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hinasho

The true crime filter 💀

blogalahezy

forgottenbones

omercifulheaves

Night on Bald Mountain study

Art by Frank Frazetta

redstonedust

if vampires existed in real life i think there would be shady companies advertising "organic blood" sourced from "willing donors" who are coincidentally all poor people being paid like $5 per blood donation. and like haughty vegan vampires who only drink a synthetic blood drink thats brewed in a way thats actively worse for the enviroment. and radical traditionalist vampires who go on tiktok and claim that true alpha chads have to drain and kill people and anyone who leaves their victims alive is a liberal cuck. enter the world of hypothetical insufferable vampire politics with me.

goldengamer2500

worldscoolest

capacity2

She found some 🌿🌱🍃 thank god

lolastung

These violent delights have violent ends. And in their triumph die, like fire and powder, which as they kiss, consume. The sweetest honey is loathesome in his own deliciousness. Therefore, love moderately. Long love doth so. Too swift arrives as tardy as too slow. ROMEO + JULIET (1996), dir. by Baz Luhrmann

reticent-vampire

Do you now?

charlibal

A strong MAN

librarycards

i think it's very important that people know how common undereating is, esp. for feminized people, and how the lower calorie requirements for "women" are bullshit. you don't need to have a restrictive eating disorder (a psychiatric disability in which your relationship with food + body image is dangerous to your health [sometimes deadly] and prohibits you from participating in your daily life, forming relationships, and so on) to not be eating enough.

you could go your whole life not eating enough and not die or get really sick, but just be tired and grumpy a lot, or perform worse, or have brain fog, or a million other things. like there are so many gradations between "should have a snack" and "has a severe eating disorder". maybe you don't have an eating disorder, but you should still start eating more than iced coffee for breakfast. try it sometime!

theslightestbitofahint

OP is right.

My sister "was an overweight teenager" and started limiting what and when she ate in her early 20s. She was soon very excited to be "skinny." I was happy for her; I'd seen how much the bullying had hurt her and it's something she's still healing from in her mid 30s.

I started offering her snacks one day while we were hanging out. She told me she was good and I didn't press it, but I also didn't let the fact that she didn't accept a snack keep me from having a snack. I offered here a bite again when there was just enough left to split between 2 people and she accepted. "Alright, you talked me into it" with a lighthearted laugh.

She's still healing, like I said. It's a few years later and now she ALWAYS says yes to a snack. We don't have big servings of "junk" foods, but we'll have mixed nuts or fruit until they're all gone. She texts me all the time that she has more fun with me than most people. I say the same to her because it's true, and a part of me smiles knowing it's because she'd consumed enough food to enjoy the experience. Or, at least, more food than she probably would have otherwise which helped her body feel better during and after we hung out.

librarycards

As someone who is trying to heal their bodymind somewhat from 12+ years of severe malnutrition/anorexia, I’m incredibly touched by the gentleness and care you offered your sister. Often people approach people with eating disorders with very paternalistic, violent solutions that require violating our trust and our consent. I can tell that you love her for who she is, even when she is struggling. She’s very lucky to have you, and I hope that in the future, more ppl with EDs have comrades like you in our corner. I mean it.

threeninesfine

chirp-featherfowl

if infinite monkeys on typewriters will eventually write shakespeare then surely 100 million americans with pistols will eventually successfully assassinate the us president

galactic-mayhem

saw this on pinterest but i think it belongs here too

vinnie-vindictive

this will never not be important

jackkdaniels

when i was a kid i decided that killing people was bad therefore war was bad therefore the military was evil. and adults would tell me it's more nuanced than that and i would understand when i grew up. well i'm a grown up now and idk i still think that killing people is bad and war is bad and the military is evil