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Reminder for parents that though you may be struggling, it is never appropriate to use your child as your therapist/counselor. It’s unhealthy for the both of you.
Can I ask why? I’m genuinely curious
There’s a few reasons as to why its wrong.
For one, a kid is not equipped to handle a parent’s problems. I’m not saying to never express your feelings or say that you’re having a problem to a child. That can be healthy. But to use them to just dump on is too much. Children just aren’t equipped to deal with the heaviness of adult problems, especially if they’re already going through things themselves.
Two, the inherent power imbalance makes it really uncomfortable. Your child isn’t your friend, they’re your child. Even if they can offer advice, this sort of thing can become like a role reversal. They also would have a hard time separating themselves from it when it becomes too much. A lot of parents feel entitled to their childrens’ time and space, so the children can become overburdened with no reprieve and no way to express that this isn’t their job.
There’s probably more and better ways to explain this, but that’s my two cents on this.
Because I was the oldest child when my parents marriage was collapsing both of them used me to vent about the other, forcing me to justify their negative feelings about a person that I loved by virtue of their place in my life. At 10 years old I was attempting to negotiate the workings of an adult relationship that had never worked and validate their emotions without being harmful to the other. All the while I was deteriorating into an even more depressed and anxious reclusive child, losing friends and and missing out on normal experiences. I felt like I was responsible for the survival of their relationship, above my own well-being I had to figure out how to save them from divorce, from splitting the family up. I never felt like I had the right to tell them I couldn’t handle it. So I shoved everything down and became weirdly mature, too aware of the fact that I was an adult even if I didn’t want to be. Now I have severe anxiety, depression, and PTSD and I can’t even keep a job. I’m 28. Don’t do this to your kids. Please.
This is one form of whats known as parentification.
https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/parenting/wp/2017/03/23/your-child-is-not-your-confidant/
I can’t believe my dad thinks of himself as open-minded about genderfluidity but compared top surgery to “mutilation” when I mentioned wanting it, and said that my 17-year old sister is too young to hear about how I identify.
i dont want to see this artist on my dashboard fucking ever lol. (source)
reblog if you’re DONE with christian normativity disguised as “secularism”
concept: allistic people not treating autistic adults as children
Autism representation! Get your fresh, tasty autism representation, here! Available in two amazing flavors:
Semi-verbal little boy who’s “severely autistic” and is constantly freaking out and having meltdowns. He’s not the protagonist, and the story isn’t from his point of view-- but look at how hard everyone else works to take care of him! See, see! Look at how inconvenient he is!!
Some asshole who’s sad because no one wants to date him. “I really want a girlfriend, and being autistic makes getting one almost impossible,” he says, but the actual reason no one wants to date him is because he’s, like, really sexist, or something similar to that.
Finding out that I’ve got OCD has been so bizarre like it basically boils down to me going “wow I thought that everyone else was just really lazy and filthy”
you are not faking your gender!!
it may just be a phase but guess what? that’s okay!!
whatever you are feeling right now is real.
your label (or lack thereof) may not fit tomorrow, but if it does right now, that’s great!
even if your label doesn’t fit you perfectly, that doesn’t mean you’re lying! it just means that you are a complex person just like everyone else, and it’s difficult to describe who you are with one word!
try to take a deep breath and know that it will all be okay.
Just a reminder for everyone that Dril is a fucking Nazi and you need to keep him off my dash, I don’t care how funny, cute, or relatable it is.
Woah wtf!! This is upsetting but good information.
And a friendly reminder for anyone with friends using ((( ))) or bitching about “globalism” or “globalists” these are just coded phrases the alt right, nationalists, racists and neo Nazis use to reference Jews.
Have fun unfollowing/blocking these toxic people in your life!
hey gang thanks for sharing this information but ya REALLY gotta include a source,, https://twitter.com/dril/status/747822549069926400
man….yall gotta stop reblogging stuff from shitpost-senpai
what’s the lowdown? i’ve seen the url floating around but i haven’t seen anything really about them
and a whole lot more filth i’m not gonna fucking dig through
also found out that eagleman/steven-universe-official’s new url is puublack (he moved, his old posts will have the url oshama-scramble)
if you want to know why he’s bad, here’s a post I made 6 months ago abt him, and here’s a whole blog that documented a lot of stuff he did (admittedly going back a year ago, but I don’t think he’s ever apologised for anything - or, yknow, changed)
so make sure you dont accidentally follow or put him on my dash again alright
when your child comes to you and says “this is something that makes me uncomfortable and unhappy and makes me not want to spend time with you” and you respond with a 20 minute speech that boils down to “deal with it because life sucks” you have no respect for your child and you need to change your parenting tactics
i made this a month ago and the worst thing about it is that so many people can relate
teacupballerina draws porn of minors and ships them with adults
their main thing is blossom x aku. you can find some proof on teacupballerina, but all you need is ya-nasty-teacup, their nsfw blog. OBVIOUS TRIGGER WARNING FOR PEDOPHILLIA. Theyre pretty popular and its important to let people know about this.
@stop-ddlg-please @against-bad-ships
Oh yeah I knew about them for a while now. They harrassed me at a point before I had this blog and made fun of me having an anxiety attack. Yeah. Block them.
Teacupsballerina needs to get her blog fucking eradicated
Satan is homosexual, and God is only sending homosexuals to Hell in an attempt to set him up with someone.
Christians: gay people are filthy abominations and they’re gonna burn in hell for eternity Y'all demons: make this post
Tbh im glad im an atheist so I don’t have to believe in this bullshit. Aside from the homophobia, the prompt is just dumb as hell and not even original. Alternative (but better!) prompt: straight people are sent to hell to atone for their homophobic atrocities on earth. They must build countless statues glorifying Satan and his gorgeous husband.
Can writing prompts just stop accepting awful prompts about gay people. Like every prompt about gay people on their blog has been the worst and most of the time just some straight persons fetish.
I’m not even shocked that there are people in the notes who don’t understand why we don’t appreciate the idea of being sent to hell to have sex the devil
Like you absolute dipshits that’s literally what homophobes say
Farewell online privacy
What happened?
Trump happened.
just get a VPN?
You can’t just tell people to ‘get a VPN (Virtual Private Network)’. Buying a VPN is like buying a house. It’s very very important. Having no VPN or having a ‘wrong’ one can seriously damage your life. Especially for Americans because their privacy laws are garbage. I am going to try explain why you should get a VPN but bare with me, I am from Germany and my English is far from perfect.
Let’s start with a simple test. Click this link here: https://whatismyipaddress.com/ It will tell your IP adres, your ISP (internet service provider), and your location. The location might not be very accurate, but then again, it’s just a simple website. Imagine what the government can do!
So basically, everyone can find out where you live. But there is more danger. Your ISP. Your ISP logs your every move online and they are required to keep it in case the government wants access to it (or if a 3rd party wants to buy your data (yikes). They have everything. What websites you visit. How long you stay on a website. What you download. Your search terms. European laws are more subtle on this but if you are from the US you are #@*#&, especially because Trump doesn’t support the open internet. It’s scary but maybe in the future you can’t get a job because the recruiter knows your searched on ‘how to deal with depression’ or anythings else that’s supposed to be private because it’s your f*cking right. Or you get a $100k fine because you pirated a movie 15 years ago. You need a VPN. You’re dumb for not using one. but what does a VPN do?
A VPN encrypts all your data so if it were be intercepted no one can ‘crack the code’ and damage your privacy.
Usually being online goes like this (simplified): Your computer —-> ISP (—–> keeps data —–> sells it)
But with a VPN it goes like: Your computer —–> VPN (encrypts data)—–> ISP (ISP can’t see shit)
Furthermore, a VPN hides your IP address and location by giving you another IP address located in Spain for example (you can often choose from a list and change as many times as you want).
Now that you know why you should get a VPN and what is does it is important to educate yourself because people often choose the wrong VPN. VPN providers are also businesses and have to obey the law. If you choose a VPN provider located in the US then you are throwing your money away because the laws in the US shits on your privacy. If the US gov wants the provider to give all their logs they have to obey. The ISP still can’t see what you are doing online and sell your data but the US gov can interfere with your VPN provider so NEVER CHOOSE A PROVIDER LOCATED IN THE US.
I just wanted to make that very clear so my followers don’t buy false security.
There is still more danger! Who says your VPN provider isn’t selling your data? You need to check their logging policy. Do they keep logs? If yes, what for? For how long do they keep them? Tip: Choose a provider who doesn’t keep logs
More about law The US is part of the Five Eyes program (the worst):
The Five Eyes, often abbreviated as FVEY, is an intelligence alliance comprising Australia, Canada, New Zealand, the United Kingdom and the United States. These countries are bound by the multilateral UKUSA Agreement, a treaty for joint cooperation in signals intelligence (source)
There is also a Nine Eyes (bit better) and Fourteen Eyes Program (better). You don’t want a VPN provider who is located in one the Five Eyes countries. If you had to choose go for a provider located in a country that’s part of the Fourteen Eyes Program or even better, go for a country that isn’t part of any program!
I know this is a shitty explanation and please pardon my english but now it’s time to do your own research. Take your privacy seriously. Maybe WWIII breaks out and you get killed for liking the ‘wrong’ FB-page.
Go to this website: https://thatoneprivacysite.net/simple-vpn-comparison-chart/
Make sure that your future VPN provider both has green boxes for Privacy Jurisdiction and Privacy Logging.
I recommend ovpn.se and trust.zone. ovpn is located in Sweden so they are part of the 14 Eyes Program and they keep minimal logs. Their business ethics, however, are alright.
Trustzone is located in the Seychelles. No country can interfere and their privacy jurisdiction is the best you can get. The US want your data but needs to get it from Trustzone? The Seychelles will simply give them the finger and wave them goodbye. However, this makes this provider very appealing for people who torrent and criminals because they keep no logs (and that is how it shoud be) Also, there are almost no marketing efforts so this provider is one the cheapest)
Also, often providers such as ExpressVPN are being called ‘The Best’ on websites about VPNs but know that this is just marketing which also makes those provider more expensive (and they too shit on your privacy)
This must be the worst article you have ever read but please, please take your privacy very seriously.
EDIT: I got many people asking me which provider I use. For those who want to know, I use Trust Zone. They offer a free 3-day trial with no strings attached. But still do your own research!
I am also with Trustzone but I think you forgot to explain one of it’s most important features. It protects you when you are using someone else’s Wi-Fi. If you are at Starbucks and you use their Wi-Fi your privacy is at risk. Anyone with ill intentions could steal your information. Especially if you are using an unsecured Wi-Fi hotspot. With a VPN your data gets encrypted so no one can steal it.
Wait, what’s going, on? Did trump destroy internet privacy with a bill or something? Where’s the news? Oh wait, why am I getting visions of Alex Jones and selling water purifiers?
He hasn’t yet but he says he wants to. And if he is serious about it it would be really easy to do. Since all our data is already recorded, as the person above explained.
Trump wants more surveillance of Muslim Americans. This in a country where internet privacy is already close to non-existent.
Trust.Zone has a free trial. Use it.
btw this post only has 11k notes? That’s quite disappointing for something this important.
Don’t reblog this post to save a life. Reblog this to protect an entire family!
Stimming is basically like the irl and neurodivergent version of idle animations in video games.
