sarah

spread love

[yesimchxnging]

idk who needs to hear this but your nose looks fine. you don’t need a nose job

[fallingstars-suggestion]

i want to become a healthier version of myself. that means i have work to do and it can be a bit overwhelming. but i have plenty of time. and so do you.

it’s never too late to change your habits, to change your mind, to change your direction.

[5oil]

[pearltiare]

ugh i just luuuuv lace and sparkles and blush tones and rose gold and glitter and silk and satin and hearts and velvet and flower petals

[britp0p-deactivated20210628]

a list of very good things:

clean sheets

the sound of rain

really good coffee

nice smelling candles

clean hair

good books

wearing an outfit that makes u feel cute

talking with friends until 4 in the morning

a friend randomly pinching your cheek

complimenting people

seeing little kids play with their parents

nice, warm hugs

inside jokes

smiling at babies

good music

a new wallpaper for your phone

looking back at old pictures of people you love

the smell of outside after it rains

the smell of book shops

playing an instrument after you haven’t for a long time

moments where you realize you’re in love with the world

sunny, warm days

best friends laughing together in the mall

seeing amazing movies

reading a book you’ve wanted to read for a long time

really good food

doing something you were afraid of and having a really good time

getting ur eyeliner perfect

having a joke land just right

getting to know someone

a stranger reading your favorite book on the subway

ur package arriving in the mail

someone u rlly like texting u back

cute puppies and kittens

someone getting it

someone buying ur favorite thing/knowing ur order without thinking

“this made me think of you”

random good morning texts

telling ur friends how much u love them

finally getting ur braces off

really good writing

when ur house is clean and the sun is filtering in through the windows

the smell of ur favorite person

reading good poetry

getting to kno urself

when u get a good nights sleep

sleepovers with friends

little kids being funny with each other

new socks

coming home to ur dog/cat/pet

cookies

ferris wheels at night

going to a restaurant with friends and being too loud

being proud of something you made

people who light up rooms

understanding something after not getting it for the longest time

answering a question right

hot chocolate

good coffee

good smelling lotion

putting on perfume

taking a really long shower and feeling good after

moments where you feel whole and light

telling a joke that makes someone laugh

buying someone a gift

ur fav smell

[ojibwa]

[gloupblog]

Be happy for people. Especially the ones you love. No one is taking what is yours, whatever they have is theirs. The things that are meant for you, find you. Work to find them by all means. But jealousy will never bring you something that isn’t meant for you, nothing will x

[phoebe-does]

It’s okay to romanticise the small things about your day-to-day life. It’s okay to romanticise sleeping in, waking up to the sun tickling your skin. It’s okay to romanticise the texture of fingers against a page. Sometimes to save your day you need to romanticise sitting at a desk and working, or romanticise studying hyped up on coffee. It’s okay to picture yourself as if you were the mc in a movie. Watch yourself go through shit and know that it’s just the climax of your own story, and that while you sit in your room sobbing to sad songs, good things are just around the corner.

Sometimes to be okay or get through the day you need to romanticise the simple things.

[gloupblog]

Valid

[ziggyplayedd]

things that made me stop wanting to die that require no effort whatsoever

change the color used to highlight text on your laptop

move the pictures on your wall

stack whatever clutter is in your room into piles even if you don’t have time to clean it all

slightly vary your commute, even just by one street

change where you sit and scroll aimlessly on your phone even if it’s only to the chair in your room instead of your bed

drink water or juice out of a wine glass in the morning because nothing is real

shower with the lights off, without music

buy $3 flowers at trader joe’s—they look bad next to the more expensive ones but they look so good in your room

start typing things you don’t post into your notes. your thoughts can be worth documenting even if you don’t deem them worth sharing

wake up super early just once. you don’t have to make it a habit it’s just extra satisfying to go to bed that night

listen to the entirety of your favorite album from 2015

[sandersstudies]

Almost all of these are about variety. Humans need stimulation! We need enrichment! We literally cannot do the same thing every day!

The other day I was feeling miserable, so I hopped on a bus and rode it all the way back to where I’d started, and my brain, which had finally had some proper stimulation via new environments, was suddenly ready to go again!

This is why taking walks/drives and trying new hobbies are good for you! Don’t turn yourself into a sad zoo animal! You need some pumpkins to roll around in your enclosure!

[sunflorally]

back to school reminders:

your grades don’t define you

mental health is a priority

not doing some homework assignments isn’t the end of the world

turn things in on time even if they aren’t completely done

you don’t need a perfect GPA to go to college

apply for scholarships

drama is exhausting; try to avoid it

ask for help when you need it

you aren’t stupid for not knowing everything

not every friend is a real one

teachers aren’t always right

everyone makes mistakes

you can do it

[knifenymph]

i carry a lot of hurt in my heart but that will not stop me from growing and healing and becoming better than i have ever been

[cerencia]

start working out now. make that hair dresser appointment now. let your next meal be the healthiest you’ve ever eaten. move the furniture in your room right now. text that old friend or crush. make a new playlist. go on a run. open a window. it doesn’t matter what you do, no matter how big or small change is; change is change. and it will always, always, always help you to turn your life around and clear your head. it gives you that boost, that confidence to be a better version of yourself, no matter the impact it has.

[lovelysuggestions]

do not put up with passive agression. the people in your life should respect you enough to be straight forward with you. If someone does not come to you directly with an issue, it is not yours too fix. you can’t spend all your time picking apart your relationship with someone, searching for what you did, and blaming yourself when you don’t even know what for. it’s not fair for people to put you through that.

[skygenders]

getting over your hatred for pink is self-care

[afronerdism]

I love that we’ve all had this shared journey of falling in love with pink and realizing that it’s ok to like pink

[onlinecounsellingcollege]

Things to Stop Tolerating

1. Toxic relationships and environments.

2. Rudeness and a lack of basic courtesy.

3. A disregard of healthy and appropriate boundaries.

4. Being constantly used and disrespected by others.

5. Hiding your true self, or your personality.

6. Feeling bored and empty, or feeling life lacks meaning.

7. The pressure to “just settle”- and give up on your dreams.

[gloupblog]

It kinda hurts when you expect people to support you and to celebrate your small victories with you, to take you seriously when you tell them your goals, but everytime they don’t, even if it still surprises me a bit, I always feel a bit more determined. I know myself enough to know that if I want it I will get it, no matter how long it takes me. Bet.

[yesimchxnging]

please.