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she/her Massive PAFL Fan Also like mythical creatures and such

[presidentdragon]

"that time of the month" "monthly visitor" "feminine hygiene products" GRRAH!!! SHUT UP SHUT UP!!! PERIOD!! MENSTRUATION!!!! TAMPONS!!! PADS!! MENOPAUSE!!!!!!!!!!!

[tyke-dyke]

VAGINA!!!!

[presidentdragon]

[lastoneout]

[friendly-asteroid]

Who wants to see my cat totally brave and not at all scared at the vet

[friendly-asteroid]

Excellent. Here she is, being super brave:

[totallyuniquelily]

[trans-ralsei]

[trans-ralsei]

[caughtthedarkness93]

I love my job, but reblogging employment jelly for someone else I love.

[gayaest]

🌈🍡🍭🍬🩷🍫 Kandi, bright and full of so much life ⭐️🍧🎨

[wilwheaton]

[entelechies]

#my brain deciding what information to retain

[ledybas-the-ledybest]

same energy.

[litafficionado]

“If you give children a vocabulary that’s large enough and complex enough to express their emotions and their ideas, you give them access to complex feelings and emotions in themselves. So that if you talk to a teenager and all they can say about how they feel is BAD, and they haven’t got, you know, a larger vocabulary for lonely, abused, insecure, frightened…I mean there’s this huge panoply which…I remember when my daughter was just telling me that she just felt bad, I bought her a thesaurus. I said, “Look up, is it sort of over lonely, or is it insecure…and look up under lonely, you’ll find two hundred words for lonely. Which one?” But what that does is that it makes you feel that there’s this huge complexity of emotions and there are words for all of them. If you want children to feel less frustrated and less disenfranchised and less unable to even feel comfortable with their own emotions, you’ll have to give them a vocabulary that’s as complicated as their inner lives. And one of the things we see in children is this incredibly reduced capacity for reporting their inner lives to the exterior world. One of the things is just teaching them poems, just teaching them to memorize poems in school, they don’t have to interpret them, if they just internalize the language of the poem, the complexity of the emotion in the poems…” -Jorie Graham, in a conversation 

[notaspy11]

I give these out to adults in therapy if they have any kind of emotional dysregulation. Can have dramatic results sometimes!

[hijabi-detected]

Drew myself as a princess <3

[ratsquinks]

miso loves pea fishing!

[ratsquinks]

i think it's very important for you all to know it looked like this behind the camera

[ooppo]

Idk why but as a kid I used to get hysterically upset everytime I would imagine a gif of a rotating cow because I could never stop the cow from rotating no matter how hard I tried and I would be crying and no one knew why

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[chetungwan]

This is probably an unnecessary addition, but OCD is missed in cases like these because it's deeply misunderstood by most people.

It's talked about like being obsessively neat or repeating pointless tasks is the main part of it, when really those are just potential symptoms.

The main thing behind OCD is not being about to turn off a thought. There's a thing where most people can just stop thinking about something. If it's over, it's not relevant, it doesn't matter anymore, people can turn their attention away. For OCD, that mechanism can get stuck. And some thought that was supposed to just temporarily pass through your head just stays there. An image of an object rotating. An anxiety about something bad happening. A wish that you made on a dandelion. These are all things that have at some point gotten stuck in my head, sometimes for years at a time.

The compulsions, the rituals, are the person trying to address the thought so it can go away. After all, if you're worried about the door not being locked you can check the lock. But for someone with OCD, that doesn't make the stuck thought go away. So they check it again. And again. And they made a ritual, maybe if I check it exactly five times, I'll know that it's locked and I can let this worry go.

It helps a little. It feels like you're doing something. But it doesn't solve the problem. Actual therapy for OCD involves not doing the compulsion. Instead, you ignore the thought, move around it, try not to give it space in your life. Your mind won't let the thought go normally, so instead you fill yourself with other thoughts. Other parts of your life.

It's not easy at first. Your mind fights you on it. But as you get practice, it gets easier. You learn tricks around your own mind, ways to look at the thought and go, hm. I guess I'll go distract myself now. It does get better. I promise

[ocdheritageposts]

OCD Heritage Post

[becomedog]

people with medical issues are not “putting a strain on the medical system”. that’s what the medical system is for. yes this includes people with substance use related medical issues and other people considered “undeserving” of help

[starlightnoelle]

happy golden week lesbians

[dumbassdaughterofdarkness]

​reblog to get collared, muzzled, and grind up against me

[complex-analytic-dysfunction]

[changeling-automaton]

Unironically I think this meme is really good for explaining why maths formalisms and notation are so valuable, even when they seem cumbersome/convoluted. It's an incredibly precise way to describe the interaction of a lot of related-but-meaningfully-distinct concepts, and this is a great showcase of that, thank you Lynn Chordbug you're the best.

[bigandlong]

If you see this on your dashboard, reblog this, NO MATTER WHAT and all your dreams and wishes will come true.

[jae-felidae]

Oh hey! Haven’t seen this in forever! Didn’t reblog it when it came across me before, not gonna skip it this time, I need some good vibes.

[little-lady-doeheart]

You will let me dress you up, right?

Sheer cotton chemise, lace-hemmed drawers, gently pressed against your skin. Silk stockings, of course, pinned up by the corset I'll draw about your waist- not too tightly, I promise!- then petticoat layers in sumptous lace, a bodice to be sure that we mind your modesty. Oh, stop fussing about your figure! We can shape that however you like. Most women do, you know. We've ruffles and gathers to fill out wherever appropriate.

Now, you may choose your favourite colour (within reason). Oh, is that so? Well I've several to match, but this one suits best, don't you think? No, I don't think it's a little much. Rather, layers of satin and crepe-de-chine suit you perfectly. Oh you look simply darling, you do, we're almost done. Silk gloves, for the season, and let me set off your eyes with ribbons in your hair. And perhaps... well, some might consider it a little gauche, but let me tie another around your neck. Perfect. You are simply perfect.

Now, come along, no shyness- I simply must show everyone my work.

[little-lady-doeheart]

...what did you think it was?

[little-lady-doeheart]

in hindsight i wish i'd made it more obvious this was an ageplay post

[little-lady-doeheart]

i am the lady of the manor after all.... you have to imagine the speaker here as your odd, reclusive and extraordinarily wealthy friend inviting you to her hundred-bedroom manse and putting you in dresses more expensive than your yearly salary for fun

[little-lady-doeheart]

as a fun aside this was the specific dress i was looking at while writing this post, so let that serve as a visual aide if desired

[jodiefosterwallace]

"this post transcends language XD" but it's a post with no english cognates at all

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[shadowblade8192]

[shocotate]

I broke a ramune bottle to get the marble out for my dragon.

[wickedwonderlandd]

The dragons face never changes, but I still feel like he looks happier in the 2nd pic 🥺

[wizard-council-bureaucrat]

The orb delights him

[toxiccaves]

[notajerusalemcricketd-deactivat]