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Alendis. Queer. Any and all pronouns are fine. Anthropology student.

[mypolitics]

[pjackk]

Dont be very woried about me since i deserve all of this

[beemovieerotica]

[beetroot-merchant]

im not a girl Unless ☝️ im being told to go piss

[pjackk]

Dont be very woried about me since i deserve all of this

[pjackk]

Dont be very woried about me since i deserve all of this

[pjackk]

Dont be very woried about me since i deserve all of this

[whyenn-reader]

firm believer you can't be a ''good person''. too much niuance to life.

[whyenn-reader]

you can be good (adjective) but you cannot be good (identity)

[whyenn-reader]

if you think you are good (identity) you are more likely to cause harm as you don't consider yourself to be capable of it

[patricia-taxxon]

the thing is, if your younger self was a bigot or an abuser, u can't make people forgive you. but you still gotta forgive yourself, like that's non-negotiable, dude. that happens before u can even ask the question of earning forgiveness from anyone lese

[patricia-taxxon]

oops, in your attempt to martyr yourself out of respect for your victims you accidentally sabotaged your own ability to conceptualize yourself as anything but a perpetual evildoer who is always one bad day away from hurting everyone you love, all but guaranteeing history to repeat itself. rookie mistake

[patricia-taxxon]

im gonna try explaining myself, cus im a gambling addict and im waiting for the day that it actually works.

"forgiveness" is personal, that's why I said in the post that you might inflict harm on people for which they can never forgive you, but that's their quest. if you abuse someone, you can't go no-contact with yourself. you actually keep living in your own head indefinitely, and ultimately you need to learn to live with yourself in order to continue living a full life without further harm. this is not necessarily an anti-carceral thought, although i am generally anti-carceral myself. I simply want people to like, fix their heart and atone for real with measured accountability & self love instead of dissociating, self-marking themselves forever and guaranteeing their recidivism.

You and a remorseful abuser would both think I'm giving the easy, coddling path. It's actually the tough pragmatic path in disguise.

[ship-of-fools]

[fagcrisis]

i hate the word spicy can we bring back calling things erotic

[maryoliveoil]

rolling up to Wendy's to get an erotic chicken sandwich

[lesbianshepard]

one of the funnier incidents of me assuming someone knew a meme irl was when a new coworker was talking about some woman who got arrested for tax fraud and I went "God forbid women do anything" and he got scared and thought I was accusing him of being sexist, so he started apologizing and saying how tax fraud isn't even bad, actually.

[deadpigdarling]

i'm a profoundly euthanizable mutual i imagine

[deadpigdarling]

i'm a profoundly euthanizable mutual i imagine

[deadpigdarling]

i'm a profoundly euthanizable mutual i imagine

[deadpigdarling]

i'm a profoundly euthanizable mutual i imagine

[deadpigdarling]

i'm a profoundly euthanizable mutual i imagine

[deadpigdarling]

i'm a profoundly euthanizable mutual i imagine