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💔 Former RP account. 💔 💔 Angst lover. 💔 | Ace | 💔 | Hufflepuff | 💔 | Permanently confused about life | 💔 | Forgetful | 💔

[caffeinated-cryptid]

you know he had to do it to em 😔

inspired post by @sander-sides-posts on @more-incorect-quotes and original quote from snapcube!

[shortnfantastic]

He defend. He attack. But most importantly. 😈

[nachosforfree]

Prediction for the upcoming episode

[velcorvid]

YOU WERE FUCKING RIGHT HUH

PROPHET

[nachosforfree]

OMG I WAAAS

[lala-the-rebel]

Holy shit-

[quinintheclouds]

this is... exactly what happened so I have to reblog it a third time

[shortnfantastic]

OP over here called it

[catchymemes]

[linusbenjamin]

Christian Bale on Robert Pattinson playing Batman 

[samtf]

reblog to give a strawberry to the person you reblogged this from

[foodffs]

[foodffs]

Chocolate Lovers Chocolate Chip Cookies

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Is this how you roll?

[prinnay]

Animal Party

[cartiercoochie]

“Who still uses Tumblr”

I love tumblr. It’s my hideaway, no one cares for who you are, what you look like. No ones bothering anyone else. Everyone minds their business. No clout chasing people. Understandable as to why not many people use it, not everyone built for this.

[spaceshipsandpurpledrank]

Carrot bacon is a great bacon substitute

[journalofalatinwriter-deactivat]

People be mad cuz this lady is doing God’s work here teaching healthy substitutions 😒 like for real

[thefingerfuckingfemalefury]

I am going to attempt this! :D

[laughingfish]

I’m not vegan but I’ve never liked or eat bacon. But I love carrots…. I really wanna try this 🧐🧐

[animatedamerican]

I have no idea if this would actually taste anything like bacon but I feel like it would probably taste good. I think I might try it.

[legsdemandias]

When are we going to talk about how utterly over the top and ridiculous neurotypical advice for ADHD and sleep is?? It’s straight up fucking bonkers. 

Someone with ADHD: I really really struggle to fall asleep at “regualr times”, no matter how tired I am I just can’t seem to fall asleep at 10 pm!!! But I almost instantly fall asleep any time after 2 am. What should I do?

NT sleep advice: You, someone who cannot conceptualize time in any way whatsoever, need to identify TWO HOURS in advance when you want to sleep and, with your executive dysfunction that makes making decisions at will almost straight up impossible, make the decision to stop whatever you’re involuntarily hyperfixating on. Then, you, with a focus disorder that makes it so that you have to be doing something at all times, sit and do nothing for 2 hours. You cannot read. You cannot be on your phone. Do not move. Do not talk to people. Just sit and do nothing. If you can’t fall asleep it’s because you Did Something and it’s your fault. Bluelight 24 hours before you want to sleep is the reason. Never look at a TV, Phone, computer, OR let one of these objects be within a 24,000 mile radius of you. Never ever go NEAR your bed unless you’re already asleep. If you are AWAKE in your bedroom ever you will not be able to sleep. 

ADHD Sleep Advice: Get a job that starts at 2 pm or later and go to sleep at 4 am and wake up at noon. 

[whatevercomestomymind]

Half my life right here lol

[eddiescouch]

All my life I have had intense insomnia and all the sleep advice I’ve gotten has been like the NT bullshit. Everyone told me it was my fault and I wasn’t trying hard enough. I finally went to a sleep doc and she just laughed and gave me the ADHD version of sleep advice. She told me more often than anything else she prescribes people permission to go to sleep late.

[uncertain-delights]

Non-snarky question: does anyone have good ADHD sleep advice for someone who is not able to get a job that starts in the middle of the day? My sister teaches high school and is a single parent to an elementary aged kid. “Sleep till noon” is not an option, but there’s got to be something better than “so you’re just screwed, I guess!” or the aforementioned impossible nonsense. Brilliant ADHD folks, any ideas?

[nonasuch]

actually yes! For most of my life I have had horrible sleep habits, because not only do I have the classic ADHD delayed sleep phase pattern, but my goddamn hamster wheel of a brain would often keep spinning well into the early morning hours. Lots of nights spent tossing and turning, unplanned all-nighters in college, etc.

What helped was 1) anxiety meds and 2) melatonin. I have multiple timers on my phone to ensure that I take both of these before 10 PM every night, and if I’m consistent about it I can reliably fall asleep around midnight and wake up at 7 even without a morning alarm. (I still HAVE a morning alarm, obviously. not gonna tempt fate over here.) Waking up before 7 and being any kind of functional is still a challenge, but if I had to I could probably make it work.

Also, I have emergency backup Xanax (in a tiny baby dosage) for nights when my usual routine fails to silence the hamster wheel. I go through a 30-pill refill of that in six months or so, normally. Although 2020 has been, uh, a lot more anxiety-inducing than average.

(my last doctor’s appointment was at the very beginning of March, and at the time I asked to refill my emergency Xanax for upcoming election reasons. really glad i did that, y’all.)

[ajax-b1ue]

Melatonin is seriously great; remembering to take it is harder, but honestly? I have straight up given up on the idea of ‘you shouldn’t need something to help you fall asleep’ and am 100% behind ‘I am taking this for the rest of my natural life’ because you know what? It works. 

It seems so obvious in hindsight, but for me it was this huge revelation that the most important thing was getting a good night’s sleep, not ‘doing it the right way’. There is absolutely no reason why I (or anyone) should feel bad about taking a supplement that helps me do that. Melatonin is also a hormone your body naturally produces, and a hell of a lot safer than sleeping pills. And hey, it comes in gummies.

I will warn though, from personal experience, you do want to figure out what dosage works best for you, because if you take a higher dosage, it will put you into a deeper sleep. Which sounds great, but I was having an issue for a while where I kept waking up with neck and back pain, and I finally figured out— I was sleeping in awkward positions, but was in a deep enough sleep that I wouldn’t move around or adjust, and then I’d wake up hurting. I adjusted the dosage back a little and the problem instantly resolved. For reference, you can get melatonin OTC in dosages of 1-10 mg; I currently use 5 mg gummies, and will occasionally take two as needed, about 1-1.5 hrs before I want to go to sleep. Or… y’know, when I realize that I should be asleep already and forgot to take it earlier, better late than never.

And, best part is, you won’t need to worry about ‘unwinding’, or trying to lay in bed not doing anything, or getting your brain to stop going 90 mph— you’ll get sleepy, even if you’re trying to focus on something else. You will know when you’re ready to sleep (probably because you’re about to pass out where you’re sitting), and then you can just… lay down and go to sleep. It’s absolutely fucking wild.

[nonasuch]

You will know when you’re ready to sleep (probably because you’re about to pass out where you’re sitting), and then you can just… lay down and go to sleep. It’s absolutely fucking wild.

yes! I distinctly remember, not long after I started taking it, a night when it was 10:30 PM and I had the thought “oh, I’m tired. I should go to sleep now” 

and then my brain made a record-scratch noise because I literally could not remember ever having that thought before. and then I did it. totally unprecedented. 

[dancinbutterfly]

I work 7p-7a and have never been healthier or happier as an ADHD person

[googlemenot-deactivated20230921]

[dingdongyouarewrong]

at some point there needs to be a bigger conversation on here about the notion that suffering inherently makes you a better person

[dingdongyouarewrong]

so many perspectives here seem fundamentally based in this (very christian) idea that we improve as people through suffering. whether its godawful anti-abolition takes about ‘rehabilitative’ imprisonment, posts about how we need to bully the weird greasy freaks so they grow up normal and well-adjusted, media criticism takes about how good redemption arcs have to require characters to suffer horribly first, or insensitive posts about how abuse survivors are better for it in the end, it’s a dangerous and untrue assumption to make about the world. and so much stuff on here seems to rely on that belief

[teenagerposts]

(via tank.sinatra)

[fullcravings]

Spiced Pumpkin Pie

[endangered-justice-seeker]

[residentauggust]

i’m- THE JOY THIS GAVE ME IS INSANE

@crystal-exe @whatislifeanymore

[lexiecon-overlord]

All the other sides are busy so Logan got stuck listening to Thomas rant about how he feels about Nico when Logan gets curious and asks what specifically it feels like or what the “symptoms” are. Thomas describes the usual the blutterfies and the racing heart and—

Logan: That... can’t be right.

Thomas: What?

Logan: What you described. Is that not just the normal experience of being in the company of friends?

Thomas: What??? No.

Logan: But that’s how I always feel in the company of all the other sides...

Thomas: ......

Thomas: Uuuhh—

Logan: Am I missing something?

Oblivious!Logan.tm is best Logan.

[chibird]

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