Hey, Cole! If you could pick one fictional man to kidnap you here and now, who would it be and why? 😏
Oh god. Um.
My gut reaction is Mafia Bucky. And I'm going to stand by that because every time I consider someone else - Sanji, Jax, Opie, Chidi, Poindexter - there's always some element they're missing.
Bucky isn't perfect but he'd whisk me away from my responsibilities, give me all the books I could read, dote on me as much as I wanted, and protect me from everyone else.
No dead family hanging over us, no responsibilities to protect a city, no ADHD puppy finding trouble.
Though I will say that Rhyland Grace is a close second right now, the nerd.
Summary: Jake has had the same best friend since he was paired with her for a physics project in freshman year. If they were going to fall in love, it would have happened by now, right?
Warnings: 18+. Sexual content, angst, dangerous Naval missions, Top Gun: Maverick spoilers.
Credits: I have to thank @princessmisery666 for everything she’s done to help me with this, from being my sounding board to my enabler, from helping me with a title to being a final beta. Stacey, you’ve been here since the idea first sprouted and I could not have done it without you. I love you so much, Opie.
A/N: This was an entire labor of love but I adore every single word of it. I truly have no real words for this other than I hope you love it as much as I do.
I know this isn’t like your type of stuff but I needed to say this somewhere. My husband and I never get to have sex and all I have to hang onto are stories like yours. For years he never really attempted to make me cum because it takes a while. He attempts sometimes now but if he cums first everything is over. And a lot of times now he can’t get/stay hard. I think it’s my fault. I worry everyday that he’s not attracted to me or that he thinks I’m gross because he hasnt gone down on me in years too and we’re only 23…
I'm so sorry to hear your husband doesn't give as much as he takes, nonnie. I'm curious, have you talked to him about this? I know it isn't always easy, but communication is key.
I also want to say, none of what you described in this ask makes you sound "gross" or unattractive or like this is somehow your fault. Taking a while to finish is completely normal, and your pleasure matters just as much as his does. You deserve patience, enthusiasm, and care, too. We all do!
I'm not an expert, but a lot of things can affect intimacy and performance, so that doesn't automatically mean he isn't attracted to you. But I do think it's important that you don't keep carrying all of this blame by yourself. You deserve to feel wanted and cared for in your relationship, and not ashamed for having needs.
Sending you all the love, thanks, and good vibes. ❤️
Baby love, please, please listen to me when I hold your face between my palms, earnestly look into your eyes, and slowly and articulately say:
THIS. IS. NOT. YOU.
I know you said you're only 23, but please listen.
Testosterone levels are a mother fucker for that. My husband, six years ago. had that same issue. Now, he's a bit older you and your husband but the way that things have changed since covid and the stress of...everything these days is a libido killer as well.
Hey, remember what I said? THIS IS NOT ABOUT YOU.
The two of you do need to communicate, though.
Yes, he's probably having the same kinds of stress as you are but depression works differently for men and women. And this...sounds a lot like depression. He may be having similar thoughts about his own performance and you being unsatisfied, thinking that you think he's gross and that's why he can't get you off which then inhibits his erection.
Regardless, he needs to see a physician about it.
The only other thing that this could be is him being an utter douche who is being red-pilled by the likes of people like Andrew Tate or Joe Rogan. In that case, the safest thing you can do for your mental and physical health, is leave.
Your "inability" to climax is also not on you. Depression, anxiety, the ridiculous mental load women carry, undiagnosed or even undertreated neurodivergences (AuDHD for me), and certain medications can make you take longer to get focused and into that headspace. That's absolutely not news to any of us.
It is the shittiest feeling to go through this and I'm so, so sorry that you're having to deal with it. Please don't hesitate to reach out to me if you need to talk. Everything stays private and completely no pressure.
He's all business in the hospital. Stoic, professional, some say a little hard.
Until he walks into the ER for a consult one evening and there's the brightest beaming smile facing him.
"Hi! Are you the ortho doctor?"
And suddenly, everything clears. Every cliche clicks in his head at the same time in the face of this personification of sunshine.
He's pretty sure he's no longer a human; he puts down roots, turns his petals to the sun, and a matching smile blooms on his face. He'd be your sunflower for the rest of his natural life if you'd let him.
HEARTBREAKING: friends who i should be going to the movies and playing dnd and watching anime and cosplaying and going to the mall and having sleepovers and exploring the woods with live one hundred trillion miles away
Navy!! You’re making me very excited. Seeing you post Wilson Bethel has me on the edge of my seat 🫣🤭 I, for one, believe with my whole heart that you’d absolutely love bullseye. He is a tragic character you can’t help but root for and Wilson does an amazing job with him. I’m eager and so desperately hopeful that you’ll join the dark side 👀
(Also would love to hear any commentary and thoughts if you do decide to follow his journey!!)
Mollie, that gif is killing me. 🫠 Another moot pointed out to me that he's good with knives, which also explains why he's attracting my attention. 😂
Hot and good with a knife?
I'm excited to fall down this rabbit hole. Not sure how my hubby feels yet. 🤣 I will keep you posted and will be sure to share thots thoughts and get yours in return. ❤️
