a star like the slightly twinkling star in the dark sky that I swear is swaying softly in this soothing spring wind.
Schweiker (5/25/2012)
"You kissed me one time and it made my nerves explode /// and now we don't talk anymore"
i shaved my ankles for this
You soap yourself up with the really good smelling body wash… Twice… For safety. You shave your pubes back into a harshly geometric landing strip. You shave from ankle to slightly above knee, but this time you actually pay attention to all the weird hairy patches on your skinny ankles. You apply roll-on pheromone infused perfume on your wrist, neck, collarbones, tits, inner thighs, and swimsuit area. You apply half a can of dry shampoo to your mane (because some guys are worth shaving for, but no boy is good enough to change your shampoo schedule for). You decide on the Bart Simpson undies. Because you learned the hard way that guys don’t stop what they’re doing to go “wow. That’s some really sexy underwear. I can’t believe a girl as attractive and fashionable that also has such a cool personality wants to sleep with a dude like me. I feel so honored”, so you might as fucking well wear something funny, if only to amuse yourself. You have already decided to wear a band tee of a band you both have mutual affection for, because despite the lessons you’ve learned about wearing underwear to impress boys, you’re still struggling with t-shirts. (You wonder if you will ever reach a point in your life where you stop asking "which [clothing item] makes me more fuckable/dateable?” you forgive yourself and let the neuroticism slide tonight because there’s more important things to stress about). Time to debate pants. Jeans will make you look like you actually tried. The zipper acts like a cheap layer of birth control. Leggings make your ass look great, but they come off too easy. Think about all the times guys have tried to rip off your skinny jeans all sexy like, only to peel them inside out until the lack of fabric stops them at your knees, leaving your legs in some type of not-sexy denim straight jacket that is starting to cut off circulation just a little bit, and how hot it is to wrestle out of your own clothing while a guy with a raging boner just sorta watches. think about dry humping in leggings. Go with leggings. Text him “ready whenever you are”. He says he’s waiting for his last kid to go to bed. Say “okay cool just let me know”. Read Twitter. He says “he’s not crashing yet… Gonna give him another 30”. Send screencaps to ur gal pal group text. Grab your vibrator out of your purse because Twitter is boring. Buzzzzzzz zzzzzzz zzzzzzz buzz buzz ZZZZZZZZ OHHHHHHH. debate canceling and just going to bed. Get a text saying kid might be dozing off. Screencap and send again. Wait. Kid is sick. Not tonight. Maybe Thursday. Express disappointment but not too much disappointment. (The actual text: "I mean I shaved my ankles for this so I’m kinda bummed. But I understand. Thursday night maybe??“). Go to bed. Wake up next the next morning. Pee. Find blood stains on Bart Simpson underwear. Accept that you shaved your ankles for nothing and silently hope he’s like really into period sex or something. Pray that Thursday night works out because all you really want is someone to make out with. Appreciate the fuck outta your smooth ass ankles. -a.m. Schweiker
you kids don't know shit about nicotine or romance
One time when I was smoking a cigarette outside a concert I overheard this probably not 18 year old girl talking about how she wasn't going to get addicted to cigarettes because she was just smoking them for an art piece that involved her writing the name of "every person she's ever loved" on a cigarette and then she smoked them. then she went back to flirting with the band member that was just talking to her about how she's too young to pick up smoking. I'm not old enough to say this but Jesus Christ I hate teenagers. But I do feel sorry for that girl. She has a lot of rough lessons coming for her.
nice day//sick in bed
It’s late February in Kansas and my weather app tells me it’s 67 degrees outside. What beautiful weather we’re having! Objectively speaking, 67 degrees F is a “nice day”. It’s still a few degrees too cold to be considered perfect to me, but I and the vast majority of people would agree that it is a nice day outside. Oh, and considering that it’s still winter? It’s BEAUTIFUL out there!
Which is why I opened up my blinds. So I can at least observe the sunshine while I lay in bed and be sad. [sarcastic condescending voice:] it’s called “self-care”, maybe you’ve read about it on tumblr?
I do not have a habit of actively laying in bed and being sad. I don’t have a habit of actively being sad at all. Most of my habits are to distract myself and/or others from how sad I actually am. Why? Well, it’s probably obvious, but just so that we’re all on the same page, it’s because being sad all the time is kind of… Sad. That’s pretty obvious, right? Redundant, actually. Depression is not obvious. Rarely is depression obvious. It’s so much more subtle that than. I know I’m depressed and I know I have an anxiety disorder or five. But I still smile and laugh at jokes and make jokes and have many moments of genuine happiness throughout the day, and I’m lucky enough to have more days with at least 3 solid “happy” moments than not. I’m an okay student, I have a part time job on the weekends, I have friends, I haven’t had a lot of semi-suicidal thoughts lately… I’m happy! I mean it, I am a happy person! I’m laying in bed in sweatpants with unwashed hair and I’m crying, but I’m still a happy person!
Depression sneaks up on you. Today, I realized that I was bummed out, and that I had been consistently bummed out for at least a week. I realized I should probably do something about it. Normally, I just scroll through Twitter and try to hold a good conversation or two over text message and then in the inbetweens when Twitter is dead and I’m waiting for them to text back, I just dick around on other apps. That’s been my life when I have free time for maybe a year now: unknowingly or unintentionally distracting myself from lingering to unrelenting feelings of “not happy”.
Today was a little different. Not for any specific reason, it just was. Maybe some other time I’ll speculate on all the little things that happened today and twist it into something beautiful and meaningful – like it was warm and sunny out, so I decided to lay in bed and with the blinds open and confront my feelings, and now I feel better, and that’s like a metaphor for life… There’s sunshine outside, just waiting for you to open the blinds– y'know, some high-quality bullshit that we all eat up cause it sounds pretty and simplifies life to a concept small and simple enough for us to feel like we might actually be in control of it.
While that was a whimsical little tangent I just went off on, that’s not what I’m writing about today. (I don’t actually know what I’m writing about, this is just a slightly scripted stream-of-consciousness style rant.) I started off writing about it being a beautiful day, so I think it’s time i try to swing this helvetica-faced concoction of emotional diarrhea back to that topic.
It’s a beautiful day today. Which is why I decided that instead of hiding in my dark basement under the false pretense that I’m going to study once I’m “done with Twitter” (sweetheart, I am never done with Twitter), I was going to lay in bed for 1 hour and be sad. I think when I was at the bottom of the staircase, I told myself I was just gonna take a nap or whatever, but by the top of the stairs I was thinking about the lovely weather… “We’re gonna open the blinds, observe and acknowledge the sunshine, cut the shit and be real with our feelings for an hour”.
It’s technically been two and a half hours. I don’t need to try to make an excuse why. I’m me. Laying around for hours like this is what I do. We can speculate on why I do that in another essay.
So I’m back on topic and I’ve addressed that depression is subtle and the “actively being sad” thing. Check. I think this is the part where I need to analyze why I’ve been mumbling about this shit with my thumbs on a touch screen for 45ish minutes now.
I hate to be an even bigger disappointment than I already view myself as (thanks to that “depression” filter on the Instagram selfie that serves as a metaphor for my self-image), but I don’t know where the fuck I’m going with this iPhone-note-turned-essay I’m writing.
If I was 14, I’d be totally content with concluding these thoughts with “All I know is that it’s a beautiful day outside, and I’m just laying in bed being sad”. But I’m not 14. If I’m going be emo, I want it to mean something. Yes, we can all relate to the sentiment of being sad when the conditions surrounding you are optimum for feeling happy. That’s literally what depression is. It’s a beautiful day outside, and I’m laying in bed being sad.
It’s a beautiful day outside, and I chose to stay inside and being sad. It’s 67 degrees in February in Kansas, and I decided to go to my room, hide under the covers and actively be sad because I have depressing thoughts and feelings floating around inside me, and they need to be confronted, not swept under the emotional rug with temporary distractions.
But I can’t hide from my feelings forever. After all, they’re my own feelings, nobody else is gonna feel them for me. They live in the same body I do–it would be like trying to hide my foot from myself–impossible.
Ready for another extended metaphor? Your depression is your dirty laundry. You can ignore it and let it pile up until you run out of clean undies (I think clean undies represents “happiness”, just roll with me). Your depression will catch up with you eventually. I can keep hiding from myself indefinitely. But one day, let’s say a month and a half from now, when it’s consistently warm enough that most days are “beautiful days”, I’m going to want to be outside and happy, but my depression and/or my coping mechanisms (i.e. laying around on my phone to distract myself from my real feelings) are going to win. The metaphorical pile of emotional laundry will be overflowing out of its hamper, and you are officially out of clean undies and you have a really hot date in the amount of time it would take you to do a load of laundry, minus 25 minutes… You’re fucked, dirty laundry won. My depression wins the coin toss over who gets to decide over how I spend the day.
I chose to stay inside and be sad today because I hope that giving myself a little time be real with my feelings, to identify and accept (and maybe even wallow in) my depressed thoughts and feelings of hopelessness and emptiness that I carry around like loose change at the bottom of my emotional bar purse, would give me the kind of spiritual healing or closure necessary to keep battling my depression.
I chose to stay inside and be sad today so that in the near future, when I actually want to go outside and be happy, I might actually be able to.