what are some of your favorite writings on romance? i read the tsitp one you'd linked in one sitting and was absolutely hooked
yayyy i'm so glad you liked it. sincerity & melodrama forever. my recs below hope you enjoy !!!
ok first of all i would like to recommend my mutual sexcromancy's AHU (ali hazelwood universe) tag that explores romance conventions and the sociopolitical implications of their execution across. well. the ali hazelwood universe ! & also the publishing industry . & classics . and the mainstream reception of & views on romance . really fun & comprehensive a cornerstone of my enjoyment in hetromance so far
i really liked this essay on how white fear killed the romantic comedy bc it talks abt how racism is kind of foundational to popular romance in a way that's (as edward said has called it) "productive" to its reactionary sentiments & of course purposefully limiting from a feminist & antiracist perspective. discussions of race in romance are so interesting to me it's why i enjoy rgu & heated rivalry so much -- even if the text itself only hints at the race relations driving the frictions between the characters, the way they are baked into the very premise of the story allows for enriching readings for the reader/viewer
speaking of racialization in romance i have to recommend edward said's essay on mansfield park which may not be directly abt romance but given austen's position in the landscape is an essential read nonetheless, imo.
also this essay on the racist overtones of the bodice ripper felt like a breath of fresh air for how it charts the implications of such a popular & problematic romance trope (all romance tropes are problematic in the sense that there are problems posed & problems solved.......racialization is foundational to the way these problems are posed and solved. helen from pluribus voice make raban the love interest sexy & alluring ! give him dreads ! like. it's inescapable)
of course you can't talk abt western hetromance without talking about sex & the city. i forgot how funny andrea long chu is but this essay reminded me
It's a strength of the show, then, that it never wastes any of its runtime trying to persuade us that men are desirable, either individually or as a class. The men on this show are not expected to talk, and certainly not to make conversation. They are whisked through montages, like politicians into SUVs, the music and narration huddling around them protectively. Mercifully, we are never put through the agony of having to go on a fully realized date with any of them. They are not people; they are examples. Their job is simply to be there.
this essay is kind of just propaganda for the book games, yes. (which i have not read (yet?)) but it also crystallizes a specific approach to hetromance (dialectics.......) that i love to ponder
i know you asked for readings but i love bazazilio's video essays on the romance genre particularly this one abt dark romance & this one abt passivity in romance protagonists. recommending these bc not only are they rlly interesting they also serve as a jumping off point--nearly everything she cites warrants further exploration. my kind of media rabbit hole
romance is predictable. we love romance for being predictable
i have not talked abt gay romance yet & that is bc my reading is lacking in that regard.......but this article abt lesbianism in shoujo i really loved
the promise of happiness. yes i keep proselytizing bc it's that good & also has a chapter on romance if you wld just like to stick to that
sexuality beyond consent: risk, race & traumatophilia. i've been meaning to read this foreverrr the excerpts so far have blown me away
territory of desire: representing the valley of kashmir. for the relationship between romance fiction & colonialism (watch haider)
playing in the dark for the way it talks abt the role Blackness plays in conceptualization of the Other in the american literary imagination -- very relevant to a literary tool as widespread as the romantic framework used often as a microcosm of larger social/political dynamics
i could go on but that's enough for now i think. happy reading ^_^
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