could we pretend that we’re in love

what if i just want someone to be my thematic mirror and ask them to kill me [about]

[historical-nonfiction]

A beautiful coffee cup and saucer, made to look like a water lily and its lily pad. And a visiting butterfly. Crafted from porcelain, it is hand-painted and hand-gilded.

Made by the Moore Brothers, in England, circa 1880.

[agendratum]

[gremlininho]

then & now ♡

[inthefallofasparrow]

[gaynehollander]

Are you ready to talk about how the deification of Shane Hollander actually works against him when he's outed or do you need a minute?

[gaynehollander]

Okay, minute's up.

Shane is unequivocally one of the top two professional hockey players out there; arguably the best. The way he reads the game is beyond most professional player's comprehension. He's catching plays before they occur, as though the entire game is on a second's delay apart from him. He's every goalie's sleep paralysis demon. He's a hockey player who hardly ever fights. His checks are legal, his recovery is swift. He's consistently near the bottom of the Penalty Minutes leaderboard. Chirps slide off him, his face stoic and focused, hardly ever engaging with them, instead just absorbing them and channeling them into his gameplay. He's every PR person's dream, giving the occasional soundbite without ever taking it far enough to be considered a liability.

Off the ice, he's never been the most approachable person, hardly anyone gets close to him. People are scared to approach him, purely because of his talent, and he doesn't make it easy for those who try. He goes out with the team sometimes but he never gets drunk. He doesn't sacrifice his performance diet for anyone's comfort. He attends awards and All Stars games but never contributes much to the conversations others attempt to engage him in. He would seem almost haughty if he wasn't so goddamn nice. It seems that, no matter how wide you search, no one has a bad word to say about him beyond him being a little awkward or annoyingly good at hockey.

He's completely untouchable. Hardly human.

So it is an utter and complete fall from grace when he comes out, first as gay, and is then outed as Ilya Rozanov's partner.

I don't have to tell you that hockey culture is essentially synonymous with toxic masculinity in many ways. Within hockey, there is a deeply ingrained system that celebrates violence, stoicism, and aggression; hypermasculinity is the expectation with violence being seen as a sign of manhood. This culture fosters a code of silence, marginalises women and minorities, and anyone who fails to comply with the express expectation of the "correct" way to perform masculinity.

As soon as Shane Hollander is confirmed as gay, every trait that was viewed as admirable, purely on the basis of his raw talent, becomes confirmation of weakness. He never gets drunk because he's a pussy. He's prissy about food. He doesn't talk because he's weird. He doesn't fight because he can't. He can't handle aggression at all so he simply tries to ignore it, to hide from it. He's weak.

Every oddity that was tolerated and even admired because of his prowess on the ice becomes a marker of difference. A reason to hate him. A call for "we should have known".

[gaynehollander]

Actually, I'm not done.

It feels like a personal betrayal because they didn't know. They didn't know and it feels like they should have. But they didn't. And they admired him. They looked up to him. They tried to replicate his play style, they commended his control, they wondered if they should adopt his diet but didn't know if they could stick with it. They fucking worshipped him. And a part of them wonders if that says something about them. The fact that they were taken in by this ruse; the fact that they worshipped a gay man. It feels like an attack on their own masculinity. And so men, who never learned to process an emotion other than anger, are suddenly left feeling betrayed and embarrassed. And because having to properly examine that, even for a minute, would mean having to reevaluate their entire worldview it all gets channeled into aggression, which is familiar and safe.

The deification of Shane Hollander makes him public enemy number one after he comes out.

[poorly-drawn-mdzs]

Memory, as Metamorphosis.

[henk-heijmans]

Donkey getting some shade on a hot sunny day in Greece - photographer unknown

[chippyyyz]

Donkey about to get the fuckin drop on father konstaninos - photographer unknown

[anzekopistar]

[hockeyheritageposts]

Hockey Heritage Post

[creekfiend]

in general I find that "why did someone behave this way" is almost always answered by "behaving otherwise was too difficult and frightening for them at the time," and then you have to dig into why that is. people behave in ways that feel 1. easy for them (do not require much thought or effort) 2. accessible to them (patterns that have worked many times before) and 3. safe for them (apparently predictable outcome)

this is true even for behavior that is absolutely horrific and totally unacceptable. which can be a tough thing to accept, I think.

[nasa]

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Learn more about the challenge in our FAQ. Happy Moon Joy June to all who celebrate!

[echo-bleu]

Jiang Cheng whipping the hell out of everyone while staying perfectly dry under his umbrella was a really funny picture in my head.

And I really love painting lights.

This is, I think, the start of a series of portraits, so I'll try to come back and add links and characters:

Jiang Cheng | Nie Huaisang | Wei Wuxian

[shanesbian]

saw this post and all i could think about was shane

[czech-hunter-reject]

Teeheehee, off to do my little schemes 😜

[czech-hunter-reject]

Teeheehee, on my way back home from doing my little schemes 🤪

[elodieunderglass]

Thanks for this @eloso!

[rowein1102]

I always imagined Fairy as a really big dog, like the wolves in Princess Mononoke. So, watching the donghua and the live series was a bit disappointing 😆

I drew her here as a big husky 💖

[welcome-to-the-safehouse]

VegasPete Safehouse Miniature

I combined my two favorite hobbies: making miniatures and worshipping everything Vegaspete.

The scenes in the safehouse are still very dear to my heart so consider this a little tribute. (With the added bonus that it makes and awesome nightlight.)

The little cage was a thrift find but everthing else is made by me.

The little book is a scan from my actual Childhood's End copy.

This is what it looks like in complete darkness. It's not perfect but it makes me happy everytime I look at it.

[catnippackets]

I've never met Adrian but I already like them

[nikoisme]

The beach is always changing. You could go to the same spot every day, you're always looking at a different beach.