wurig

huge fan of women being happy

[wurig]

wurig

whatever u r is good :)

tagging system explained: posts are filtered by vibe in a medieval court setting

good/ evil jester behaviour: funny/ so stupid it’s funny

the fiendishly clever advisor: external cleverness

the indomitable female community: women supporting women the way women have always supported women

this house believes: something i consider to be a core and important belief

the reprehensible foe: something that stokes fury

the treasury: resources!

the court approves: anything i agree with

wurig originals: self explanatory

judgement pending: i will respond to this in more detail soon

[sichorean]

Oh okay so we're just making claims that trans-identified males are "generally incapable of sexual assault" now based on total bullshit. It also ignores pretty much all studies around rape and sexual violence not being primarily driven by sexual desire but by entitlement, control, and misogyny.

This was genuinely made to silence victims of male sexual violence and shut down any discussions around safeguarding.

[scifi0lver]

"Female mindset," "a trans woman biologically and psychologically aligned with female biological drives" holy shit! Isn't that bioessentialism at its finest? It literally means, "Women are, by their very essence, dainty and empathetic."

[mummer]

literally

[thatsonemorbidcorvid]

“I am asking you to retaliate against rapists, to organize against rapists. We know who the rapists are. We know because they do it to us. He did it to me; he did it to my best friend. We know who he is. We know that it happened: when, where, and how. I'm asking you to take rape seriously. If the law won't do anything, you must do something.

I'm asking you to close down the pornography outlets wherever you can and to stop the distribution wherever you can, in whatever way you can.

I am asking you to stop passing: stop having feminism be part of a secret life. I am asking you not to apologize to anyone for standing up for women.

I am asking you to organize political support for women who kill men who have been hurting them. They have been isolated and alone.

This is a political issue. They're being punished, because at some moment in their lives, they resisted a domination that they were expected to accept. They stand there in jail for us, for every one of us who got away without having to pull the trigger, for every one of us who lived to tell about getting away without having the trigger pulled on us.

I am asking you to stop men who beat women. Get them jailed or get them killed, but stop them. Men who rape make a choice to rape. And men who beat women make a choice to beat women. And we women now have choices that we have to make to fight back.

I am asking you to look at every single political possibility for fighting back-instead of saying, "I asked him, I told him, but he just wouldn't stop." We need to find ways to do it together. But we need to do it.”

- Andrea Dworkin, Terror, Torture, and Resistance

[noblackwomannocry]

sophie labelle aka assignedmale made diaper fetish art of children and traced a lot of it off pics of real kids

hey before you share stuff from sophie labelle, author of assigned male and at URL assignedmale, here is a reminder that she made diaper fetish babyfur art, including fetish art of children actively urinating or defecating into diapers for her own sexual interests, and traced some amount of them off of real children.

any attempts to bring this up were and are met with accusations of

being from kiwifarms

not understanding that her mostly sexual art traced off of real children "does not represent any children"

not understanding why people would know (not believe, know) that someone who self-identifies as a little or participates in ABDL while posting art of kid furries "playfully" getting their diapers changed or pissing themselves is doing it for fetish reasons

taking her out of context, because we are meant to pretend that an embarrassed child furry pissing themselves in a diaper is simply the art someone makes while harmlessly indulging and not active fetishisation of children and what she herself associates with children

kinkshaming (I've written about this already but nobody serious should take kinkshaming seriously as an accusation or concept)

[trans-ewenmontagu]

“Girl culture” and then it’s having periods or having breasts or having a vagina or having conformed to feminine beauty standards at some point in your life

[doingitatmybirthdaydinner]

well like yeah

[starkwoes]

There's this video of nuns talking about their favourite things to do outside of nun activities and one of them says "ultimate frisbee" and the other one goes "and sister you are so good at that." I literally cannot get "and sister you are so good at that" out of my head. Out of all my stims this one is my fav lolol

[merkredonn]

"I didn't feel like a man/boy"

"I didn't feel like a woman/girl"

You can't feel like a sex because they're not emotions or sensations. It's just a state of being. You're just uncomfortable and unhappy with gender roles forced unto you.

I can assure you most people, especially women, aren't happy with these roles either.

Not feeling "feminine" or not subscribing to sexist gender roles doesn't make you not a woman.

Same how not feeling "masculine" or "manly" doesn't mean that you're not a man.

[benyw]

People who know they aren't special or talented in any way gravitate to the thing that will make them 'special' with the least amount of effort. In this generation its literally just 'identifying as' special.

Also, there"s a ton of navel gazing and way too much coddling of feelings. They think about themselves so much that it becomes a habit, and their enablers cheerlead from the sidelines as they internalise a self-destructive view of their body. It also doesn't help that having specific mental illnesses has become haute couture among some feeble minded teenage girls and young women as of late.

[hst3000]

Any other presentation of this symptom is treated as a mental illness. You feel fat even though you're a skeleton? Mental disorder. Like your limbs aren't a part of you? Disorder. Like you're ugly or disfigured? Disorder (albeit barely since plenty of plastic surgeonsnwill happily prey on this one too).

But no, when that perception is sex (which you have no baseline capability of understanding anyway), it's suddenly stunning and brave and OBVIOUSLY is the body that's wrong this time!

It's the principal skinner meme. 'Am I out of touch and mentally ill? No, it's the biology that's wrong.'

[radredfox]

Tips for stopping shaving:

When you are told since the time you develop bodyhair that it must go it can be difficult to actually let it grow out. Unfortunately I am THAT feminist with sensory issues from autism who really struggled to stop shaving. Yes haha we DO have eyebrows that don't give us sensory issues but that's because its not a social norm to shave your eyebrows from the time they begin to grow. Making a physical change that feels different can be challenging for people like me and its sad to see my neurodivergent sisters being made fun of or judged.

So rant over. For my fellow ladies who want to stop shaving but have struggled these are things I've personally done to help myself that might help you too! I do promise once the hair is longer it should feel better, getting through the spikey faze is the challenge!

Feel free to leave any other tips in the comments!

Leg hair:

Wear looser fitting trousers or a skirt to help prevent friction on the hair

If you're feeling self concious remember a) no one SHOULD actually care, its your body so they don't get a say b) no one is likely to notice, its way more noticeable to you than anyone else

Make sure you soap up your legs in the shower while its growing out it can help the hair feel smoother and reduce the risk of any post shaving ingrown hairs, spots, etc

Remember that stopping shaving does also reduce the risk of cutting yourself with the razor, in grown hairs, damaged follicles, spots and rashes/razor burn. You are technically saving yourself from other uncomfortable sensory experiences by putting up with the spikrs for a few days!

It will likely only be uncomfortable for a few days as the spikes grow out and begin to soften, after that unless you touch your legs I personally find it relatively unnoticeable

Armpits:

Wear tank tops or loose fitting t-shirts to reduce the friction

Try to wash the area consistently to reduce the feeling of the spikey hair

You can use antibacterial wipes or a warm cloth and soup to clean the area if you are finding the sensation particularly irritating and can't shower every 10 muinets lol

If the hair is irritating consider using hair scissors to trim it rather than a razor, it can help you get used to having the hair present but with less density

Use fragrance free, alcohol free deodorants if you can, I find they are gentler on the skin and help reduce any overstimulation

Public area:

The spikey faze is definitely the worst, I'd use conditioner or moisturizer to help soften the hair, idk if it was a placebo effect or not but it felt like it helped

Wearing looser or cotton underwear helps reduce the feeling of friction

If it gets to a length that's a bit annoying I'd recommend investing in some hair scissors to give it a trim then washing the hair to help clean up

There's no shame in shaving down any areas that feel particularly odd, especially when starting out, give yourself time to adjust if need be

[anjomecanico]

Feminist discussion won't move forward if feminists don't collectively lose the fear of being called a TERF.

Credit: _m00nflower on TikTok

[ayaahh00]

​I am so sick of the myth that "men suffer in silence," because the reality is they don't do anything in silence. A man cannot occupy a physical, social or emotional space without expanding to consume it entirely. From manspreading on public transit to demanding the emotional labor of everyone around them, their existence is inherently loud, invasive and deeply entitled. They move through the world expecting the entire room to shift around their comfort, forcing women to literally jump out of the sidewalk just to avoid harassment.

​The idea that they are quiet, silent sufferers is a joke when you look at how much room they violently and casually steal every single day. If a man is inconvenienced, the whole world has to hear about it. If he is angry everyone around him has to manage his behavior. They don't suffer in silence. They make their presence, their entitlement and their general audacity everyone else's problem by default, and then expect a medal for "enduring" a world built entirely for them.

[radredfox]

Visibly not shaving as a woman is lowkey so wierd sometimes. I'm literally just being a natural human but I feel like the odd one out.

Wearing shorts at work because there's a heatwave and I can see my co-workers going 👀👁👁👀👁👁 all confused. Its a bit funny but also a bit sad. Like ladies please its OK! You are safe I'm just a bit annoying!

Anyway, resist the shave ladies 💪 its wierd but its also chill and funny.

[wurig]

can’t believe i’ve had a brain for a full year now <3

[theoretical-terf]

When we talk about "gay fetishism", the first thing most people think of is straight women fetishising gay men. They think of the obsession over heated rivalry, asking men to kiss each other in gay bars, and writing fanfiction about male characters.

But they don't think about straight men getting off to videos of lesbians getting raped. They don't think about lesbians experiencing corrective rape at the hands of straight men. And they don't think about how straight men abuse their bisexual girlfriends, how they force them into plots to trap lesbians in a threesome they never agreed to.

It speaks volumes that gay fetishism causes lesbians to be raped, yet people still focus on how gay men are made to feel uncomfortable by it.

Men feeling uncomfortable is considered the worst form of homophobia, but women being raped is barely considered at all.

[doingitatmybirthdaydinner]

TIM here has a theory on why we exist, and his other TIM friends join in and share their genius theories. they are so stupid, and so misogynistic.

[cordycepsfem]

I love that the first guy’s thought is that there are “better” ways to be a woman, and that he, a male, is a better woman than actual women. Because that’s how a man would see it - as a competition.

The best and only way to be a woman is to be an adult human female, something he will never be, which I guess leads to the cope, and to my laughter at reading this misogynistic slop.

[coralillough]

This is a female "he/they". I'm so exhausted by seeing these people become convinced that they're "bad at being a girl" when they're literally female.

[art-lover-genderhater]

gender ideology brainrot strikes again

[doingitatmybirthdaydinner]

"coming out as non-binary gave me freedom from the strict beauty regimes imposed upon women"

okay so basically instead of just ceasing the beauty routine, and continuing to be a girl, and asserting that girls can just not participate in those beauty expectations, instead you ceased the beauty routine, and continued to be a girl because humans cannot change sex, except you simultaneously asserted that you should be afforded the special privilege of divorcing from those beauty routines because you AREN'T a girl.

opt-out of the expectations imposed onto females, not out of femaleness. bc spoiler alert, the average person who lays eyes on you does not see you as an androgynous third thing, they see you as a woman who stopped shaving and doing her eyebrows, because that's what you are.

[kkoffin]

i wanna point out as well that the post implies that if you do continue “being a girl”, you are in fact failing if you don’t maintain these beauty standards. that if you don’t “keep up” with hair and nails and whatever else, lord forbid be GNC, you are doing something wrong, and you should no longer be classed as a woman.

anyways, to any TRAs reading this, radfems don’t believe there is any right or wrong way or any “bad” way to be a girl or woman. a man wearing a dress is doing nothing “wrong”. a woman who doesn’t want to paint nails or style hair etc is not “failing”. that belief is exclusive to trans ideology and conservatives. it’s gender-enforcing ideology. radfems are gender-abolishing.

[noblackwomannocry]

"if you accuse a trans woman of anything I will simply not believe you. by accusing a trans woman of literally anything you will get her harassed by transphobes and that is your fault. and also even if she did the thing by talking about it you're not doing anything about it so it's useless and I hate you."

"what if she's racist? I am a black trans woman and many white trans women are racist."

"you see oversensitive darkie this is exactly why I posted this. she probably has a very human and normal and understandable reason to actively be racist, which is normal for racist people. you can't help if she's racist. unless you are willing to personally put in the work to deprogram her racism why would you want to talk about her being racist? who gave you the authority to do that? what's that? this is actively harmful to you and other people she is being racist to? too bad. by talking about it to warn people or anything kiwifarms will kill her."