🐡 bubblygubbly.carrd.co 🐡 they/he 🏳️⚧️ 🐡 20 🐡 PFP from derum and zern on youtube! 🐡 world renowned "Just Some Guy" ⚠️ i post about mature topics here but never explicit NSFW, account is 16+ 🐛🐛🐛 i am kind of a freak sorry
I'm nonbinary and a fan of soap. i have a personality and a shape and also my name is Wyatt and my account is 16+. I LOVE FICTIONAL CHARACTERS AND CARTOONS SO MUCH
i like drawing! ✏️ check out #my art! 🎨 in the tags to see
i won't post explicit NSFW (anything graphically sexual in nature or anything with extreme gore), but beyond that one rule, i do not limit what kinds of topics i post about on here. i will trigger tag the generally sensitive ones, however!
i go out of my way to avoid engaging in online discourse. this also goes for any mean-spirited kind of content! let's be nice to each other. (however i do often repost opinions regarding ethics and identity 🥸)
i don't recommend following me for one specific thing because i post whatever i want whenever i want to. im not an art account or fandom account im sorry!!! feel free to follow me for those anyway but dont get mad at mee
i have autism, ADHD, a lot of anxiety, and chronic fatigue + depression, so please be patient with me! i tend to respond slowly and get overwhelmed extremely easily, and i am subject to frequent shutdowns; not to say anyone owes me constant coddling ofc!! i just think it's worth mentioning in case i start acting erratic or something HAHA.
feel free to talk to me either thru my askbox or messages! i love meeting new people and talking to my friends despite how anxiety may influence my behavior to indicate otherwise! i just need time. a lot and a lot of time.
i struggle a lot with communication because my brains is Goo Sorry... i have a hard time with wording things coherently :---( if i say something that comes off as hurtful or disrespectful, i sincerely apologize in advance and that was not my intention!!!! i am still learning. please hold me accountable so i can improve!
im a rampant lifelong selfshipper. been in the loving game for quite some time now. if you are an off-putting fictional character, youd best hope you dont cross paths with me.
OC x canon is one of my primary interests! if you have a common interest in a character i like, I'm more than okay with sharing! i dont take it that seriously. love for everyone Yay !! 🌞🌞🌈
"Can you tag/add a warning to this?"
Maybe... i add warnings to posts featuring excessive blood, gore, drugs, etc and will probably not add warnings to posts with strong language or milder adult topics (suggestive imagery, light blood, light substance use like smoking). I refuse to add any warning for nudity unless the subjects genitalia are exposed. Sorry LOL
"What does this freak even do?"
Dont talk to me like that. I sometimes try very hard to make art! my mental disorders unfortunately make this process very difficult and i require a lot of patience.....
As for what kind art I tend to make, I'm very experimental with my work! Expecting consistency from me is a bad idea. I get bored of the same ideas quickly and bounce around a ton. I LOOOVE character design and character writing in particular!! i have so many stories and concepts, you have no idea. Anything character/story-oriented is a major favorite subject of mine.
I'm hoping to get around to game development, web design, animation, music production, 3d stuff, and more! Just need to kind of kick myself to the finish line u know
"Wow what concepts do you have in mind"
too many and theyre all unfinished, but I'm planning on making a webcomic! I ambitiously wanted (and still do want) to take on several massive projects that I'm not able to accomplish in my current state, so I thought a comic i can create on my own time would be much easier and a good way to start the road to self discipline... we will see how that goes.
I'd go in depth explaining all of my stories and characters but it sounds like a bad idea to put those here. I'll make a website compiling all of the information about them eventually i promiiiisee just give me 5 more years
"What do you like"
My interests fluctuate so often that i generally can't fully pin one down as if it's consistently present.
There's hardly any pattern in what I gravitate towards, other than the single qualifier of whether or not the piece of work contains a token character for me to latch onto who is outwardly antagonistic towards everyone in the cast and/or is generally just pitiable. Everything else is mostly irrelevant in quantifying how much i will enjoy a thing... this isn't an end all be all, though! I ALSO LOVE ABSURDISM AND ANIMATION.
I've known a number of non binary people in my life and I think single biggest conclusion I can draw from that is that non binary people are not the same. Like if Men fit in box A and women fit in box B, people really, really want nonbinary people to fit in a theoretical box C, and it just doesn't work like that. They are outside the boxes. They defy any simple categorization because they are not a third way of being, but every other possible way of being.
Being supportive of binary people is relatively simple, they have decided to sort themselves into one of the boxes that we have lots of experience interacting with. Being supportive of nonbinary people can be comparatively tricky, because you have to resist the urge to create box C and drop them all there. That's how we end up with various prejudices like "woman lite". Humans really, really like to categorize things. It helps us think. Unfortunately, sometimes it helps us think wrong.
If you have a non binary person in your life, I think it is important to take the extra effort to learn about them specifically.
Unironically I think the early to mid 20s age group in America has unbelievably bad consent boundaries on all levels and so much language to defend it but this makes me sound like elon musk if I say it however the commonality of someone who will be like “I had 47 panic attacks and it’s your fault” if you tell them no is insane
I rejected someone and got called “the scariest person I’ve ever met” with so much therapy speak interspersed like alright okay alright okay alright okay
“You just say whatever you’re thinking and I don’t know how to handle it” was verbatim part of this conversation. Also everyone hates to see an autistic bitch
When I was in this age bracket, there was a huge emphasis on improving consent culture via graceful rejection, and it's gone by the wayside. Which sucks.
Twice in my youth (once in high school and once in college) I was in situations where I was asking someone out and I could tell they were calculating in their heads the risks of rejecting me, and both times I said, out loud, "you can say no, I wouldn't have asked if I wasn't prepared for either answer." And then they said no. This wasn't some spark of special wisdom I had - I knew to do it because feminist conversations among my age group brought it up regularly. This isn't happening nearly enough anymore.
More recently, I was really glad when we got to "rejection sensitive dysphoria" in my IOP program and it was one of those symptoms where the therapists really emphasized how it affects others. Because it does.
Being someone who cannot handle rejection makes you much more likely to violate boundaries, and yes, that includes sexual ones. Yes, you, reader who has never hurt a fly. If you don't want to stumble backwards into sexually assaulting someone, fix your RSD meltdowns. If you keep them up it's only a matter of time. Because if you're nice enough to interact with, but are known to have RSD meltdowns, guess what happens when your friends and acquaintances need to reject you?
Ok but when you say "restorative justice" do you mean "hegemonic power structures need to provide ways for people who've done bad things to reintegrate into society" or do you mean "you, personally, someone with no hegemonic power whatsoever, need to keep forgiving people who've hurt you forever" because those are like. Pretty different.
it's shit i didn't even register before transitioning too. i went out with my friends to a diner yesterday, one is a girl and the other gets clocked as a girl, and when we went in and they asked for the name of the table they asked Me specifically. like looked dead in my eyes and asked Me. i was addressed when it orders and payment first as well. like. Damn. Okay. Shit
