stop calling me ace you dumb fucks

im ouma and im an ace exclusie. im an adult, he/him pronouns preferred (it/they also okay) dont follow if ur gross //_nb male aligned and gay

[icoffin-moved]

ace inclusionists are really so far up their own asses that they think anyone who disagrees with them doesn’t deserve to be lgbt and it just kinda proves that they see our community as a cool club rather than a space we founded out of fear and necessity lol

[sweetheartfemme]

you’re right and you should say it

[estradiol]

New non sexual vore pride flag looks great !

[aphobekokichii]

[aphobekokichii]

also ‘your faves are ace’ really annoys me cause youre really out here calling gay characters, canon or coded, asexual. or even fucking demisexual. like it really pisses me off cause you claim to not hate gays yet here you are completely invalidating characters identities

[soacethetic]

So… if they’re straight up erasing identities than that isn’t cool, and I’ll check em out. But this ask operates under the assumption that ace and gay identities are mutually exclusive and they aren’t. U can be a gay ace. Gay aces aren’t less gay

[aphobekokichii]

yeah you can be gay and ace this isnt what this post is referring to. gays who arenr ace and are canonically just gay. people keep erasing their identities.

[soacethetic]

But that is what this post is about. Ur saying that gay aces hc-ing canon gay charas as gay aces is erasing their identities. That implies that gay aces are less gay than non-ace gay ppl. There’s no way this post stands without that implication.

Like unless the headcanons r ‘this gay character is aroace actually’ i don’t understand how this is a problem.

[aphobekokichii]

are you saying that my post, that i wrote with my own two hands, that i know what im writing, is actually not what im writing about

[estradiol]

tumblr geeks who have never had sex are turning top/bottom into personality traits so like it won’t be long til people unironically have “messy bottom” in their bio and then be like “I’m ace”

[birdsagainsthumanity]

hi op is literally an aphobe and exclusionist lmao

[pussywlzard]

OP literally has common sense lmao

[aphobekokichii]

also ‘your faves are ace’ really annoys me cause youre really out here calling gay characters, canon or coded, asexual. or even fucking demisexual. like it really pisses me off cause you claim to not hate gays yet here you are completely invalidating characters identities

[soacethetic]

So… if they’re straight up erasing identities than that isn’t cool, and I’ll check em out. But this ask operates under the assumption that ace and gay identities are mutually exclusive and they aren’t. U can be a gay ace. Gay aces aren’t less gay

[aphobekokichii]

yeah you can be gay and ace this isnt what this post is referring to. gays who arenr ace and are canonically just gay. people keep erasing their identities.

[aphobekokichii]

hello yes i love this blog and love you thank you for doing gods work

thank u god put me here for a reason and it was to run this blog

[estradiol]

Asexual about to say something homophobic on tumblr: *sigh*

[aphobekokichii]

anon im sorry youre upset at me for being a double........... get well soon xoxo

[aphobekokichii]

nah you ain't ouma. you act nothing like him its pretty embarrassing that you would claim to be him, cracker.

are you starting kin drama with me fr lmaooooooooo

[aphobekokichii]

you will never be ouma. you are more like hifumi.

umm anon did you mistake my ask box for your own?

[aphobekokichii]

also ‘your faves are ace’ really annoys me cause youre really out here calling gay characters, canon or coded, asexual. or even fucking demisexual. like it really pisses me off cause you claim to not hate gays yet here you are completely invalidating characters identities

[crazy-acey-in-spacey]

i’m not doing that.

i’m not doing that.

i’m not doing that. 

ALL YOUR FAVES ARE ACE!

[dominic-things]

How to spot someone with no personality or interests that wants attention.

[inclusionistculture]

inclusionist culture is adding 18 letters to the acronym and getting offended when people say “you forgot the L”

[aphobekokichii]

if youre really here in 2019 saying straights aren’t lgbt then turning around and saying cis heteromantic aces / aro heterosexuals / het demisexuals are lgbt then buddy we’re gonna have a fucking problem here

[aphobekokichii]

nope, this was intentional. this was for inclusionists to see. i have more than two brain cells this wasnt a mistake

[aphobekokichii]

actual homophobes : the queers should die and im the one killing them

exclusionists: while we can reclaim queer, some of us are not comfortable with being called it because it is still a slur. sga and/or trans people who are comfortable being called it are valid, but cis heteromantic aces / cis aromantic heterosexuals / cis aroaces are not able to reclaim queer because aro / ace just means lack of attraction and we would rather that cishets or cis aroaces call themselves queer because they're still straight (or aroace.)

dumbass woke inclusionists: these two are the same apparently

[transcephalopod]

exclus: aces, while valid, can be cishet and therefore are not inherently LGBT

TERFs: we hate and literally want to kill trans women/deny them the ability to transition/refuse to allow them safe spaces that they’ve always been included in/harass them mercilessly

dumbass inclus: these are The Same Thing, Actually

[allosapphire]

imagine having 0 brain cells and thinking cus u don’t want sex on the first date ur lgbt, which implies that u think being lgbt has anything to do with the desire/lack of desire for sex