rivers / fleur

ve / ix ++ , suspected hEDS + dx POTS , dx auDHD + medred BPD https://rentry.co/fleurri [ WIP !! ] icon by _ao3_ on twitter

[actualfleurri]

does anybody have any idea how to hide a rollator from my parents?

see below for more details!!

i have pots and suspected hEDS, and my cane isnt cutting it. my cane is foldable and can hide in my backpack, but idk how i can take my rollator. my parents dont believe my disability is “that bad” and they dont even want me using my cane. i need help :-(

im getting a drive duo rollator/transport chair that i would like to take to school. i get driven to school by my mom with my boyfriend, and i take the bus home with a group of people. i can maybe take the bus alone. i have a garage i can hide it in, but my main problem is that i dont know how to get it to school.

any ideas would greatly help. i can keep it at school but i want to use it after school ans at events

[actualfleurri]

HOLY GUACAMOLE GUYS ... i can get my very first rollator walker from a very kind person on facebook marketplace :3 i ' m taking my partner with me to pick it up just in case this is some freak scam and they want to explode but i'm currently doing cash comms in my area to save up the last bits of the money and EEK!!!!! im so happy!!

[actualfleurri]

guys i MIGHT ( keyword : might ) be able to go to a con in socal which is connected to a rental place that rents mobility scooters , manual wheelchairs , power chairs , and even ROLLATORS

sad thing is ill probably have to start saving now to get a chance at having money for both the chair and goodies at the con :-(

[actualfleurri]

why am i surprised my heart is exploding i literally have heart explode disorder

[actualfleurri]

my heart is so fast broken heart emoji ...

[fibro-memes]

[willtheweirdrat]

Here's to the autistics who are "way too aggressive". Here's to the autistics who get angry easily. Here's to the autistics who are impulsive. Here's to the autistics who have destructive meltdowns. Here's to the autistics who's anger ruins friendships/relationships. Here's to the autistics who can't control their emotions. Here's to the autistics who are bitter and mad. I see you, I love you (platonically), and I hope you have a great day.

[actualfleurri]

i love you wheelchair at the mall i wish i could wheelchair all the time because hips hurty ;-(

[actualfleurri]

i wish everypony knew i was semiverbal instead of having to like break through this huge barrier in my throat to say " yea lol im ok ^__^ "

[actualfleurri]

sometimes i blow over my own support needs and then realize ill die and have a heart attack one day because i actually dont have access to the things that can help me and im actually burning the candle at both ends 24 / 7 and would actually like to stop talking

[zebulontheplanet]

Im sorry, but a TON of you know fucking nothing about level 3 autism.

A lot of you like to go “but I can’t live fully independent and need help with some things so I must have level 3 autism 🥺” I can promise you that you being able to live with your partner and semi independently does NOT mean you have level 3 autism.

So many people have been watering down level 3 autism. And self diagnosing themselves with it because they need a bit more support then those people on TikTok need and it’s TIRING. I can ASSURE you that the majority of autistic people need more support than those big creators on TikTok because a LOT of them aren’t even realistic with their own support needs.

Level 3 autism means you need a LOT of help. It’s called needing very substantial support for a reason. People with DIAGNOSED and even UNDIAGNOSED level 3 autism are not only visibly autistic in many ways, but need a lot more support than you realize. A lot of level 3s are nonverbal or semiverbal (although some are verbal). A lot of level 3s need support in EVERY. ASPECT. OF. THEIR. LIFE. this doesn’t mean just reminders to bathe and reminders to take their medication.

No, this means literally someone hand feeding them. Someone physically bathing them. Clothing them. Handing them their medication and watching them take it or physically having to put it in their mouth. Constant care. This means a TEAM of carers and support staff. A lot of level 3s end up in group homes, residentials, Institutions. A lot of level 3s need help using the bathroom and this doesn’t mean just simply reminding them, no this means physically walking them to the bathroom and helping them in every step.

Not to mention the comorbidities that commonly come with level 3 autism.

A lot of level 3s don’t know how to use the internet. Although I’ve met a few who do and it’s totally possible! A lot don’t.

Stop fucking doing this. Look at the DSM5. Look at higher support needs people. Ask around. Don’t just say Willy nilly that you have level 3 autism. You needing support is completely valid, but taking the label from people who are more disabled then you it is not ok.

[pussysidon]

Something I wish more people understood was that it's not fun to stay home from school with chronic illness. I want to go to school and see my friends but instead I have to lay in bed in pain all day.

[actualfleurri]

since ive been very obviously sick for like ... 100 years ( a month ) , i ' m going back to masking because omg im sick and tired ( literally ) of being sick .

[chronic-lee-lizard]

Shoutout to disabled people who’s parents don’t believe in their illness

[actualfleurri]

i wish i lived a life without pain, for at least fifteen minutes. im always in pain. i barely notice my pain at this point, but its there. its constantly buzzing inside of me, screaming for my attention.

[actualfleurri]

does anybody else have like “ dream “ mobility aids they wish theyll have one day but probably wont ( at least for the foreseeable future ) because their disability isnt bad enough as other people who actually need that stuff

[actualfleurri]

sometimes im like “ i wish i could have a power chair , isnt it everyones DREAM to have a power chair !! :-D “ no fleur … its not everyones dream to have a power chair .