Alexanda-Bleak

Name: Alexanda Bleak Gender: Agenderfluid-Trans Girl Pronouns: They/Them or She/her

[hometoursandotherstuff]

[totalchaos]

i think its good to she/her the tgirl who doesnt know shes trans yet

[totalchaos]

i think its good to she/her the tgirl who doesnt know shes trans yet

[foolishmortal]

[syscest]

older headmate trying to flirt: when you made your pluralkit proxy I'd already had mine for years and sent thousands of messages

when you graduated highschool, well, you didn't do that did you? too new to have been there for that

yeah i had months of dormancy and you haven't even been here as long as that! ur so cute and young~

[chromaticabrasions]

"oh yeah you should watch this show! its on-" it doesnt matter. it is on the little site in my computer. for free

[kittycatutaite]

Small reminder that DID is often a covert disorder and overt DID is actually pretty rare. A person could go their whole life without knowing they have DID because that's the point. You do not need to know who you are all the time or who's fronting or need to feel like you're a faker because you act the same pretty much all the time. You do not need to act drastically different between your headmates to be valid.

[demilypyro]

was talking about this the other day. gender bender porn barely qualifies as a fetish for trans people. that's just like the missionary position to us

[demilypyro]

i do sometimes indulge in A but only if it's really good. guilty pleasure type shit. I have trauma I'm allowed

[demilypyro]

jacking it to gender bender porn but shaking my head every time they say some shit about how it's a woman's nature to be submissive to show that I don't agree

[demilypyro]

and you're real as hell for that amen

[irondive]

[hometoursandotherstuff]

[wykart]

what do you mean my disability disables my abilities? what the fuck

[lifeafterpsychiatry]

"If it really was that bad, someone would already have diagnosed it-" Have you guys never heard of systemic ableism?? The concept of medical neglect is a stranger to you??

[bebsi-cola]

you know what, "because i'm in pain" is a good enough reason as any. why do you want to take meds? in pain. why do you wanna cancel? in pain. why didn't you want to talk? in pain. yeah don't be a jerk to everyone you meet and expect them to welcome that. but why were you being a jerk? in pain. it's a reasonable explanation. being in pain should be enough of an explanation. it should be considered an immediate problem that we try to fix as soon as possible instead of expecting the vast majority of people alive to just get on with it.

[importantcatpics]

[rickybabyboy]

secret methods

secret reasons

[thememedaddy]

[morganitism]

A lot of plurals are gonna really hate hearing this one but your "exomemories" or whatever don't bypass material conditions of the real world. Material oppression doesn't suddenly change based on who's fronting, sorry 🤷🏿‍♀️. If your body was AFAB then you cannot have a transfem alter. Your alter is a cis woman or demigirl or fem-aligned enby, but the material conditions required to be transfeminine automatically eliminate anyone who was AFAB. Your alters are not a different race or ethnicity from whatever your body is, stop trying to make excuses to say racial slurs. No, having a fictive who was transfem and/or racialized in the source material doesn't make you transfem or racialized because again, the material conditions are different. You will never be qualified to speak on transfeminine or racialized experiences no matter how much you try to progressive speak your way into it and I'm sick of people trying to use plurality as a bandaid for their own birthday boyism or white fragility. Get over yourself and start giving your money to actual transfem and racialized plural people as an apology for trying to put yourself on the same level as them.

[tankie-transfeminist]

I am plural as well and this shit pisses me off.

This is transfeminism!

[catilinas]

everyone i've talked to about this has been completely unaware so: if you didn't know already, there's going to be a solar eclipse, with totality or coverage of 90% or more in some places, over a lot of europe, on august 12th 2026. in the uk it will start just after 6pm, and the maximum will be at 7:13pm.

here is a map of the path of the eclipse (from timeanddate)

get eclipse glasses if you want to look at it. it is not safe to look at through sunglasses. ok informative post over o7