self discipline is so hard like. i know the sucker who's in charge...a pushover who hates authority and loves hedonism
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self discipline is so hard like. i know the sucker who's in charge...a pushover who hates authority and loves hedonism
i should be nicer to anons calling me an egg maybe it's their first time seeing someone even slightly gnc
i have to ask actually. what happens when you go in someone's inbox and go "omg you should try being a girl i bet you're actually a closeted girl" and it's a trans man. does that ever happen. what then
auaahhauhghhh awful awful awful
[Image ID: Anonymous Tumblr ask reading: I'm a trans guy who dresses goth and slutty and i get "omg estrogen would save her" like at least once a week. And when I complain about it people tell me I'm being transmisogynistic for not wanting people to misgender me and tell me to detransition. so yeah I don't talk about it but it fucking sucks /End ID]
ive said this before but my understanding of the "tumblr sexyman" is that the archetype originated via a website full of nerdy teenage girls taking their first steps into sexuality and looking for objects of desire in their zones of interest that felt "safe" to experiment with and landing on anyone resembling David Tennant. It has always been, to me, the fandom equivalent of the boy band dreamboats on the cover of Tiger Beat. It's in the name even. "Sexyman". A man who is sexy but not sexual. Someone you can stare at and sigh over and dream about but actual sex is still scary to imagine so hes just just standing there looking good in his waistcoat and slacks and whether he actually has genitals under there or not depends on how brave youre feeling at the moment
That's why it always felt strange to me to try and expand the term further than that cuz, for the most part tumblr users arent really teenagers anymore. we're mostly all adults now with presumably a better handle on our sexualitys and preferences. Senshi isnt a sexyman because you dont need a sexyman any more. He's just a guy you want to fuck.
obsessed w this fucking tweet
good evening. this is what i was doing when i learned i got twitch partner.
doxxing myself. I’m on a boat in the middle of the big blue sea near some islands and dolphins and other random nonsense
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DUDE
LAPTOP DEATH FILE PURGATORY IS OVER I HAVE MY CRAP BACK
however i do think i scared the repair ppl by materialising at their door in 3 seconds
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this is how we should generate power for cities
contextual storytelling from that sign in the back
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Something that annoys me is the constant whining about "more queer spaces, more queer communities" but then they're immediately like "yeah! And we need ones that don't cost money or require a purchase!"
Girl that's exactly why they close down after a year. You NEED money to keep these places open. There's no magic Gay Money Pot with endless cash to keep these places open. It requires YOU to put your money where your values are!!
Like there was a queer coffee shop in my city. Owned and operated by a bunch of LGBT people. Not a cishet on the schedule. Tons of young people raved about it.
And it made it about 2 years before shutting down completely. Because all those young people who begged for a place exactly like this would just show up, not buy a single thing, and leave. You cannot build a community without putting your money into it. This isn't about capitalism, this is just reality. You can't open a restaurant where no one buys your food. You can't have a gay bar that only serves 5% of the population and actively excludes everyone else. This is what I mean when I say people confuse "community" and "friend group." You're not obligated to spend money when hanging out with your friend group. But if you want a lasting community centered space, you need to open up that wallet.
...it kind of is about capitalism though and how capitalism killed third spaces. Yes bars and coffee shops and clubs need money, and there is a difference between friend groups and community; but also there used to be places that were not a business to go.
If capitalism didn't make it so the only option was "spend money at a business or don't exist in public" then a ton of people who don't have money to spend would have other places to go and be able to organize meet ups for free at those spaces.
People need third spaces and they don't exist anymore, as a result of capitalism, and acting like everyone is just being entitled brats, instead of the queer community having poor economic outcomes across the board, and facing large amounts of hostility in many public spaces combined with a lack of third spaces overall making a ton of people treat the very few non hostile areas as third spaces (something that's common in every community, cis hetro folks treat startbucks as a third space too) is ignoring pretty much every driving factor of the problem.
Idk how to tell you this, but "third spaces" have always needed money and resources and this fact pre-dates the invention of capitalism.
Churches run on tithes, because they need money to maintain the building and services.
Ye olde pub still needed to sell drinks and food to stay open. This is true in 2026, and it was true in 1600.
To a lesser extent, public parks still need tax money. You don't pay at point of service, but the resources have to come from SOMEWHERE. Someone has to maintain the grass and walking trails and playground equipment.
People keep trying to "WELL ACTUALLY ☝️" this basic and irrefutable fact. These spaces need resources, aka money. You can have fun fantasizing about a future post-money utopia, but we don't live in that world so can we please keep it focused here.
I saw a post on a terf blog before I blocked it from someone being like "Ummm is anybody else really concerned about the rise of antisocial kinks like pissing" and it made me laugh so hard I almost did a little antisocial kink myself
*goes to Coachella in a white linen suit like an antebellum lawyer, sweating profusely and dabbing at my forehead with a handkerchief* now, I’m no fancy scientist, but would you folk know where a simple gentleman such as myself could obtain some acid? Now, I’m no big city lawyer, but could any of you fine youths point a country boy such as myself in the direction of some fucking acid?
useless fucking softwaare. "the future" my cunt.
Dare I ask what in the goddamn fuck you were doing?
there is nothing more important than a dear friend you can be a huge fucking asshole hater with
steven is a really funny character actually. he never went to school. one of his powers is astral projection for no real reason. hes a musical prodigy. he was so traumatized by the end of the show they had to make an entire epilogue series about it. he spent seven years looking like a 3rd grader. he was even bisexual
he went to the center of the earth. he saved the world in flip flops. he broke his bones every day and didnt even notice. he killed someone
he didn’t have a bellybutton. he actively chose to eat super crispy bits of potato that got left in the deep fryer. he lived in a house but his dad lived in a car within walking distance of his house. he could revive people from the dead. all of his clothes were concert merchandise. he had an outdoor washing machine. he was put on trial for murder. he broke both federal and state child labor laws
The murder he was on trial for was different than the murder he committed
The murder he went on trial for was a murder his mom committed. The victim of the murder was also his mom.
he plead guilty
Who the fuck is that thing tolling for