sometimes fire emblem sometimes other things

25, she/her (icon by @pasteladins, header by @avistella) writing: @bouquetwrites

[pasteladins]

Check out the Summoner's Server community on Discord - hang out with 5 other members and enjoy free voice and text chat.

Hello everyone!

I created a server for anyone who wants to talk about their Summoner OCs. I think it would be fun to learn about other people's OCs and a server seemed like a good idea. 🙏🩷

[imustbenuts]

how we feeling about brave alfonse folks

GOOD

okay

despair

Voting ended onAug 16, 2024

[ineffectualdemon]

Since the OP made their post unrebloggable (and blocked me. Both actions they are well in with their right to do)

I'm going to make my response it's own post because I think the point is important

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As someone who is autistic and has BPD and CPTSD and loads of trauma yes you sometimes need to change how you interact with others to keep people around

When I was 13 I hit the few friends I had when I was angry

I had to change that in order to keep those friendships

When I was in my early 20s if I was losing an disagreement with my husband I would threaten to kill myself. My husband told me it hurt him and was cruel and manipulative behaviour, because it was.

So I worked hard to change that to keep my relationship

It's easy to say "I shouldn't have to change for others" and that's true to an extent. You shouldn't change your interests or passions or dim your light. And you should have space to be imperfect and flawed and not have to pretend your ugly bits aren't real. But if something you are doing it causing other people harm you kinda need to change that.

That's called "living in a society"

People adapt to each other and make space for each other in their lives. You adapt to them and they adapt to you

You start being more diligent about throwing away the empty toilet roll because it really bothers them. They start warning you before they run the blender because you hate loud noises

I stopped threatening to kill myself because I was mad I was losing an argument and my husband stopped being so vocally judgemental amount media he personally dislikes

There is a certain type of person who heard the phrase "your emotions are valid" and took that to mean "my emotional reactions and my behaviour are always objectively correct because my emotions are valid and if you have an emotional response or react to what I'm doing negatively then you are wrong and you can't be hurt because my emotions are valid"

And that's a recipe for disaster

Your emotions are valid to feel. They are how you feel and there are reasons you feel the way you do

However, your reactions and behaviour are something you can learn to control and can be irrational

We live in a society and we as people change each other as we interact and that isn't necessarily a bad thing

[pasteladins]

Alfonse! Alfonse! Alfonse!

Summoners belong to:

@nightshademyn @bpdalfonse @yourhardloverbouquet

[pasteladins]

I look into your eyes and I Think back to the son of mine You're as old as he was When I left for war

[pasteladins]

Give up your honor and faith Live up your life as a wraith Die in the blood where you bathe We must do what it takes to survive

[pasteladins]

Wouldn't you like to have some of the magic? Wouldn't you like your outcome preferred? Deep in the night the fight can be tragic I'll help you conquer her

[sharenalovemail]

here's all the things i drew for Sharena Week the past few days! the meet the heroes artstyle is really cute, I'll probably try it out in the future again

[hulloitsdani]

SHARENA WEEK DAY 5!!! WHOOPS!!!

Forgot to add final details and hit export yesterday! My bad!

Here are the girls having a great time in a silly little modern au! Doing the lil Chainsaw Man dance because I thought it'd be cute :D

[hulloitsdani]

SHARENA WEEK DAY 3!!!!

An artist working on her largest canvas yet! The design is truly impeccable; proven by how if they were not sitting, it would have taken Kiran out at the knees.

[ayeforscotland]

Tumblr is doing some stupid AI shit so go to blog settings > Visibility > Prevent third-party sharing.

[jondoe297]

also use Nightshade and Glaze to protect your artwork and images!!!!

here's a link to Nightshade

here's a link to Glaze

best combination is usin Nightshade then Glaze on your images. Glaze creates a protective layer and Nightshade poisons the A.I. software.

[jellodorf]

This is what is happening behind Alear as he/she is busy monologuing at Sombron

[mango-fizz]

everyone keeps saying they want a new nintendo console and that the switch is reaching the end of its lifespan or whatever but am i the only one who like. really doesnt want that yet lol. i am not ready to drop 300-400 dollars on a new console again

[ballwizard]

why do coffee makers growl at you. What's the point of all that

[tragedyposting]

They’re called baristas and they’re working very hard, they deserve to let off steam however they’d like.

[takawbird]

an unbearable burden

[yourhardloverbouquet]

Having some fun on this April fools day!

[uhhh-ghouls007]

Chaotic good & chaotic evil of Philadelphia sitcoms